Fortunately, the distance was small and it didn’t break!
Liu Ruixuan picked up the spoon, wiped it with a paper towel, put it on the plate in front of him, and glanced at Xia Yang, who was opposite him with a frown and a low smile.
So quiet, so peaceful, under the light of the light, sitting there with a smile, silent, like a white marble relief.
Liu Ruixuan lowered his eyes slightly, feeling depressed and depressed in his heart.
Suddenly I remembered Goethe's words, the whole secret of life lies in giving up survival for the sake of survival.
However, from a young age, he has been taught how to work hard, how to persevere, and how to never give up. In fact, many times, we need to learn how to give up.
Just like him, if he gave up Zhu Yan, he would feel sad and sad.
He would also think of her occasionally. Even a similar back or the same high ponytail would still make his heart tremble.
However, he knew that Zhu Yan did not belong to him.
Therefore, he chose to give up and let himself go.
Liu Ruixuan looked at his clenched hands. In fact, there was nothing in them. But when he opened his hands, the world was in his hands. Only by knowing how to give up can he live a full, full and vigorous life in a limited life.
Only by decisively giving up those secondary, trivial, and unrealistic things can your world be sunny and sunny, and you will suddenly realize that "small sacrifices will give you small gains, big sacrifices will bring big gains, and you will not be willing to give up."
"The true meaning of.
"The wise man has foresight before it is revealed; the wise man avoids danger before it is revealed."
Only by learning to give up at the right time can you become more tolerant and wiser. Giving up is not waking up from a nightmare, not snowing in June, nor indecisive, nor cessation, but a kind of calmness when climbing up the stairs, and the indifference of strolling in the courtyard.
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Liu Ruixuan twitched the corner of his mouth slightly and opened his mouth, but failed to speak. He glanced at Xia Yang, who was smiling peacefully across from him.
I have mixed feelings in my heart. I think of an article I read about giving up before, but I don’t remember it very clearly.
well!
It seems that there is no place where I can surpass my second brother.
It’s a bit difficult for this big brother to be worthy!
Liu Ruixuan lowered his head and stared at the noodle plate for two seconds.
Forget it, let’s get rid of the food in front of us first.
After all, waste is shameful!
He is the son of a farmer, and he knows that every grain of grain is hard work!
As I chewed the spicy spicy chicken, I suddenly realized that it no longer tasted as good as before.
Sure enough, eating depends on your mood!
Liu Ruixuan chewed the spicy chicken in his mouth without any taste, glanced at Xia Yang opposite him, and couldn't help but recall the article he had read.
"Brother, what are you thinking about?" Xia Yang on the opposite side suddenly spoke, causing Liu Ruixuan to raise his eyes and look over in surprise.
The second brother is really observant, sharp-eyed, aware of every detail, and as careful as hair!
This can all be seen.
Liu Ruixuan had a thought in his heart. In front of his second brother, was he just like a transparent person with no secrets at all?
People who study philosophy and understand psychology are terrible.
"I didn't think about anything." Liu Ruixuan pretended to be calm and replied, "It's just that I suddenly thought of a text about giving up."
"Oh?" Xia Yang responded, lowered his head and glanced at the soup bowl in front of him, then looked at Liu Ruixuan, "Tell me something?"
"I don't remember it very clearly." Liu Ruixuan thought for a while and glanced at Xia Yang's hand, which was still stirring the soup bowl, "I only remember some fragments."
"Yeah," Xia Yang responded, "Let's talk about whatever we want, we're just chatting."
"Okay." Liu Ruixuan laughed, nodded, blinked slightly, and collected his thoughts.
"The stream gives up its flatness in order to return to the majesty of the sea; the yellow leaves give up the tree trunks in order to look forward to the verdant spring; the candle gives up its perfect body to have a lifetime of light; the mood gives up the hustle and bustle of the world in order to have peace.
If you want to get the fragrance of wild flowers, you must give up the comfort of the city; if you want to get permanent applause, you must give up the vanity in front of you. Give up roses, and roses; give up the creek, and the sea.
I gave up a tree and the entire forest; I gave up the uninhibitedness of galloping across the wilderness and the self-satisfaction of riding a horse at a leisurely pace.”
Liu Ruixuan stopped and looked at Xia Yang. Xia Yang was still stirring the egg drop soup in the bowl four or five times as before, then gently scooped up a spoonful and took a sip slowly.
Is this soup still hot?
Liu Ruixuan lowered his eyes and glanced at the soup bowl in front of him. When he drank it just now, it clearly didn't feel hot.
"The article is good." Xia Yang raised his eyes and looked at Liu Ruixuan, "Why did you stop?"
Ahem, Liu Ruixuan quickly searched again in his mind, "There are a few more paragraphs later, I don't seem to remember them clearly."
"Oh." Xia Yang responded, nodded gently, stirred the egg drop soup in the bowl four or five times, gently scooped up a spoonful, and slowly took a sip.
For a moment, there was silence.
Liu Ruixuan glanced at Xia Yang and lowered his eyes silently.
The second brother's eating style is so elegant.
Suddenly I remembered a passage I read somewhere, which seemed to be about the culture at the dinner table.
It probably means that people always choose their own preferences, which are often very close to their own character and essence, so a person's personality can be seen from his food.
Eating well with others is not only about the content of the food, but also about the attitude towards eating. It can also reveal a person's personality, and this personality is his upbringing.
The second brother’s education is really good!
Liu Ruixuan raised his eyes and glanced at Xia Yang opposite.
Suddenly a thought flashed through my mind. The second brother asked him to accompany him to dinner. Could it be to teach him a lesson in cultural etiquette at the dinner table?
Liu Ruixuan blinked and stared at Xia Yang.
"I think I've seen this passage that brother mentioned." Xia Yang chuckled lightly and raised his eyes to look at Liu Ruixuan.
"Huh?" Liu Ruixuan was slightly startled, blinked, and laughed, "What a coincidence, but unfortunately, I can't remember the rest."
Xia Yang nodded slightly, took a tissue from the table, and gently wiped the corners of his mouth, "I still remember some."
What? Second brother still remembers?
Liu Ruixuan took a gentle breath and looked at Xia Yang intently.
Second brother, are you trying to play tricks again?
"Life is about choices, and giving up is an art of choice and a required course in life. Without courageous giving up, there will be no brilliant choices.
Instead of struggling hard and fighting to death, it is better to wave your hands gracefully and choose to give up bravely.
Giving up is a kind of wisdom.
Giving up is a kind of spiritual awakening and a manifestation of wisdom, just like letting a bird return to the forest or a fish into the water. Life is a difficult voyage and it will never be smooth sailing. When you must give up, give up decisively.
Only by letting go can you go far! Only by giving up can you pursue something. People who are unwilling to give up anything will lose the most precious things. Giving up fashion is to pursue a more avant-garde maverick; giving up liveliness,
It’s to pursue a richer spiritual feast.”
Liu Ruixuan clenched his fist slightly, "Second brother, you really have a good memory."
Such philosophical words can also be recited.
He only remembers those vivid descriptions!
“The wise man said: Choose the lesser of two disadvantages, and choose the greater of two benefits.
Only by giving up unspeakable burdens can one unlock the shackles of the soul; by giving up full of complaints can one accumulate untiring power; by giving up delicate sophistry can one have profound thoughts; by giving up hypocritical pretense can one win true friendship
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When I stood on the ruins of the ancient Roman Colosseum, I suddenly felt that all the power disputes in the world, the gold dust and luxury are just passing smoke. The wind and rain will always blow away the wind, so why let the things outside of you and the boring things bother you for the rest of your life?"
Liu Ruixuan couldn't help but sigh in his heart, and took a deep look at Xia Yang. Xia Yang frowned and lowered his head, turning his head slightly to look at the shiny white dining table beside him.
Since you remember it so clearly, why don't you fulfill it?
Ten years of bitter love?
Ten years of suffering!
If he gave up, how free would Xia Yang live?
Liu Ruixuan couldn't help but think of the "love encounter" and the screams along the way.
I originally set my heart towards the bright moon, but the bright moon shines on the ditch.
Liu Ruixuan sighed slightly in his heart, and then thought of the transparent glass with a lid, and what he also remembered was the sentence, "There was a time when everything was difficult, except for Wushan!"
Xia Yang's voice came over again:
"Give up the pain caused by loss, give up the hatred left by humiliation, give up the endless quarrels, give up the endless excuses; give up the extravagant hope for emotion, give up the desire for money, give up the coveting of power, give up the
The entanglement of vanity.
When all the dust settles and everything returns to calm, we will truly understand that giving up is actually a beautiful gain."
Giving up is actually a beautiful gain? Is it also a kind of wisdom?
Liu Ruixuan silently repeated in his heart, how well said!
It's a pity that those of us who are in it often forget to give up and only know how to persevere, which hurts ourselves and others!!
Xia Yang's voice stopped, and for a moment, he was silent.
Liu Ruixuan stared at Xia Yang's slightly sideways face, feeling a little dazed.
"Brother." Xia Yang suddenly said, turning his head with a bright look on his face.
"Yes." Liu Ruixuan responded habitually, calmed down, and glanced left and right from the corner of his eyes. There was still no one around, only him and Xia Yang.
"Brother, did you just want to persuade me to change my life?" Xia Yang's gentle voice came with a smile.
Huh? Liu Ruixuan was startled for a moment, the corners of his mouth twitched, he smiled sheepishly, and said duplicitously, "No."
Second brother, it’s too scary!
"Haha." Xia Yang laughed, "Everyone has their own persistence. My persistence is Zhu Yan."
Liu Ruixuan raised his eyebrows and nodded slightly. He said this for the first time today.
This stubborn Xia Yang!
"There are three thousand weak waters, but you only take one scoop. In this mortal world, you have all your thoughts, but you only love one person." Xia Yang's voice came over again, with a hint of firmness and intolerance in his tone.
Okay. Liu Ruixuan sighed silently in his heart. Fortunately, he has given up.
"Brother?" Xia Yang's voice came over again.
"Huh?" Liu Ruixuan responded and looked towards Xia Yang.
What did you call him for again?
He was ready to give up, give up his unwanted thoughts about Zhu Yan, and give up his stubborn persuasion to Xia Yang.
"In fact, persistently cultivating one's core competitiveness is the best way to enhance one's brand value."
What? Liu Ruixuan's eyes widened a little in an instant. The topic changed too quickly.
Suddenly changed his painting style?
This faint sadness was gone, and Xia Yang's face was still filled with the familiar bright smile.