After making a plan, Su Keke stopped worrying about Jun Nanyu and took the initiative to change the topic and asked the two of them, "Why hasn't Xiaoxu come back yet?"
Shan Li gave her a "you know" look, "It's strange that a young couple fell in love and came back so soon. But"
Shan Li lowered her voice and said, "These two don't seem to be as friendly as before."
Su Keke was startled and immediately asked: "What kind of conflict happened?"
When she saw Li Xiaoxu in the past two days, she looked really worried.
Xiao Yu joined the topic, "I know, I know, although Xiaoxu hesitated not to say it, but conflicts in love are nothing more than those problems.
Long-distance relationships at different schools do not exist. She and Senior Lu have dinner together every day and study in the evening together. There is no third party either. I have never heard that Senior Lu is close to other girls. As for Xiaoxu, it is even less possible.
.She is so conservative and doesn’t usually talk to the boys in her class.
But the problem lies in this conservativeness. What do you mean by falling in love? Is it platonic love?
Any boy who doesn't have desire, especially for the girl he likes, must be thinking about...that something, right?"
When saying this, Xiao Yu looked specifically at Su Keke, an experienced married person.
Su Keke "..."
Su Keke coughed and nodded: "That's true."
The big-tailed wolf at home is a carnivorous animal. Before he started eating meat, he was fine and could tolerate it, so much so that he was nicknamed the Ninja Turtle by Qin Junchi.
However, once meat is eaten, the desire of the big-tailed wolf is like a wild horse that cannot be contained.
Thanks to Su Keke's good physique, otherwise she really wouldn't be able to satisfy this old man who has been holding back for many years.
Xiao Yu continued: "You have also seen Xiaoxu's character. In today's society, it can be said that it is conservative to the point of rigidity. These two people have been dating for so long, probably to the extent of hugging and kissing. It is as pure as high school.
It's the same as falling in love.
This kind of relationship is okay if it lasts for a short time, but if it lasts for a long time, which boy can stand it? No matter how much you like it, you will still have grudges."
Su Keke didn't quite agree, "If you really like someone, you can endure anything for her, let alone just desire."
Xiao Yu snorted, "Are you a man? Do you understand men?"
Su Keke choked and said: "I'm not, but I have it at home, and my good friend's home has it too."
Although Uncle Qin always took advantage of her, when she took the initiative to seduce him, he could endure it for the sake of her body. Doesn't this explain the problem?
There is also Leng Yue. Before marrying Daxing, he promised not to touch her until he came of age. He has always done so, being polite and never breaking the rules.
I like it not because of desire, so why can’t I endure it? Is it because of this that the relationship has deteriorated? xdw8
Su Keke couldn't understand.
Xiao Yu clicked her tongue, "Keke, that one in your family is probably an outlier among men, you've found a treasure!
But I want to say that you really don’t understand men. The more you like someone, the more you want to get close to her. If the person doesn’t want to, it will make him feel that the other person doesn’t like him enough. Otherwise, why wouldn’t he surrender himself?
That’s the contradiction.”
"Really..." Su Keke suddenly realized that Mr. Qin was really extremely indulgent and considerate towards her back then.
The topic ended not long after, because the main protagonist Li Xiaoxu came back.
Su Keke glanced at her a few times and wanted to say something, but in the end he didn't.
When it comes to things like falling in love, other than trusting each other, she seems to be unable to give any specific advice. After all, everyone's situation is different.
Su Keke didn't say anything, but she didn't expect Li Xiaoxu to take the initiative to find her.
"Keke, you are here and I want to ask you a few questions." Li Xiaoxu said.
"I know what you want to ask. You want to ask me, should I give myself to him?"
This question was a bit out of line. When Su Keke said it so seriously, Li Xiaoxu blushed instantly.
She smiled awkwardly, "What do you think, Coco? What should I do? I want to leave the first time to my future partner, but I'm not sure if the senior and I can get to that point.
Now that I am a sophomore and he is a senior, our majors are still different. It is really hard to say what the future will be like.
I know you all think I'm conservative, but... I'm just conservative, and it's hard for me to take that step."
Su Ke could see that her expression was a bit ashamed, so she lowered her voice and said in an elder's tone: "Don't feel ashamed, there's nothing wrong with being conservative.
I think it may be that Senior Lu has not given you enough sense of security. You can plan the future together and come up with a five-year plan.
You can tell him your thoughts boldly, and if he can eliminate your uneasiness and give you enough sense of security after understanding your thoughts, I think you can try to take that step."
Su Keke thought for a while and added: "Anyway, just follow your feelings, as long as you don't regret it in the future."
As she said that, she couldn't help but grin, "Before I met my Chenchen, I thought about getting married and having children in my thirties or forties, but instead, I ended up getting married early."
Li Xiaoxu showed a bit of envy, "That's great."
"He has stabilized, so I don't have to think about anything. But in a situation like yours and Senior Lu's, wouldn't it be wonderful if we could work together to make progress together and plan a future that neither of us had ever imagined?"
Li Xiaoxu smiled sheepishly, "Keke, I knew it was right to look for you. If I looked for Li Zi and Xiao Yu, they would probably say that they should let me directly become a senior, criticize me for being pedantic and living in a feudal society, and then give me
Inculcate a bunch of concepts of equality between men and women.”
Su Keke said: "Everyone's growth environment is different, and their ideas are naturally different. There is no need to follow the crowd."
"Coco, thank you."
"You're welcome. While chatting with you, I suddenly figured out something."
Su Keke smiled slightly and narrowed his eyes.
She figured out that since she couldn't figure out what Jun Nanyu was up to, she would take the first step and do something to this person.
But in this case, she couldn't find someone through Uncle Qin, she had to find a way to see Jun Nanyu on her own.
Xiao Yu is now a fan of Jun Nanyu, so Su Keke asked her about Jun Nanyu's recent itinerary. Unexpectedly, he asked her easily.
"Keke, did you suddenly realize that your brother is so good that you want to join the taro family?" Xiao Yu was surprised at first, and then sighed excitedly: "My brother's charm is indeed endless!"
Su Keke laughed dryly, "How should I put it? I plan to get in close contact with him and then decide whether to follow this person or not."
"Okay! Shall we stay together? My brother will participate in the recording of "Idol Magnifying Glass" the night after tomorrow. The recording location is in this city. We didn't get tickets to the scene, but we can stay outside. My brother is such a gentle person, then I will
If you yell loudly, he will definitely look over, believe it or not?"
"In the evening?" Su Keke pursed her lips, "Okay, I'll leave it to you."