"The call recording was released, and the first person who found me was my teacher."
"At around five o'clock in the morning, I covered myself with my coat and was catching up on my sleep in the lounge. Later, I vaguely heard the sound of the door opening, but I was too sleepy at that time and didn't take it to heart."
"It wasn't until noon that I opened my eyes and discovered that the teacher was sitting at the desk in the lounge, reading Menlinger's "Man Against Himself," which is a book on the psychology of suicide."
"The sun shone into the room. At that time, I didn't know what was happening outside. I just thought the teacher was a little strange today."
"He is the most senior psychological counselor here, and he brought me here, so I will always call him teacher no matter what."
You can tell from the man's tone that he respects his teacher.
"Did your teacher tell you this? What was his attitude?" Chen Ge was a little curious. If he wanted to have a good relationship with Hong Yi, he had to find out his character and obsession during his life and prescribe the right medicine to make him happy.
Be willing to work for yourself.
"He didn't say anything to me about that incident, he just asked me a question." The man looked at the dark night sky: "If one day, when he stands on the edge of the building, how should I persuade him?
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"I have never thought about this problem. In my eyes, teachers are very mentally strong people. In my opinion, this situation will almost never happen. I told him my thoughts truthfully. If one day, I will
I will use everything I have learned on him and try my best to save him. If this still fails to convince me, then I will respect his decision."
"I never feel that my job is sacred. I just feel that my job is very important, just like the doctors in the emergency room. I will use my most serious attitude to save patients, but I will also respect the patients."
The man's voice gradually became lower as he spoke: "After hearing what I said, the teacher smiled with satisfaction. He was like an old friend for many years. He sat next to me and said something to me."
"He felt that I was a good person and his proudest student, but I was not a fully qualified suicide intervention operator."
"The teacher has noticed that my mood is not quite right. He asked me to go out for a walk more often and relax my mind."
"Suicide intervention operator has a very special job. In addition to those harassing calls, each person will receive an average of about twenty moderately dangerous calls and one to five emergency dangerous calls every night. Under the continuous emotional impact,
The operator himself will sometimes be affected and become depressed and burst into tears along with the other party. At this time, you have to tell yourself that you must calm down and convince the other party."
"The human body is like a balloon filled with water. Good, bad, and all kinds of emotions will be injected into it. If you cannot adjust yourself, when the balloon explodes, a person will completely collapse.
when."
"As a suicide intervention operator, my brain is soaked in crying and mourning every night. Many people will leave after working for a period of time, so I didn't really understand what the teacher meant at first."
"When I was about to ask again, the teacher patted me on the shoulder and left, but the book he just read stayed."
"Later, I learned that the recording of my phone call had been posted online, and I became the first suicide intervention operator to persuade someone to die."
"Countless people were abusing me, but I was actually very calm at that time."
"What others say has nothing to do with me. I only recognize right and wrong."
"From this aspect, I am indeed a very stupid person. I will shed tears because of the stories of those who ask for help. I will chat with these strangers until dawn, cry with them, and bring them into their hearts."
The characters will feel their pain."
"I don't think of myself as a rescuer, but as their friend."
When the man said these words, his expression was a little confused.
But soon the confusion in his eyes was replaced by the color of blood, and scarlet blood seeped out from under his skin: "The result of this matter has not yet appeared, and something new has appeared."
"During crisis intervention, if we forcibly stop people who are determined to die, even if they succeed this time, they are likely to use a more decisive method to commit suicide next time."
"In order to avoid this situation, we sometimes allow them to try within a controllable range. For example, if there are life-saving air mattresses, ambulances, and fire brigade, if the floor is lower, we will not forcefully stop it.
The other party jumped off the building."
"I know this sounds hard to accept, but if you think about it from another perspective, few people in the world can empathize with it. Even biological parents find it difficult to do so. Most of the time, blunt dissuasion will have the opposite effect. This is
It’s a sign of not understanding the other person’s pain.”
"And allowing them to try is a kind of respect, a tangible respect that they can feel."
Hearing this, Chen Ge already had a bad premonition: "You have never really done this, have you?"
"I have done something like this during on-site crisis intervention. In fact, it is not as scary as you think. We try to do it within the controllable range of the crisis. Let me give you another example. A requester once wanted to
He committed suicide by swallowing sleeping pills. He was extremely emotionally unstable and unable to communicate at all. After communicating with the police, I found a low-concentration sleeping pill and let him try it."
"After experiencing death, he changed a lot and started living again."
"I have many successful examples, but this method sounds like it violates our responsibilities. After the subsequent recording was released, this method attracted strong attacks from public opinion."
"I am obviously saving people, but everyone thinks I am killing people."
"I began to think about it. My teacher also came to see me, and many friends comforted me. But the key to the problem is not myself, but whether I am right or wrong."
The man looked about the same age as Chen Ge, but his voice sounded much older than Chen Ge. He looked at the boundless black night quietly for a long time.
The expression on his face slowly turned ferocious, then gradually returned to normal, and finally the corners of his mouth formed an indifferent arc.
"Perhaps I am not a qualified suicide intervention operator, but the people I help do regard me as their last trustworthy friend in their lives." The man's coat was completely dyed red, and half of his blood-red face was stained.
Constantly changing: "I didn't understand this until after my death. It turns out that I had so much hope placed on me."