Human psychology is a very strange thing, and everyone has the psychological state of guilt - it is an instinct that humans evolved in ancient times to regulate group relations.
Psychological causes mainly come from the imbalance between giving and receiving.
When humans feel guilty, it is a reminder that it is time for you to repay the other person. If in a relationship, only one party is giving unilaterally, then this is actually rejecting the other party's return and compensation.
, destroying the other party's efforts to resolve his own guilt, causing the guilt in the other party's heart to continue to accumulate, and eventually turn into anger, and start to get rid of or escape from the relationship, ultimately causing harm to both parties.
As one of the most basic emotions, guilt is a gift from nature. It reminds us that one of your relationships needs to be adjusted. If you know how to accept your own guilt and help the other person accept his guilt, then the relationship will naturally
Flow and naturally move towards harmony.
The situation in Xueli is actually the same, except that she is the one who caused the harm. If she is not given a chance to make up for the other party, the guilt will also accumulate in her heart, causing pain, regret and other negative emotions, and she may even start to doubt herself - psychological
Disease is not a fake thing. Everyone has it to some extent, and no one is completely healthy.
Otherwise, some people are timid and others are confident and generous. Is this innate?
It’s true that Xueli is a fool, but fools also have feelings. She is not a robot. She can also feel guilty and suffer. She is just relatively less sensitive. However, she feels guilty but does not have the ability to make up for the other person. She can
The only way to make up for it is to replace Nisaka Takagi in duels or fights - Nisaka Takagi is obviously a decent sports boy, and there is probably no need for this.
That's why Kitahara Shuji is willing to lower his head and say soft words, kind words and even some eagerness to make up for it. This is not for the Nissaka siblings. To put it bluntly, they are not important to Kitahara Shuji. They are just like passers-by.
What really matters is the snow.
He hopes that Xueli will be happy and his heart will always be as clear as crystal, and he is willing to pay the price for this.
He knew that Xueli was under a lot of pressure during this period. People around her were talking about her, people on the Internet were talking about her, almost everyone was talking about her, there were many people praising her, and many people scolding her.
Quite a few, and even a lot of sewage was thrown at her - some people will feel uncomfortable and feel pain or anger if they are criticized by one person. What if it were a hundred people? What if it were a thousand people?
?What if it were replaced by 10,000 people?
There are tens of millions of viewers in Japan alone who care about Koshien. Counting even more in neighboring countries, the number of people who may be disgusted and disgusted with Yukien exceeds 10,000, or even 100,000. What kind of words can these people say?
?
People can really curse people to death, but usually death is not so intuitive.
Of course, Xueli is quite heartless by nature and has a strong ability to withstand stress, but she is still under tremendous psychological pressure. She didn't say it, maybe she was too stupid to say it, but she was indeed under tremendous psychological pressure.
If time could be turned back, Kitahara Shuji would never allow that bastard Noki Suzuki to touch Yuki. He would definitely kick her in the butt and make her roll as far as she could. He would rather accept the consequences of falling out than agree to Noki Suzuki's troubles.
It also has to be dragged into the snow.
It's just that it's too late for him to understand, so he can only choose to work hard to win, and use one victory after another to silence the opponents - if Xueli fails, those people will celebrate while celebrating, but the words in their mouths will
It's ten times worse.
As a boyfriend, it is your natural responsibility to protect your girlfriend, and there is no room for negotiation!
He will do whatever it takes!
And now Kitahara Shuji tilted his head and looked at Yuki, looking at her cheerful expression again, he felt extremely happy, but...
I am only a little taller than Xueli now!
If I want to look better standing next to Xueli, I'd better be half a head taller than her, right? Then I have to grow to over 1.8 meters, but my other carrot-headed girlfriend is too short, so I make soup for her every day.
Why don’t I get any benefits from taking supplements?
So should I be taller or not? It’s a bit of a dilemma...
Yukiri felt Kitahara Shuji's gaze very keenly, and said happily to him: "Hideji, it's great to have you! Sister Eichi and Nishisaka feel so happy!"
The important thing is that you are happy! But Kitahara Xiuji didn't say anything, just smiled and nodded: "We finally helped them a little bit, they can no longer be secretly angry because of the injury."
"I know, that's great!" Yuki held Hideji Kitahara's arm and said happily: "My father and mother were both in poor health before, so my sister took me there for such visits, but my sister didn't
You are very articulate and don't know how to use sweet words, which makes everyone very angry... She is even more angry."
Your sister is taking you to quarrel, right? That guy has the character of arguing unreasonably, and he refuses to bow his head or suffer losses. But the little carrot head had a hard time before - no matter how bad she is, she will do her best.
She tried her best to protect Xueli, which is beyond reproach. She fulfilled her obligations as a sister.
Kitahara Xiuji smiled and said: "Just leave this kind of thing to me from now on." He was not afraid of trouble. Anyway, he felt that he was definitely better than Xiaoluobotou in handling this kind of thing, so he should definitely do his part.
Yukiri had no objection, but after thinking for a while, she had grown up and knew that she was always protected. She pulled Kitahara Shuji's arm hard and hugged him tightly, almost dislocating him.
, and murmured: "I am so lucky to have you."
But why do you never win when you buy lottery tickets? If you win the lottery, you will have money to repay everyone!
Kitahara Shuci rubbed his shoulders and said helplessly: "We are also lucky to have you."
"We want to be together forever!"
"Okay, we will be together forever! Stay together!" Kitahara Shuji answered without any hesitation this time. He is willing to take care of this mentally retarded child for the rest of his life, shelter her from wind and rain, so that she can live as happily as an Erha forever.
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There is no need for Xueli to mature or grow up, just let him do the troublesome things!
This is how a man should be!
"Yes, let's stay together! I will be very nice to you in the future, Hidetsu!" Xueli is quite sensible in a way, but she pondered for a while and couldn't figure out how to treat Kitahara Hidetoshi.
Neng can firmly promise: "I will support you until you die! And sister, I will support you until you die!"
Kitahara Shuji looked at Yuki for a while speechlessly. Are you so sure that we will die in front of you? But after thinking about it carefully, it was hard to say. If Yuki is so strong, he might live for more than a hundred years.
Lifespan is not necessarily her opponent, so she can only nod and say: "Thank you then."
"It's okay, Xiuji, this is what I should do." Yuki looked into the distance and said seriously: "When you get old, I will push you in a wheelchair so that you can play outside every day. I will take good care of you.
of."
Kitahara Shuji smacked his lips. It turned out that he had suffered from Parkinson's disease or rheumatism before he died, and he was in a wheelchair.
But that's okay, he joked: "Don't push us, you will also be in a wheelchair, and the three of us will race in wheelchairs."
"No, Hideji, my sister will definitely be angry if she loses. She looks like a little mouse, her arms are so short, and she can't turn fast. She will definitely lose one and two, and she will be a mess!"
Kitahara Shuji was stunned, and thought for a moment about the spectacle of an old man and two old ladies racing in wheelchairs in the future. He felt that the thin and small old lady with a little carrot head would not be able to win - she must be eighty years old by then.
Should we let her win once?
He actually thought about it for a while, but soon he stopped laughing and said, "Forget it then, you should push us!"
Even at the age of eighty, I don’t want to lose to the little carrot head. Even if she is racing in a wheelchair, I will torture her to death! But let’s spare her life, after all, she is so old at that time.
Yuki nodded vigorously: "I will definitely push you well!" Then she tested Kitahara Shuji's forehead temperature and asked: "Hideji, are you hot?"
Kitahara Shuji looked at the sun in the sky. August is midsummer, and the sun is certainly very strong. However, the good thing about Hyogo Prefecture is that it faces the sea on both sides, and the wind is relatively strong. Summer is not too difficult, and it is much stronger than Nagoya anyway.
Oh, that damn place is damp, stuffy, and hot.
He was a little relieved that Xueli was becoming more and more like a girl. Although she still spoke very stupidly, she knew how to care about people, which was a good thing. He said softly: "I'm not hot, are you hot?"
"I'm so hot, Hidetsu!" Yukiri nodded repeatedly and fanned herself with her hands to show that it was really hot.
Kitahara Shuji looked at her carefully. There was only a healthy blush on her fair face, and she felt full of energy. There was no sweat on her forehead, and she didn't feel very hot!
He immediately became alert and looked around. Sure enough, he saw an ice cream shop and couldn't help but ask: "Do you want to eat ice cream?"
Yuki looked at him expectantly, and didn't ask for anything, just waiting. Her eyes were so pure, and her pupils were so dark that they even lost their concentration for a moment, and couldn't help but compromise, "It's so hot,
You might as well have some ice cream."
After saying that, he wanted to give himself a slap in the face. He was also thinking about helping Xueli control his diet, but he unknowingly forgot that ice cream is high in sugar and calories. Even just eating a cone has 200 to 250 kcal.
The calories, according to Xueli's weight, need to be run for more than half an hour to burn off, otherwise they will be converted into fat.
It was probably very difficult for him to refuse any request from Xueli in his life. It was really a big failure in life, but he couldn't keep his word, so he led Xueli, who was very excited, into the ice cream and dessert shop.
The decoration here is very elegant and casual, with soft jazz playing, and the air conditioning is turned on very fully. When you come in, you feel refreshed from the inside out. However, Xueli usually doesn't come to this kind of store, so it's a bit strange to look left and right.
Curious, this made Kitahara Shuji feel a little softer - the little carrot head usually controls her very strictly, so it's okay to let her relax occasionally!
Never again!
He led Xueli to find a remote corner and sit down. Soon a little girl wearing a Victorian maid outfit rushed over and asked softly: "Two guests, what would you like to order?"
She handed the small parchment dessert list to Kitahara Shuji and Yuki, and Yuki took it carefully and took a gulp of saliva while looking at the colorful pictures - they all looked delicious, but there seemed to be a lot of zeros.
Is it expensive?
She didn't order either, waiting for Kitahara Shuji to order, and Kitahara Shuji wanted to help her order the smallest amount to cope with it, but seeing how her mouth was drooling, she thought it was enough to make her happy for once.
That’s okay, right?
Never again!
"Xueli, you can have whatever you want." Kitahara Hideji felt that this should be regarded as the first date with Xueli, and he should give in a little, so that when Xueli understands in the future, he can have a very good memory.
"Can I order it?" Xueli was surprised, and then she couldn't help being happy. Her eyebrows began to jump. She laid the dessert list flat on the table and pointed her onion-white finger on it.
Put the single-ball cantaloupe ice cream on top, and then carefully observed Kitahara Shuji's face, and found that he didn't seem to be angry, so he decisively scrolled down five digits with his finger and changed it to a double-ball...
She glanced at Kitahara Shuji again, but there was still no reaction. She decisively moved down one digit again and changed it to a double ball with egg roll. She glanced at Kitahara Shuji again. If Fuyumi was here, she felt that she should be beaten.
.
However, Kitahara Shuji thinks that double balls + egg rolls are also fine. Let her cheer up today. She has been mentally unbalanced recently. This is just to make up for it. Just treat it like coaxing a child. I won’t do it next time...
Well, you want a three-goal ball again? Just today is fine!
Change it to a three-ball giant cup? The portion size is not much different, it’s acceptable.
Oh, the three-ball couple giant cup is changed again? Hiss... this is a bit big, isn't it? This is for two people!
Ice cream hot pot set meal for one person...chocolate is even more high in calories, this...will not happen again, just this time!
Kitahara Shuji's psychological bottom line was lowered step by step. Finally, Yuki lowered his eyebrows and pressed his finger to the bottom of the page without saying anything, just waiting.
Kitahara Hideji fought fiercely in his heart for a while, sighed secretly, turned to the waiter and said: "We want this 'Sulvia Volcano'."
"Ah, what did you say?" The waiter in maid uniform came back to her senses, her cheeks turned slightly red - she was looking at Kitahara Hideji and was distracted.
"We want this!" Kitahara Shuji returned the dessert order to the waiter and pointed it out to her.
The waiter quickly performed his duties, took one look and advised: "Sir... no, guest, this is a set meal for four people, the portion is very large."
She did have a good professional ethics, but Kitahara Shuji gave her a helpless smile: "That's it, I'm sorry to trouble you."
What’s wrong with the four-person set menu? I may not even be able to take two bites of it!