Chapter 1192 Lovers are too hard, only being loved is happiness
"..."
Xu Jun took a breath, his gentle handsome face full of helplessness, "I'm sorry, Mom! I can't do it!"
"you……"
"Since I was a child, I have always grown up according to the requirements of you and my father. No matter what it is, you will make decisions for me. From what I want to eat and wear every day, to my aspirations for the college entrance examination and what I will do after graduation.
Work. I know that you and my dad are doing it for my own good, so I have been living step by step these years. Now... the only thing I want to hold on to is this relationship. Do you want me to give up on this relationship too?
!”
When Xu's mother heard what he said, she felt a little moved when she remembered that he had never disobeyed his parents since he was a child. "Ajun..."
"Mom! I have grown up. I am almost thirty years old. I want to have my own life. I beg you, please don't interfere with my emotional affairs, okay?"
"..."
Xu's mother shook her head, "Ajun, since you know that your parents are all for your own good, why don't you understand your parents' feelings? Yes! We have been taking care of you since we were young, because you are the only one your father and I have.
As a child, when you were a child, we decided on your food and clothing in order to keep you nutritionally balanced and in order to keep you warm and healthy... Now, we are interfering in your feelings also so that you can be happy in the future!"
Xu's mother was moved by her emotions. She held Xu Jun's hand and said softly, "Mom knows that you are an adult and have your own ideas. She also knows that you like Sun Qian, very much. If she had
If that thing hadn't happened, your dad and I would definitely have blessed you two, but now that it has happened, and she still has the child... How do you expect your dad and I to accept this daughter-in-law calmly? "
"..."
Seeing that Xu Jun was silent, she continued, "Son! Because you and Sun Qian grew up together, you feel that you can't live without her. In fact, that's not the case. You are just used to her being by your side. You treat her
Feelings are not necessarily love.”
"mom!"
Xu Jun interrupted her unbearably, "I can distinguish my own feelings."
"Okay! Even if you are in love with her, what about her?" Xu's mother looked at her, "Your father and I watched Sun Qian grow up, even though she has been following you and calling Xu Jun every day.
Brother, but my parents can see that she only regards you as the brother she grew up with, and she has no feelings for you as a man or a woman at all."
"..."
This sentence completely hurt Xu Jun's heart.
Yes.
He knew that Qianqian didn't love him at all.
She just regarded him as her unrelated brother.
if……
Her feelings for him were as strong as his. No matter how much his parents objected, he could always find a reason to persist. But now... Xu Jun gritted his teeth.
He persisted for so many years and still didn't want to give up.
He tried to persuade Xu's mother, "Mom! You also said that relationships take time to develop slowly. When the two of us confirm our relationship and get married, she will definitely be able to see the good in me."
"Ah--"
"mom!"
Xu's mother mercilessly shattered his beautiful fantasy, "Ajun, you and Sun Qian's childhood sweethearts grew up together. They have been together for a full twenty years. In these twenty years, she has not fallen in love with you, nor has she.
After discovering how good you are, how can you expect that she will fall in love with you if her identity changes after marriage?"
"..."
Xu Jun was speechless.
Seeing his ugly face, Mother Xu sighed and patted his shoulder, "Son, I know these words are cruel to you, but if mom doesn't tell you the truth, you will only have unrealistic fantasies... We
In this circle, how many marriages are due to love? It is difficult to maintain one-sided love. You can wait for a day or two, or you can wait for a year or two, but if you wait for ten or twenty years, she will not love you.
Your feelings still won’t change, what should you do?”
"..."
"In love, the person you fall in love with first is destined to suffer. When you find out that she can't give you what you want, you will become mentally unbalanced and resentful. If you have too much resentment, it will turn into hatred.
In the end, we became a pair of resentful couples! I can almost imagine what the situation will be like after you two get married. It’s true that Qianqian is a good child. She will be kind to you and will fulfill her responsibilities as a wife, but she just won’t fall in love with you. In that case, you
What should we do?”
"..."
Xu's mother said sincerely, "Your father and I are old, what have we not seen before? You wholeheartedly think that your sincerity can move others, yes! Maybe you can indeed move her, but being moved is not love. If she is because of
Even if I am moved to marry you, you will not be happy. Instead of falling out and turning against each other in the end, why not start this relationship and just become brother and sister?"
"..."
"Ajun, marriage is very important. Marry a virtuous wife. A good wife can make a family happy for three generations. Therefore, my parents hope that you can be a virtuous and loving wife, so that they can settle down the home for you in the future.
You give birth to children, so that you can work hard in your career with peace of mind... Your parents have selfish motives. Your parents hope to find a girl who will give everything for you. Loving someone is too hard, only by being loved can you be happy.
.My parents don’t want you to have such a hard life.”
"mom……"
Xu's mother interrupted her, "Mom, I promise you, as long as you don't fall in love with Sun Qian, your parents will not be biased against her! Even your father and I can recognize her as our goddaughter and treat her like our biological daughter.
, even if her parents sever ties with her and never forgive her for the rest of their lives. Your dad and I will treat her as our own, and we can find a good in-law for her as long as she needs it."
"..."
Xu Jun's face tightened.
He doesn't need a sister, he just wants Qianqian to be his wife!
"mom!"
Seeing that he didn't look relieved, Xu's mother became completely angry, "I've already said what I said, why are you so stubborn! You must force your parents to go to Country M, find Sun Qian, and warn her.
Just don’t come near you again!”
"..."
Xu Jun gasped, "Mom! You can't do this!"
"For so many years, your dad and I have been worried about your feelings, so we haven't done this. But Xu Jun, people's patience is limited. If you continue to delay like this, I can't guarantee that you will be like the rich people in the TV series.
Just like my wife, she just threw the check in Sun Qian’s face!"
"Mom! You have watched Sun Qian grow up. How can you treat her like a mistress? This is so insulting!"
"I don't want to either, so don't force me!"
"mom!!"
Xu's mother grimaced, "Now, you have only one choice, go home with me and continue your blind date with Miss Zhou, otherwise... I promise you, I will appear in front of Sun Qian within a week!"