There are two weddings of my buddies in a row on the 15th and 18th, which really makes everyone dizzy.
On the night of the 14th, I went to help post happy words and blow up balloons, as well as clean the new house. I was busy until I got home at around 2 o'clock in the morning.
Five and a half years will arrive in the morning, so I have to get up at five o'clock.
So I just stayed up all night coding.
After a busy day, I went home and slept until three o'clock in the afternoon on the 16th.
Then I rushed to code again, and went to help with the same thing on the night of the 17th, until one o'clock in the morning.
Then this time I arrived at six o'clock in the morning.
I coded all night again, and then slept for an hour at 4:30.
All done, the time has come to the 19th.
My grandpa is going to have surgery.
(It's not a major surgery, but there is a tumor in the abdominal artery. If it is not treated, the artery may rupture at any time, and then the person will be dead in two seconds. This is what the doctor from the tertiary hospital told our family members personally. So a stent is needed.
I probably took a few rides in total. Thanks to the national medical insurance, more than 70% of the rides were reimbursed. After all, I only had to pay ten thousand or twenty thousand, and I could still afford it.)
Moreover, it is a minimally invasive surgery and only half a month of hospitalization is enough.
So these days I occasionally go to the hospital to work night shifts. After all, my grandfather is over eighty.
Then it will be released on the 22nd, and one chapter of the manuscript has not been saved, so I can only save it as much as possible in the last two days by coding all night.
As a result... I was notified of a blind date this afternoon, and it was said that she was the daughter of a relative's colleague.
Of course I didn't refuse, so I went in the afternoon.
How to say it.
The girl is quite pretty.
If you look at the photo, it would be 8.5 points, and in person with makeup, it would be around 6.5 points.
It's really beautiful.
I have said something before, "Anyone who comes for a blind date either has poor hardware, has a personality problem, or has too high standards. It is impossible for someone who is beautiful and has a good personality to come for a blind date, because they already have a partner."
Today I want to formally apologize. I made a mistake.
Because there is another one.
Nowadays, everyone is too busy at work, working overtime every day, between two o'clock and one line, and has a small social circle, so there is no way to meet strange men (women), and they can only go on blind dates through introductions.
To be honest, I was really a little excited at the time.
Well, because she is beautiful.
However, I was very enthusiastic during the chat, and I kept racking my brains to interact with her and get her to talk. After all, it was really embarrassing to be a one-man show.
But the girl's reaction was quite cold.
I just don't hate it, nor do I like it.
That's quite normal.
This is what blind dates are like, falling in love at first sight is just because of your appearance.
Others really need to get along slowly.
To be honest, it can almost be said that this is the first time I have had the idea of continuing to develop.
So as I kept looking for topics to talk about, and the other party responded indifferently but never stopped, this blind date was generally very pleasant.
At the end, I issued a test: "Now that cinemas are unblocked, so are restaurants. Do you want to have hot pot and go to the movies in two days?"
I've already thought about it.
Watching movies is not the point, the point is eating!
Let me invite you first. If the other party is a particularly nice girl, she won't want to owe me anything even if she's not very interested.
Then when she returns the invitation, I will continue to treat her, and it will be endless until I win!
If she has no intention of responding to the invitation, then I will excuse myself that it is too awkward to eat alone, and then tell her that there is delicious food somewhere, and I will continue to invite her to dinner next time!
It’s quite expensive! As expected of me!
I didn't think about the possibility of rejection at all. After all, if I really hated him, he wouldn't have been able to chat with me for two hours.
Although it was quite cold, the other party never stopped responding. This was because he wanted to continue the conversation.
Icebergs also need heat to melt, I think I can do it!
Then......
"Can we not meet again?"
This is the other person's answer.
I was indeed thrown cold water on me at that time, but I didn't react much.
I have been on a blind date for four years and have gone through many battles!
You know, the buddy who is getting married on the 18th, his wife is also my friend.
When he was chasing his wife, his wife even went to a few of our buddies in private and said, "If you ask me to eat from now on, I will eat with you, but don't call him that again. It's impossible for me to eat with him."
A week later, the two of them held hands and gathered with us.
Afterwards I asked what happened.
The bride said that he was too shameless and insisted on treating her to dinner.
Then they felt that they had to return the invitation, and then they explained the matter clearly, so they returned the invitation once.
Then...the two of them ate for a week, and she was also moved.
I think this is the experience of previous generations of successful people, which is worth learning from. So, let’s have dinner together in the evening, and I’ll take you back after dinner.
When I got down, I heard something.
"No, I'm afraid my boyfriend will misunderstand me."
Um?
Um???
Um?????
Boy friend?
Misunderstand?
You already have a boyfriend, so why the hell are you going on a blind date?
As an author who is particularly good at brainstorming, I made up a few options in my mind at this time.
1. She doesn’t have a boyfriend, so she just finds a reason to reject me.
However, they usually say that they have something to do or that they are not free, and they will not say that they have a boyfriend.
2. She did have a boyfriend, but her parents didn't know about it, so she couldn't resist the pressure from her parents, so she went on a blind date.
3. She has a boyfriend, but she wants to ride a donkey and find a horse. Let’s see which one has better conditions: me or her boyfriend.
4. She has a boyfriend, and her parents know about it, but they don’t like him, so they were forced to go on a blind date with me.
I don’t think of others as bad people right away, so I rejected 1 and 3.
I'm thinking about possibility 4.
Gee, when you think about it this way, it seems similar to the plot.
I'm the standard villain in the movie who competes with the protagonist to steal women! Will a tall, handsome and mighty man show up and slap me in the face next moment?
I looked around and saw no such outstanding man.
So I thought about it.
There may be a fifth possibility.
That is, she didn't have a boyfriend, but she didn't want to go on a blind date, so she made up a boyfriend.
Moreover, she has found a man to pretend to be her boyfriend, and I am still the villain in the story.
And the protagonist pretending to be her boyfriend may have some conflicts with her, or may have a crush on each other.
So, after the story of me being the villain, a pair of enemies slowly came together.
Tsk, thinking about it this way, I can be regarded as a person of immeasurable merit.
So I planned to wait for ten minutes for a hot man to appear, and then I would play the role of a little villain who was slapped in the face by pretending.
But after waiting for two minutes, when I didn't say anything, she told me.
She does have a boyfriend, and she really doesn't dare to let her parents know because they are in a long-distance relationship.
And her parents don't want her to go abroad.
But she was also very brave and quietly registered with her boyfriend to get the certificate.
What the hell...
Do you think I am on a blind date with a married woman?
Thinking about it this way, it seems quite interesting.
Although I like her looks very much, winning people's love is not what I should do.
So I sent my heartfelt blessings and planned to leave the show gracefully and go home to type - it will be on the shelves tomorrow! I don’t even have a saved copy of the chapter after it was put on the shelves!
The girl stopped me.
I returned a confused look.
After all, I don’t have that kind of hobby in real life.
But girl... no, the next sentence of the married young woman almost made me lose my power.
"Can you tell the introducer that you are not satisfied?"
Um?
Sorry, I was fooled, and then I wasted two hundred dollars at Starbucks, wasted time on coding, and finally got scolded by my family for taking the blame?
I nodded: "Okay, no problem."
Under the young woman's gaze, I only left her with the back view of a dashing single man.
After leaving, I walked on the street and thought it was time to buy some more snacks, fruits and drinks to reward myself for completing another blind date, so I planned to go to the supermarket.
At this time, I received a call from the introducer.
"Are your expectations too high? You can't even look down on people with such good conditions?"
Oh, it was the girl who called and blamed me.
I walked into the supermarket, pushed the cart, and smiled:
"Mainly, I don't have any special hobbies and I'm not interested in girls who already have a partner. By the way, I personally can't accept a second marriage."
After hanging up the phone, I walked into the crowded supermarket.
Hidden merit and fame.
(It’s true. I posted photos of buying snacks, drinks and fruits in the supermarket in the afternoon. That’s why I said in the group that this blind date was really interesting. I wasn’t angry at all. I just didn’t expect this kind of plot to happen.
It really does exist. This is the first time I have encountered this situation in four years of dating, hehe)