In Zhou Sheng's eyes, the definition of "old friends" is his father and Uncle Zhao.
The two have been inseparable from elementary school, junior high school to high school, and the school must invite parents twice. Everyone in their respective families knows about each other's situation, and the grandfather often sits and talks with the old man of the Zhou family.
Therefore, Uncle Zhao is very familiar with Grandpa, and even has some inexplicable fear.
How does grandpa feel? What does it have to do with him?
There’s a lot going on here.
In one sentence, Uncle Zhao still has no children.
Uncle Zhao and Aunt Zhao were pregnant with a child when they were married in the early years. The fetus suffered from early dysplasia and she miscarried naturally. Later, after a checkup, it was found that she was born with low ovarian progesterone secretion.
Progesterone is what people often call progesterone. It is a biologically active progesterone naturally secreted by the ovaries. The fetus needs it to obtain nutrients in early pregnancy. On the contrary, the result of low progesterone is poor fetal development. Pregnant women with a progesterone value lower than 15, doctors
Pregnancy protection is not recommended as it can cause spontaneous abortion.
Aunt Zhao suffered the most tragic consequences.
Abortion is very damaging to the human body. After that, Aunt Zhao took a long time to recover from her health, which was partly due to her grandfather.
Originally, Uncle Zhao had also thought about not having children at the worst possible outcome.
It doesn't make any sense to use your wife's body to fight if she doesn't have the physical fitness to get pregnant in the first place.
But Aunt Zhao still feels lucky in her heart...
Because her progesterone index was too low, she heard from a friend that the biological activity of progesterone has a protective effect on the ovaries, whereas low progesterone can cause uterine diseases.
Yes, progesterone has a protective effect on the endometrium, but its absence does not mean an increased risk of disease.
Aunt Zhao, who was still looking forward to getting pregnant, went crazy when she heard this. It was already difficult for her to get pregnant. If something happened to her uterus, she would never have a child in her life.
At that time, Xichuan Hot Pot Restaurant had already started to flourish, and Uncle Zhao's family was not in a bad situation. Relatives, friends, and colleagues often went abroad.
After asking around, I learned that there is an HPV vaccine that can prevent cervical cancer with a high probability.
Cancer, what a scary word.
After hearing about it, Aunt Zhao became even more frightened and planned to get vaccinated.
Uncle Zhao didn't think much about it at the time. After interrogation, he found that the HPV vaccine is indeed effective in preventing cancer. It is also the only cancer that can be prevented in the world. So what are you waiting for?
The family is not short of money, so it would be nice to be able to prevent it.
This kind of vaccine is what people often call bivalent, quadrivalent, or nine-valent vaccines.
Why is there such a name later?
The reason is very simple. In the early years, the vaccine was not approved for marketing in China. In those years, if you wanted to inject the vaccine, you had to go abroad. Even Hong Kong cities only had supply channels in the later years, and there were large private hospitals that could inject the vaccine.
Because he had sought confirmation from professionals on ‘cancer prevention’, Uncle Zhao did not consult his father and grandfather.
When he thought about it, traditional Chinese medicine didn't understand the high-end medicine of Western medicine.
So, after confirming the hospital and applying for tourist visas, the couple went abroad to get vaccinated. They were among the first batch of people to get vaccinated in China.
Then.
Here comes the problem.
After taking the vaccine, Aunt Zhao felt at ease. She felt that she had even prevented cancer, and her uterus was in good condition.
What are you waiting for? Get ready to get pregnant and do a pre-pregnancy check-up.
I went to the hospital and asked about my past medical history and pregnancy status. The couple talked about it, and Aunt Zhao proudly told the doctor that I had just been injected with the HPV preventive vaccine abroad, which can effectively prevent cervical cancer.
Because this type of vaccine has not been introduced in China, and information was not developed in those years, the doctor was still confused when he first heard about it. He thought that this family was quite capable, and they went abroad to get the vaccine specifically. It was amazing.
But the very next day, after reviewing the literature, the doctor couldn't help but laugh and cry. He called the two of them and asked, "Didn't the doctor inform you of the relevant details when you injected the vaccine? The HPV vaccine will have an impact on the pregnancy rate."
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Now, I was dumbfounded.
There must be detailed rules for injecting relevant vaccines, but don't forget that the couple went to a foreign country and did not speak a foreign language. They also used an agency to find a hospital. There have always been such "intermediary friends" abroad who "help with medical treatment."
Whether you are pregnant abroad or taking some special medicines that have not been introduced in China, you can always go to them.
A conscientious intermediary will introduce all relevant details and translate the detailed list of details given by the hospital, which contains all risks.
Unscrupulous agents don't care.
As long as you get the injection, you have to pay me the agency fee. Anyway, this thing only has advantages and no disadvantages. I don't care about you that much?
that day.
Aunt Zhao cried so hard that she almost fainted. She called the friend who introduced her and scolded the friend who introduced her to him. He was talking about preventing cancer. Isn't this a lie?
This friend is actually right. Cancer prevention is real, but I really didn’t expect it to affect the pregnancy rate, because... my children are already in elementary school, and I don’t think about it at all.
This is another thing that cannot be commented on whether it is good or bad.
Preventing cancer is a good thing. In recent years, countless people have racked their brains to get this kind of vaccine. It is common to ask someone to bring the medicine to the port city and go directly to the port city for the injection. After the domestic approval and introduction last year, four prices,
The nine-valent vaccine has a price but is not available in the market. People who queue up in large hospitals basically wait until half a year later.
But cancer is something, as long as you live a normal life, have no bad habits, and the prevalence rate is not too high, prevention is for peace of mind, but for those who are thinking of getting pregnant, it is best not to worry.
Now that it has been introduced in China, there is a full set of relevant details and instructions.
Before injecting the vaccine, the doctor will ask if you are pregnant. If you are... you cannot inject 10,000.
By this time, Uncle Zhao thought of his grandfather.
I went to Zhou's house with a glimmer of hope.
When my grandfather first heard about it, he thought it was a good thing. As a traditional Chinese medicine doctor, he had no prejudice against Western medicine. He had seen too many cancer patients. Now that there is something that can prevent it, it is a great benefit to mankind.
But when grandpa checked the relevant information and heard about the couple's situation, he couldn't help but lose his temper.
Getting vaccinated is a good thing.
But before the fight, how could you be so careless?
It’s too late to have children now!
Just because of this matter, I definitely can't anger grandpa, he is also an outsider.
But the father, who was Uncle Zhao's iron son, couldn't bear it, so he wrote down the matter and considered it as his own business.
After some pondering, he actually found out that he had related folk remedies in his family's traditional Chinese medicine prescriptions.
Dad called people over again and asked Grandpa. Grandpa rejected it on the spot: "Most traditional Chinese medicine prescriptions are too extreme and the medicines are harsh. Do you know where this prescription came from? In ancient times, the secret recipe of the palace, and who was the patient who took the medicine?"
"They are concubines fighting for power in the palace. Mother is more valuable than son!!"
"Those who use medicine should not save three out of ten. They are exchanging their lives for glory and wealth."
"Are you willing to risk your life just to give birth to a child?"
Aunt Zhao was really angry and said on the spot, "No!"
The result is one can imagine.
Grandpa tore the prescription into pieces on the spot and immediately turned against him. I don’t care about his family’s affairs. I will look for whoever I want. He also told me that if I go to another Chinese medicine doctor, I have to weigh the truth and falsehood. If it really kills someone, I won’t regret it.
and.
Later, no matter how Uncle Zhao tried to persuade him, nothing happened.
Uncle Zhao also wants to give up, but Aunt Zhao is obsessed with it, and it feels like 'what you can't get will always make you turbulent'.
Seeing that others can give birth but she can't, people's hearts are always dissatisfied.
In fact, the situation has eased a lot in the past two years, and Aunt Zhao has also figured out that the last glimmer of hope lies with the old man. If you are too tough, you can be soft. During the holidays, the couple often come to visit, looking for good words to coax grandpa.
In addition, they are not idle. After the rise of pregnancy-preserving injections (progesterone injections), Aunt Zhao takes more than 200 injections almost every year, using external substances to increase the progesterone content and regulate her body condition.
In fact, at their age, the probability of pregnancy is low.
Not to mention Aunt Zhao's physical condition, which means she is not qualified for pregnancy.
For so long, many people have not understood their thoughts and mentality, but sometimes, after people invest in something, they may not care about the result, but the state in the process. Persistence in all this has become their
part of life.
Let’s look at it objectively…
They are not short of money, they have enough food and clothing, and the couple has a good relationship. It seems that the only thing missing is a child.