Someone has said that it is actually easier for extroverted children to make friends?
To make friends, you always have to "make" them first before you can have friends. In human society, 95% or even higher of the people rely on language to communicate.
What you hear and think is shared and exchanged in a form that both parties have. This process is called communication.
Communication is a very important part of building interpersonal relationships, and there is nothing wrong with saying that it is a necessary part. So of course, extroverted children will be more lively, talk more, and naturally have a higher chance of making friends.
. Put aside some lively chat wizards, extroverts can indeed have an advantage in chatting.
Are you familiar with it? The super method of making friends that looks like love at first sight is very effective, but because dating may make others feel awkward and overwhelmed, this method is not recommended.
But is Wuhe Yuan an extroverted child? Xia Zhi’s memory is that although she will answer generously when talking to her, it doesn’t seem right to be extroverted.
Xia Zhi is waiting for the hot water to boil. The electric kettle is really a rare treasure in the history of human civilization, and it is very fast.
Wuhe has been chatting with Rishi. Xia Zhi originally thought that Wuhe was so proactive, why Rishi hadn't become friends with her yet. One wants to be a friend, and the other is so proactive. Logically speaking, even if they are not compatible, they should be friends.
It wouldn't be like this.
If it wasn't suitable, Wuhe would have already said that two people are not suitable for making friends and then gave up. Just like playing Tetris, you can't expect a completely inappropriate Z to be inserted into the long space without any gaps.
Here, the twisted melon is not sweet.
Wuhe talked about many topics, from idols, music, novels and comics to clothes, decorations, bags and cosmetics. He could talk about everything, and his mouth opened like a machine gun and kept talking. Rishi listened quietly and also
Instead of just listening, there were times when I wanted to speak but I was suppressed by Wuhe's quick words.
Is Wuhe's aggressiveness too strong? Xia Zhi was thinking about such a thing, and then discovered something else.
A little different from Rise, Rise lowered her head slightly because she couldn't speak. She must be nervous. Itsuka tilted her head slightly. Although her verbal and body language were rich, she was actually not looking at each other like Rise.
.To put it bluntly, it was actually... Wuhe was also extremely nervous.
That's not bad. Letting two easily nervous people make friends together, Xia Zhi felt that he had become a wizard at making friends without knowing it. Wuhe was obviously so generous when talking to him, so why did he do it?
Has Rishi changed here? Fuck me.
Probably they can't be allowed to continue like this.
Just in time, the slightly noisy sound of the electric kettle stopped due to use, and Xia Zhi began to prepare coffee. Although Blue Mountain does not have much bitterness, especially the coffee beans that have been processed, packaged and sold in batches,
In fact, the bitter taste is not very strong, but there are still relatively few girls who like pure coffee.
I slightly mixed the coffee powder, hot water and milk aside according to the ratio in my memory, and the simple and crude latte was completed. Although there is no aesthetic feeling, simplicity and crudeness are also aesthetics to a certain extent.
, so no problem.
I walked to Wuhe's side with my latte in hand.
"This is the latte you ordered, please take your time."
Wuhe, who was chattering endlessly, stopped for a moment and said thank you.
Natsuki turned her head and glanced at Amamiya Rise, who was a little uneasy. Her hands were gently stroking the side of the cup, as if she was thinking, but also at a loss.
"Rishi, you don't have to be so nervous." Xia Zhi comforted her. When she raised her head and looked here, Xia Zhi said: "Someone here is much more nervous than you."
"Poof!" Latte sprayed all over the table.
Xia Zhi looked at her with wide eyes: "Is it so bad to drink?"
"No. No! Who do you think is nervous!?"
"Aren't you nervous? Why are you so excited... Really. It's very troublesome to clean." Xia Zhi slipped back to the counter to find a rag. Although it was just a disposable tablecloth, it didn't mean it was slightly dirty.
It needs to be thrown away if it is a little bit, and it will not be melted because of some stains. Save money if you can.
"I'm not nervous! I'm not! Don't think that just because you are a Chinese student, you can slander other people's innocence!"
"Why does it seem like Chinese students studying abroad will slander other people's innocence casually... You have to think carefully when you speak, otherwise it will become a hot topic in the world." Xia Zhi wiped the tablecloth: "Rishi, don't imitate her.
."
"Tsk. So international students are really in trouble."
"Hehe." Amamiya Rise snickered.
"Don't laugh!"
"Ah! I'm so, so sorry."
"No, it's okay, just laugh."
"You say you're nervous but you still don't admit it."
"Because I don't want you to say that!"
"What I said is obviously the truth." Xia Zhi spread his hands.
"Senior, please stop bullying Itsuka-san." Rise stood up for the friend she had planned to make. Natsuki raised his hands in surrender and slipped back to the counter.
"Um, Wu, Wuhe-san, can I call you that?"
The initial nervousness was slightly dissipated, and Rise gathered up her little courage to talk to Wuhe. The nervousness of this child who did not know how to hide his emotions could be seen at a glance. But it didn't matter, because
What she faced was a being whose level of tension was completely equal to hers.
"No, no problem! You can call me Wuhe or Yuan. Can I call you Lishi?" Thinking of something, Wuhe turned to look at Xia Zhi, then turned back and said, "No, I can call you Xiao
Rishi? Because calling her Rishi would make me angry."
"To be fair, what I told was the truth." Xia Zhi defended himself. Of course he knew exactly what caused Wuhe's anger.
"It's just because it's the truth that makes people angry!"
"Hee." Rishi chuckled secretly again.
"So, is it okay?"
Wuhe asked again. Xia Zhi felt that with Rishi's temperament, there would be no problem even if Wuhe called her directly. Like him? There seems to be a difference. He could have asked for advice before calling her directly.
name.
"Um."
"...Okay!" Wuhe clenched his fists with great excitement: "Hurry up and finish your drink and let's go somewhere else to play! We won't stay here anymore!"
"Hey, hey, is it really okay to say this?" Xia Zhi protested.
The alliance he had formed with his own hands actually turned against him.
"Luanluanluo. There are no more companions for you in this classroom!"
Xia Zhi looked at Rishi, who was in a daze because he had gained a friend. He probably didn't hear the conversation between himself and Wuhe.
To be honest, Xia Zhi thought this matter would be more difficult. After all, the situation seemed so serious at first, but now it is achieved easily. It feels a bit strange. Although it should not be said that it took about half a year, but in this half year
In fact, he didn't do anything, he just gave a blank check at the beginning. If he thinks about it now, Xia Zhi is actually quite sorry for Rise.
But fortunately, I have a friend now, and I can barely break my promise. Judging from how things have developed, I also have some credit for it, so it’s not a blank check. I feel okay.
Xia Zhi decided to happily ignore the fact that this newly formed alliance rebelled against him the moment it was formed.
"That's right." Rise finally came to her senses, but she obviously had no memory of the conversation between Xia Zhi and Wu He just now: "The snacks in the shop are delicious, Wu He, do you want to try them?"
Rise pushed the plate with cookies in front of her in the direction of Itsuka.
"Just call me Yuan. Then I won't be polite."
Wuhe took a cookie in his hand, took a bite with an inexplicable heavy sense of ritual, chewed, chewed...
"Huh? It's surprisingly delicious. Obviously, the coffee is not much different from the coffee in ordinary shops."
"I'm sorry that the coffee doesn't suit your taste." Xia Zhi rolled his eyes: "As for this cookie, it was made by an ultimate chef who is comparable to a five-star chef. Of course it tastes very good. Of course, I mean
It's pretty good within the normal range. If you expect it to shine or allow you to travel to a place in the world that I don't even know about in an instant, I recommend you go to sleep."
"I see, that's it. But Xia Zhi, why don't you ask her how to make coffee or something? Although it's a bit uncomfortable to say this, but it's a big difference in comparison..." Wuhe chewed the song.
Qi said: "A coffee shop is not a shop that only sells coffee or snacks. Although it is indeed better to have its own characteristics, it will always feel weird if it is too different."
Xia Zhi has also considered the issue of too big a difference. After all, you paid the same price as someone else, but the other person got the Qinglong Yanyue Knife, and you got a rusty hatchet. This is not a lottery game. Who can bear this grievance?
?Even if it is a lottery game, probably no one can bear this grievance.
But unfortunately, coffee is not the same as cooking. Although the technique can also have a considerable impact, compared with cooking, coffee is more strongly dominated by the raw materials. Xia Zhi does not have the ability to turn decay into something.
The magical Midas touch.
The materials were okay for the time being, but the gap in craftsmanship was so big that Xia Zhi felt a little desperate. But there is nothing wrong with recognizing the reality. The most terrifying thing in human life is not lack of ability, but not being able to see the limits of one's ability.
Where exactly.
The world is unfair but also fair at the same time.
The differences between people in various aspects have already determined the unfairness of this world, but under this unfairness, the world is fair. People with infinite strength cannot feel the gap caused by strength.
People who cannot feel pain cannot experience the same complete life as others, and wealthy people cannot understand the yearning of ordinary people or poor people for a better life.
Similarly, Shiraishi Rika has something that Xia Zhi envies in terms of family background, ability, and character, but other than that, there is nothing else. Big people have the lives of big people, and small people have the lives of small people. Xia Zhi
Zhi is motivated because of envy, and Shiraishi Rika has a goal and is also moving forward. In fact, there is not much difference between them.
Shiraishi Rika's talents and abilities are much stronger than hers. This is a fact. There is no need to deny it, because whether you admit it or not, this is an established fact. The world will not change because of one person's subjective thoughts. Simply
Admitting it will make you look freer and more handsome.
There is no need to envy too much, because - even if you have poor skills, poor abilities, and little knowledge, you are always living for yourself. As long as this is the case, life will still have meaning, and this is enough.
"There's nothing I can do about it. After all, I'm just an ordinary person."
He breathed a sigh of relief and easily recognized the reality.
"I don't think it's right." Rishi spoke: "It was my senior who encouraged me before, saying that I could surpass my sister, but he gave up first. It's too cunning."
"That's right." Wuhe also agreed.
Xia Zhi rolled his eyes: "Forget it Rishi, you don't even know what you're talking about, right?"
"But this does not prevent me from preaching to you. The disciplinary committee member has such rights."
"You call this abuse of power." Xia Zhi complained, then looked at Li Shi: "You are right, how could I just give up?"
Xia Zhi finally discovered the reason why he always cared more or less about Rishi.
Very similar...the situation of the two people.
Although don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you, it would really be a sin to let a good boy like Rishi give up his efforts: "Well, let's do it. How about we make an agreement? Wuhe will be a witness."
"What agreement?" Wuhe was a little curious.
"When you stand on the stage, Rishi, how about I treat you to my best coffee? I can't say anything else, but at least it tastes much better than what I have now."
"It seems very interesting. I accept it!" It was Wuhe who spoke.
"Eh?" Rise was stunned as she looked at Wuhe who accepted the agreement for her.
It is not difficult to make better coffee than now. Coffee is a beverage that is very seriously affected by raw materials, which is worse than drinks such as juice. The coffee beans used now are not particularly good.
, I don’t have all the tools to make latte in place, and I don’t have a clear idea of my preference for latte.
If you have these factors, it is not difficult to make coffee that tastes better than it does now.
I'm sorry for using such a little trick. But don't look at me like this...