Kitahara Shuji is a thoughtful person. He cannot guarantee that his answer to a friend's serious inquiry will be correct, but he must ensure that it must be the result of careful consideration - this is responsible for his friend and his own character.
Be responsible.
After he lowered his head and pondered for a long time, he faced Yuuma Uchida's somewhat uneasy and Ritsu Shikishima's expectant and anxious eyes and said softly: "Uchida, this is your own emotional matter. I can only give you suggestions. Before I say anything,
I hope you can understand - no matter what choice you make in this matter, as your friend I will not object."
Emotionally, everyone has and should have the right to make choices according to their heart. If Uchida Yuma is really stubborn, it will be his blessing. If he loses, he will help Uchida Yuma collect the body and do his best to his friends.
obligation.
Yuma Uchida replied seriously: "I understand, Kitahara."
Kitahara Shuji nodded, but there was a rare confusion in his eyes, and he said softly: "If I were you... I probably wouldn't go."
Yuma Uchida twitched his eyebrows and said absentmindedly: "Can't we go?"
Kitahara Shuci lowered his eyelids and said calmly: "It's not up to us to decide whether you go Uchida or not. I just said that if it were me, I wouldn't go again."
His voice paused, and then he continued to explain: "If I have tried my best, then I will choose to accept the result calmly, and then start over - not start over again for Sakamoto-san, but keep my eyes open to find someone."
Someone who is truly worth paying for, and that person may be waiting for me on the street corner outside right now.”
Yuma Uchida hesitated and wanted to speak, but Hideji Kitahara stretched out his hand to stop him, indicating that he had not finished speaking, "Even if there is no such person, I don't think I will choose to confess a second time - I can exhaust all methods and show perseverance."
He had the strength to throw away his self-esteem and begged, stalked, and even used some clever tricks to force or deceive her into changing his mind. Even if she married eighteen times and gave birth to eighteen children, he still wanted to get her, and he still had to pretend to be dead.
In an urn, but I don't think that's what a man should do."
"That's something only scoundrels would do." Kitahara Shuji looked seriously at Uchida Yuma's narrowed eyes, and said softly and sincerely: "Uchida, if you do that, things will go bad. That's not making a girlfriend.
That's just to satisfy a possessive desire - it will not only harm her, but more importantly, it will harm yourself."
"You gave up the chance of happiness and spent your limited life and energy on someone who doesn't like you from the bottom of his heart. It's not worth it - and more importantly, you gave up on being a self-respecting person.
, an opportunity for a man to behave with integrity!”
Yuma Uchida was stunned, while Ritsu Shikishima looked at Kitahara Shuji with gentle eyes and said softly: "Kitahara-kun is right."
Others don't know, but he has always felt that Kitahara Shuji is different from his peers. He is exceptionally mature, stable, and considerate. Compared with ordinary boys, he is more like a man, and he cannot say this to himself.
If it were him, he would probably have no choice but to knock his cheap friend on the head and order him not to go no matter what.
Xueli also nodded fiercely beside him and said vaguely: "It's delicious, it's delicious!"
Others don't know it, but she is quite moved anyway. There is such a beautiful thing in the world. Food is automatically delivered to her mouth in a steady stream without moving. It is a pleasure to watch, with tears streaming down her face and saliva splashing everywhere.
Yuma Uchida was stunned for a while, then he gently covered his chest and forced a smile: "I understand what you mean, Kitahara, thank you."
Kitahara Shuci lowered his head and just said softly: "As long as you don't blame me, Uchida."
Yuma Uchida is obviously very evil, and his suggestion may not be what he wants to hear.
But Yuma Uchida was silent for a while and whispered: "No, Kitahara, I'm not a fool, I know what's good and what's good."
Kitahara Shuji sighed and comforted: "Uchida, I know you feel uncomfortable and unwilling to accept it, but falling out of love is not entirely a bad thing. There is an old Chinese saying that 'a blessing in disguise', although you have been very depressed recently.
It's painful, but please regard this as a test of your character... Falling out of love will make your feelings deeper and your temperament more mature. After this period of time passes, you will become a better person than you are now."
Yuma Uchida couldn't help but touch his face and asked in surprise: "Is it possible?" Can someone become handsome after falling in love?
Kitahara Xiuji smiled and said: "Of course, pain is the best nutrient for a man to grow."
Men teach women to be bad, and women teach men to be mature... Falling out of love is sometimes the dividing line between boys and men, similar in nature to circumcision - of course, not all boys need to experience falling out of love to become mature, nor are all boys.
That kind of surgery is needed.
Yuma Uchida nodded doubtfully, and after a moment he lamented with a sad face: "My heart is indeed very uncomfortable and painful. I used to read the book about 'heart is like a knife piercing' and thought it was a lie, but I learned this sentence today.
It turns out it’s true. The pain in my heart really feels like being stabbed with a knife... Beiyuan, Alu, I understand, I will forget about this matter, you don’t have to worry about me."
Kitahara Shuji smiled and said: "No one asked you to forget this, Uchida! This has already happened. What we have to do is not to forget it, but to face it - we must be sad and depressed when encountering such a thing.
It is inevitable because we are human after all and have feelings, but we can use it to inspire us to become better and more outstanding people."
He paused and smiled, "You won't give up on yourself just because you're not in love, Uchida, then I'll really look down on you." Men are born to endure more pain, and they are definitely not men who are easily knocked down by failure.
.
Falling down is not scary, but not being able to get up is scary.
Yuma Uchida took a deep breath and said seriously: "Of course not!"
Kitahara Shuci heard that the people next to her seemed to be feeding pigs. He couldn't help but glance sideways, added some soy sauce to the snow, and poured water to prevent her from choking. He turned back and said happily: "That's good!"
Then he glanced at Ritsu Shikishima and added: "Of course, don't hate Sakamoto-san or curse her. If possible, I hope that in the future you will be able to smile to her after becoming a better person.
She said - thank you, Sakamoto-san."
Thank you for your kindness in not killing me, thank you for saving my time, thank you for giving me more motivation to climb up - if it was Kitahara Shuji, he would do this, and sincerely say that when we meet one day in the future
Say: "Thank you, classmate xx. Thank you for decisively rejecting me when I was immature and letting me get back on the right track in life. Without you, I would be like this today, and my success would be half as good as yours."
Kitahara Shuji finally patted Yuma Uchida on the shoulder and said with a smile: "Uchida, it was she who missed you, not you who missed her! Get over it and you will become a better person."
Uchida Yuuma gave Kitahara Shuji a quick slap on his body, and then raised his slutty face with some leisurely fascination: "Yes, you are right, Kitahara! When I meet Junko-chan again in the future, no, I will meet Sakamoto-san again.
, I want to be able to stand straight in front of her and show the true magnanimity of a man..."
"Yes, Uchida, maybe in ten or twenty years, you may have become famous and become a big shot. Looking back at that time, you may find that Sakamoto-san is just like that, ordinary, not at all
It's not worth your life. Her rejection now will just make your future."
"Yes, that's right, Kitahara!" Yuma Uchida didn't know where his mind went, and a smile from the heart finally began to appear on his face - a sense of relief, a bit mean, and a bit of expectation - he
He picked up the tea bowl and drank it all in one gulp, and said seriously: "I will work hard and try my best from today on to do something great in the future!"
Ritsu Shikishima let out a long breath and looked at Kitahara Hideji with some gratitude, while Yuma Uchida thought for a while, and the expression on his face became firmer - yes, instead of throwing away his self-esteem and begging hard, it is better to
Live your own life and say thank you lightly when we meet in the future. Only then can you be considered a man.
After all, he was only sixteen or seventeen years old. When he thought about the future, his mood suddenly aroused. He couldn't help but say again: "I must stand out! I am ready to fight for my life, and you must not stop me!"
Ritsu Shikishima clenched his fists beside him and encouraged: "Come on, Xiongma, I will support you!"
Yuma Uchida nodded solemnly at Shikishima Ritsu: "Aru, thank you, you are indeed my best friend!" But he thought about how to work hard and how to impress others, and he felt a little guilty again.
He rolled his eyes twice, turned around and held Kitahara Hideji's hand again, and said with the same seriousness: "Kitahara-sama, it's up to you. When you become rich in the future, don't forget to give me a hand... By the way, there's also
Ah Lu, the three of us are best friends, a life-changing friendship. Please be rich and honorable and don’t forget each other! I will try my best to urge you to make progress. As long as you make progress, you can ask me to do other chores. "
Kitahara Shuci looked at him speechlessly for a moment, then shook off his hand - this bitch! I don't need your supervision, I have self-control! And we are not a life-changing friendship, at most we can be regarded as ordinary friends!
Did you just play the piano to a cow? Why is the motivation effect wrong?
And Uchida Yuuma didn't care when his hand was thrown away. He asked himself that he knew Kitahara Hideji. In the future, Kitahara Hideji would be really prosperous. If he was down and out, he wouldn't have to ask for help. As long as Kitahara Hideji had the ability, he would definitely help him, and he
I am more confident that Kitahara Shuji will succeed in the future than I am in myself - Kitahara Shuji is talented and hardworking enough. If such a person fails, it will be even more impossible for me. It is better to count on him than on myself!
One of the truths of life: If you don’t have the ability, it doesn’t matter, find someone who has the ability to support you.
In fact, Uchida Yuuma is not without merits and talents. He is born with a talent for dog-legging. As soon as he figured it out, he immediately poured the seasonings for Kitahara Shuji and brought the sushi. He was very attentive and made Ritsu Shikishima mad to death - this bitch, I know him.
It has been more than ten years since we were together in kindergarten, and I have never seen him treat me so well!
I'm not too embarrassed to always guard Kitahara-kun and beat him. That would be too rude...
Ritsu Shikishima saw that his cheap friend was resurrected with full health. He seemed to have forgotten the blow of lovelorn. He was too lazy to care about him anymore and ignored him. However, thinking back to Kitahara Hideji's words just now, there seemed to be something similar in them.
It was out of emotion that he couldn't help but be curious, and asked softly: "Kitahara-kun, did you have any relationships before you met Xueli-san?"
He feels that Kitahara Shuji and Fukuzawa Yuki don't look like a couple, but the problem is that Kitahara Shuji has never denied that Yuki is not his girlfriend, and he often takes Yuki around with him, so he can only talk in normal times.
By default, Yuki is Kitahara Shuji's girlfriend.
Next to me, Yukiri was eating a packet of joy (it tasted so-so, but it was plentiful). When she heard Ritsu Shikishima mentioning her name, she turned around with puffy cheeks and looked at Kitahara Shuji with a pair of eyes full of curiosity.
The child is as clear as water - Xiuji had a girlfriend before? Where is she now?