Speaking of this matter, Zeng Yuan's face was full of sadness: "It's like this, my mother wants me to marry someone, and I have average feelings for that person. I can't say he's good, nor can I say he's bad. I don't know.
Whether it’s because I resist marriage, my parents’ orders, or I don’t like this person, in short I don’t want to marry him.”
Lin Xiaoguang was a little confused, obviously he did not expect that one day he would become an emotional mentor.
Do I look so much like a girl friend?
Zeng Yuan's eyes widened and she looked at him blankly: "Brother-in-law, I heard from Sister Yangyang that you two fell in love a long time ago. Can you tell me what my specific situation is?"
He shook his head: "I may not be able to give you any advice."
"Those who are obsessed with the authorities are clear on the outside. I have always thought that you, brother-in-law, are a very intelligent person. You were admitted to Tsinghua University at a very young age with outstanding results, and you were admitted to a master's degree at a young age..."
The girl's admiration failed to make Lin Xiaoguang put down his guard, or rather, it failed to convince him.
"Brother-in-law, you just watch me walk away in a daze? You are my brother-in-law, and we are a family. Please help me!" Zeng Yuan looked at him pitifully.
From the bottom of his heart, Lin Xiaoguang didn't want to get involved in the private affairs of these high-end courtyards, as it would be too troublesome.
At this time, Anyang walked in from outside: "What are you two talking about?"
Before he explained, Zeng Yuan was a little flustered and stood up quickly: "Sister, I just want to talk to my brother-in-law about my mother forcing me to get married."
Lin Xiaoguang did not speak, but pulled up a chair and asked Anyang to sit down.
"Marrying? What's going on?"
Anyang was obviously very curious. When Zeng Yuan saw this, she was eager for her to ask. She immediately narrated the whole thing and finally said: "I am very conflicted now. I don't know what to do?"
"It turns out that my sister-in-law became anxious because she saw me getting married and having children." An Yang said thoughtfully.
Looking back, she looked at Lin Xiaoguang, grabbed his arm, and said softly: "Husband, just give Yuanyuan an idea. She is not only my cousin, but also your cousin."
"Okay, it's up to you." He scratched her little nose.
Zeng Yuan looked at the two of them showing off their affection as if no one was watching, and her eyes were a little dim with envy.
Lin Xiaoguang turned around, thought for a moment, and then said: "The words of parents ordering a matchmaker may sound a bit cruel, but in fact there is a reason for its existence. Cinderella marries a prince, and a poor boy marries a princess. This is just a fairy tale, and life is very real.
, from this aspect, I personally support the idea of equal match."
Anyang became anxious when he heard this. Doesn't this mean they don't think highly of themselves?
"However, if the person with the lower family background is good enough and outstanding enough to transcend the secular prejudice of family background, there are such people, but they are very few. Most people are more suitable for a well-matched match."
"Yuanyuan, do you long for love?" He asked as soon as his voice changed.
Isn't this nonsense? That girl doesn't want love. Zeng Yuan nodded.
"When you are deeply in love, you will long for marriage, so you are not resisting marriage, nor are you resisting your parents' orders. Think about it, if it was someone you liked, would you still resist?"
How could you resist someone you like? Zeng Yuan shook her head.
"So you just don't like him, or you haven't had any contact with him. You are more afraid of disappointment than expectations, and you are more uneasy. But you are trying to contact him. Girl, be brave and take the first step to try. You must know that the attempt may fail.
, if you don’t give it a try, you will never succeed.”
Okay, Zeng Yuan nodded and said: "I asked about his personality. I heard that he is frivolous and not very serious. There are also rumors that he often dances face-to-face with others..."
These days, the bell-bottom trousers introduced to the mainland from Hong Kong and Taiwan are regarded as "gangster attire", and those who wear bell-bottom trousers are "male hooligans". They dance face-to-face, and men and women hug each other. Then the lights are turned off and no one is there.
know what happened.
Lin Xiaoguang raised his eyebrows and asked, "What's his name?"
"He Minzhi."
The name sounded a bit familiar. He frowned and his mind began to spin rapidly. He Minzhi, He Minzhi, it seemed like he had seen it before somewhere.
Suddenly, he remembered and his eyes widened.
Anyang was very familiar with him, so when he saw this, he felt that something was wrong and asked: "What's the matter? Is there any problem?"
There is indeed a problem. This person will be killed during the crackdown next year.
Lin Xiaoguang thought for a moment, met their gazes, and said with a smile: "I always believe that both men and women should keep themselves clean. Marriage is a relationship that lasts for decades. If there is even the slightest social problem, just stick to it.
The day will not come until we grow old together, so Yuanyuan, you still have to be cautious when it comes to falling in love."
"Brother-in-law, can you be more specific? What should I do with He Minzhi?" Zeng Yuan asked.
"You are only 20 this year, so you can get married, but there is no need for girls to get married too early. Forget it He Minzhi, he is not a good match for you. If your mother insists on bringing you together with him, just say this, next autumn,
Only then will you consider falling in love, and during this period, have less contact with some boys outside."
"You mean, if we wait until next autumn, things will turn around?" Anyang hesitated.
"Procrastinate if you can. Maybe you can find other reasons, such as studying. Didn't you fail to get into college? You can go to another school to learn accounting or something. Girls still need to have a certain skill."
Zeng Yuan's eyes lit up: "Brother-in-law, I can't do it in the Mainland. Can I go to your company's vocational training school to study here?"
Lin Xiaoguang did not expect that she would make this request and was a little embarrassed.
Qinhuai Industrial has organized a refresher course, which is specifically for the company's high school-educated employees. It mainly covers some administration, personnel, finance, legal affairs, and business courses. It can be regarded as a business refresher class. In the future, this refresher class will be expanded into a professional school.
Plan, but it’s just a plan at the moment, the school is still on the drawing board.
It's not impossible for her to want to go to a refresher course, but the course lasts for a long time, at least half a year, and she can't stay in Xiangjiang forever.
"The minimum course is half a year, so you'd better ask your mother for her opinion."
Well, Zeng Yuan also knows that even if she makes a decision on these matters, whether she can implement them still depends on An Sheng's opinion.
"I see."
After saying that, Anyang sent Zeng Yuan out and downstairs.
After some time, Anyang came up again and saw him looking at the night and thinking deeply. He came over and squeezed his shoulders, and couldn't help but ask: "What are you thinking about?"
"I'm thinking that Guangdong Middle School will start in May and the school year will end in July next year. By then, it would be too wasteful for some outstanding graduates who could not pass the preparatory course to go to work. Vocational training schools should immediately
It’s on the agenda. It will take more than a year to prepare now, and it should be completed by then.”
She chuckled softly: "You didn't think of it specifically for Yuanyuan, did you?"
"What are you thinking about? Are you jealous of your cousin?"
"I didn't say that, you said it yourself, Yuanyuan, do you have any ideas?" An Yang pouted and said angrily.
Lin Xiaoguang pretended to be exaggerated: "Oh my God? Madam, are you so unsure of yourself? You are much more charming than her."
"Uh-huh!" She tilted her head, a little arrogantly, with crooked eyes and a smile on her lips.
"I see that you haven't been in bed for three days, and you're actually thinking wildly. Today I'm going to teach you a lesson, goblin, and give me a stick!" He pretended to be vicious, got up and pounced on you.