After the meal, Andy had a very good impression of Lin Li, and the conversation was very pleasant.
In particular, Lin Li did not ignore Guan Ju'er just because there were two people of the opposite sex at his desk. This was a huge difference from yesterday's supervisor Bai.
Andy could feel that although Lin Li had been talking and chatting with them, the person he focused on taking care of was always Guan Juer. He was not at all like Supervisor Bai yesterday, whose eyes were wandering everywhere.
On the other side, Andy also noticed that Fan Shengmei was having a very lively conversation with her old classmate. They kept talking and ate very slowly.
And when they were all full at the table, and even had to add more dishes to wait for Fan Shengmei, they almost couldn't hold it anymore. When she felt a little sorry for Lin Li's wallet, Andy finally couldn't help but want to take out her mobile phone and call.
Fan Shengmei asked her when she would go home.
At this moment, Qiu Yingying's phone rang, and it was Supervisor Bai calling!
"What should I do?" Qiu Yingying was at a loss for a moment.
"Take it!" Guan Ju'er said.
"What did I say when I picked up?"
"Don't say anything yet. Listen to what he has to say first."
"Hey, what are you doing?" Qiu Yingying answered the phone angrily.
"My mobile phone is out of battery. I didn't receive your call just now. It was just charged. When I saw the missed call, I hurriedly called you!" Lin Li had good hearing and could vaguely hear the other end of the phone.
Manager Bai's voice.
"I'm just telling you, how could you ignore me? It turns out that your phone is out of battery." When Qiu Yingying heard his explanation, she immediately lost her anger and said with a smile: "I still have a relationship with Sister Fan and Sister Andy.
Guan and Dr. Zhao are having dinner at a very high-end hotel."
Seeing that Qiu Yingying wanted to continue chatting with Supervisor Bai about irrelevant topics, Guan Ju'er quickly reminded him: "Qu Xiaoxiao, ask him what's going on with Qu Xiaoxiao."
Qiu Yingying nodded: "Wait a minute, let me ask you, why didn't you tell me about helping Qu Xiaoxiao move?"
"I didn't do it for you. Think about it, your friend gave me his contact information, so I have to reply to him no matter what. I originally wanted to reply to him as a courtesy, but that's not the case.
Thinking about your friend asking me for help, what do you think I should do?" Director Bai's voice was serious.
Qiu Yingying originally had a lot of resentment and grievances in her heart, but after being coaxed by Supervisor Bai with a few words, her eyes were like water and she was as gentle as ever.
Seeing that she was fooled by a man so easily, Lin Li frowned and couldn't bear to listen anymore. He stood up and said, "I'm going to the bathroom."
"I'll go too!" Andy and Guan Ju'er said in unison and stood up together.
Outside the bathroom, Guan Ju'er said angrily: "Sister Andy, Doctor Zhao, I'm a little worried about Qiu Yingying. She likes Supervisor Bai so much that she believes everything Supervisor Bai says. Doctor Zhao, you couldn't stand listening just now, right? You guys?
Why is Qiu Yingying so easy to coax? Manager Bai fell in love with Qu Xiaoxiao so quickly. This shows that he has already planned it and has the idea of having one foot in both boats. Do you think we should remind Qiu Yingying? Watch helplessly.
She was deceived, and I always feel that we are not friends enough, what should I do?"
She and Qiu Yingying are similar in age and have basically the same education and experience, so in terms of relationship, the two of them are better than the relationship with Fan Shengmei.
"I don't know much about this kind of thing, and I don't know what to do, but I feel that this matter should not affect the relationship between our neighbors on the 22nd floor."
With that said, Andy looked at Lin Li again: "Doctor Zhao, do you have any good suggestions?"
"I don't have a good idea." Lin Li shook his head and said: "There is a saying that you can never wake up a person who is pretending to sleep. Qiu Yingying is in this situation now. In fact, she did not find the problem herself.
It’s just that I don’t want to accept it in my heart and choose not to believe it.”
In economic terms, Qiu Yingying's performance is a typical "sunk cost".
In a relationship, everything one party does for the other party is equivalent to paying its own cost.
And the more you do this, the higher the cost becomes, and the more reluctant you are to give up.
For this kind of person, there is a very appropriate name on the Internet, that is "dog licking"!
Dog lickers often give up all their dignity and bottom line, and remain obsessed with licking until death, because the sunk cost is too high. Once they give up, it means denying everything they have done, so they will persist even if they know there is little hope.
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The same is true for Qiu Yingying. It's not that she didn't notice the problem with Supervisor Bai, but since she had invested time, energy and emotions in the early stage, how could she be willing to give up?
This is human nature, so in relationships, the winning side often belongs to those scumbag men and scumbag women who are good at playing with people's hearts.
If it were a smart woman, faced with a situation like Qiu Yingying's, instead of indulging in pain, deceiving herself and others, and continuing to consume, she would definitely know how to get out as early as possible, stop losses in time, and give up these irreparable sunk costs.
After a pause, Lin Li said calmly: "If you have to do something, let Qiu Yingying see the true face of Supervisor Bai earlier. After all, the long-term pain is not as good as the short-term pain. Just like a dream, sooner or later she will
Everyone will wake up one day."
"But how can we make Xiao Qiu understand?" Andy also knew that what Lin Li said was right, she just didn't know how to do it. "The photo Xiao Qi sent today was not strong enough, so Director Bai can
It was so easy to coax Xiao Qiu into good health. All we can tell her is our guess, but guess alone cannot be used as a basis for judgment."
"To untie the bell, you have to tie it. I think if we want to solve this problem, it has to fall on the girl named Qu Xiaoxiao."
Lin Li spoke again: "Xiaoguan told me about this matter today. I also roughly understand Qu Xiaoxiao's purpose. Since she wants to expose the true face of Director Bai, you might as well go and have a talk with her. I
With her skill and ability, it is only a trivial matter to break up Qiu Yingying and Director Bai."
But Andy was still very hesitant after hearing this: "If I do this, Xiao Qiu will definitely hate Xiao Qu to death. I don't want to affect the relationship between the five girls on the 22nd floor because of a scumbag."
"You can tell Qiu Yingying about this in advance, and treat it as a test for her boyfriend. If Manager Bai can't resist the temptation, I think even if she hates Qu Xiaoxiao, she won't hate her for too long. In the end, she
You will understand that you are doing this for her own good."