Chapter 1192 Lovers are too hard, only being loved is happiness
"..." Xu Jun took a breath, his gentle handsome face full of helplessness, "I'm sorry, Mom! I can't do it!"
"You..." "Since I was a child, I have always grown up according to the requirements of you and my father. No matter what it is, you will make the decision for me.
It can be as small as what I want to eat and wear every day, or as big as my college entrance examination aspirations and my job after graduation.
I know that you and my dad are doing it for my own good, so I have been living step by step these years, and now...the only thing I want to hold on to is this relationship, are you going to let me give up on this relationship too!"
When Xu's mother heard what he said, she felt a little moved when she remembered that he had never disobeyed his parents since he was a child. "Ajun..." "Mom! I'm an adult, I'm almost thirty years old, and I want to have my own life.
, I beg you, please stop interfering in my emotional affairs, okay?"
"..." Xu's mother shook her head, "Ajun, since you know that your parents are all for your own good, why don't you know how to understand your parents' feelings? Yes! We have been taking care of you since you were a child, because you are my
The only child with your father, when you were a child, we decided on your food and clothing in order to keep your nutrition balanced and in order to keep you warm and not sick... Now, we are intervening in your feelings also so that you can be happy in the future!"
Xu's mother was moved by her emotions and reasoned. She took Xu Jun's hand and said softly, "Mom knows that you are an adult and have your own ideas. She also knows that you like Sun Qian, very much.
If something like that hadn't happened to her back then, your dad and I would definitely have blessed you two, but now that it has happened, and she still has the child... How do you expect your dad and I to accept this daughter-in-law calmly?
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"..." Seeing that Xu Jun was silent, she continued, "Son! Because you and Sun Qian grew up together, you feel that you can't live without her. In fact, that's not the case. You are just used to her being by your side.
Your feelings for her are not necessarily love."
"mom!"
Xu Jun interrupted her unbearably, "I can distinguish my own feelings."
"Okay! Even if you are in love with her, what about her?"
Xu's mother looked at her and said, "Your father and I have watched Sun Qian grow up. Even though she has been following you and calling you brother Xu Jun every day, your parents can tell that she only treats you as a friend."
My grown-up brother has no love for you between men and women at all."
"..." This sentence completely hurt Xu Jun's heart.
Yes.
He knew that Qianqian didn't love him at all.
She just regarded him as her unrelated brother.
If... her feelings for him were as strong as his, no matter how much his parents objected, he would still be able to find a reason to persist. But now... Xu Jun gritted his teeth.
He persisted for so many years and still didn't want to give up.
He tried to persuade Xu's mother, "Mom! You also said that relationships take time to develop slowly. When the two of us confirm our relationship and get married, she will definitely be able to see the good in me."
"Oh——" "Mom!"
Xu's mother mercilessly shattered his beautiful fantasy, "Ajun, you and Sun Qian's childhood sweethearts grew up together. They have been together for twenty years. In these twenty years, she has not fallen in love with you, nor has she ever fallen in love with you."
After discovering how good you are, how can you expect that she will fall in love with you if her identity changes after marriage?"
"..." Xu Jun was speechless.
Seeing his ugly face, Mother Xu sighed and patted his shoulder, "Son, I know these words are cruel to you, but if mom doesn't tell you the truth, you will only have unrealistic fantasies... We
In this circle, how many people get married because of love?
One-sided love is difficult to maintain. You can wait a day or two, or you can wait a year or two. But if you wait ten or twenty years, her feelings for you still won't change. What should you do?
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"..." "In love, the person you fall in love with first is destined to suffer. When you find that she can't give you what you want, you will become mentally unbalanced and resentful. If you have too much resentment, you will
It turned into hatred, and finally they became a resentful couple! I can almost imagine what the situation will be like after you two get married. It is true that Qianqian is a good child. She will be good to you and will fulfill her responsibilities as a wife, but she just won't fall in love with you.
In that case, what should you do?"
"..." Xu's mother said earnestly, "Your father and I are old, what things have we not seen before?
You wholeheartedly think that your sincerity can move others, but you are! Maybe you can indeed move her, but being moved is not love. If she marries you because she is moved, you will not be happy.
Instead of falling out and becoming enemies in the end, why not start this relationship and just become brother and sister?"
"..." "Ajun, marriage is very important. Marry a virtuous wife. A good wife can make a family happy for three generations.
Therefore, your parents hope that you can be a virtuous and loving wife who will be able to settle down for you in the future and give you children so that you can work hard in your career with peace of mind... Your parents have selfish motives.
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Parents hope to find a girl who will give everything for you. Loving someone is too hard, only when you are loved can you be happy.
Your parents don’t want you to have such a hard life either.”
"Mom..." Xu's mother interrupted her, "Mom, I promise you that as long as you don't fall in love with Sun Qian, your parents will not be prejudiced against her! Even your father and I can recognize her as our goddaughter and treat her as our goddaughter."
Treat her like a biological daughter, even if her parents cut off relations with her, they will never forgive her for the rest of their lives.
Your father and I will also treat her as our own, and we can find a good in-law for her as long as she needs it."
"..." Xu Jun's face tightened.
He doesn't need a sister, he just wants Qianqian to be his wife! "Mom!"
Seeing that he didn't look relieved, Xu's mother became completely angry, "I've already said what I said, why are you so stubborn! You must force your parents to go to Country M, find Sun Qian, and warn her.
Just don’t come near you again!”
"..." Xu Jun gasped, "Mom! You can't do this!"
"For so many years, your dad and I have just been concerned about your feelings, so that's why we haven't done this.
But Xu Jun, people's patience is limited, if you continue to delay like this, I can't guarantee that you will be like those rich ladies in the TV series and just throw a check directly in Sun Qian's face!"
"Mom! You have watched Sun Qian grow up. How can you treat her like a mistress? This is so insulting!"
"I don't want to either, so don't force me!"
"mom!!"
Xu's mother grimaced, "Now, you have only one choice, go home with me and continue your blind date with Miss Zhou, otherwise... I promise you, I will appear in front of Sun Qian within a week!"