"..." Xiao Rui had no choice but to pull her into his arms without saying a word, kissed the tears off her face, and then followed her cheeks and kissed her eyelids.
An Nuannuan was stunned and forgot to shed tears, "You are really a gangster."
"Then who made you cry?"
"You..." "If you cry again, I'll kiss you again."
"..." An Nuannuan immediately held back her tears. Xiao Rui was very satisfied with the result. He nodded and said, "We are all civilized people. If you can talk, try not to do it."
"..." An Nuannuan dared not speak out in anger.
In any case, the atmosphere has eased. Xiao Rui casually took out the skirt from the suitcase and wiped the tears on her face. This time, An Nuannuan couldn't care less about being sad. She quickly snatched the skirt back and said, "What are you doing?"
Well?"
"Wipe your tears."
"Wiping tears with a five-digit dress?"
An Nuannuan was going crazy, "Why are you so extravagant?"
"As long as it keeps you from crying, a skirt is nothing."
"..." An Nuannuan was so distressed that she quickly folded the skirt and put it in the suitcase, "I know you have money, but money can't be wasted like this."
"What's the point of you woman? What I want to express is that you are more important than money. How come I understand it like this when I get here!"
He threw the skirt out of the suitcase again, "What are you packing? I've already given in to you, and I still want to run away from home."
"Who's running away from home?"
Xiao Rui was stunned, "Aren't you packing your luggage?"
"Whoever packed their luggage, I just didn't want to see this skirt, so I found a place to put it away where it couldn't be seen."
An Nuannuan also reacted, "Do you think I'm going to run away from home?"
"..." This misunderstanding happened.
Xiao Rui touched his nose and said nothing with a guilty conscience.
"Am I like the kind of person who runs away from problems?"
Xiao Rui nodded honestly.
"I..." "I..." they both spoke at the same time.
"You speak first!"
"You speak first!"
They spoke in unison again. The two of them looked at each other and couldn't hold it back. They laughed. With this smile, the tense feeling just now disappeared immediately. It was Xiao Rui who spoke first, "You go first."
"I...may have some character flaws."
An Nuannuan said with difficulty, "Since I was a child, I would rather others owe me something than owe others. If I owe others something, I will feel very uneasy.
I was also afraid that others would reject me. When I was in school, I actually wanted to play with my classmates, but I didn’t dare. I was afraid that they would reject me and would rather not take the first step. Therefore, when I was in school, I actually didn’t
No matter what kind of friends I made, after I graduated, my classmates all commented very coldly on me."
This was the first time that An Nuannuan analyzed herself in front of others. She smiled helplessly, "This situation lasted until I went to college. After I went to college, because I had a part-time job and had to deal with people, I learned to deal with people.
relation.
After taking the first step... I found that it wasn't that difficult, and my colleagues and classmates were all easy to get along with. That's when I realized that the reason why I couldn't make friends all along was because I was too sensitive and had low self-esteem."
"..." "I am really grateful to Xinyi and the others. They all know that I have so many shortcomings, but they never care about me and are so tolerant of me. After a few years, I finally opened my heart to them.
If a person is used to darkness, she will not feel sad when living in darkness. But once she sees the light, she will no longer be able to endure the darkness. The same goes for feelings.
After gaining friendship, I am very afraid of losing it, so I am always cautious when getting along with them."
"..." "I rush to do it when I'm on duty, I take the initiative to bring them meals outside the school, I reserve seats for them during class, the girls' dormitory... You definitely don't understand, that is... when we have a good relationship, there are many things
Everyone will share it.
For example, skin care products, beautiful clothes and other daily necessities.
I will give my things to them, but I never dare to use their things."
"..." Xiao Rui listened to her in silence.
He noticed that she used "dare not", so he pulled her to sit down on the bed and asked her, "Why don't you dare?"
An Nuannuan did not answer immediately, "Actually, the three of them are very good people and have a carefree personality. They also know that An Daqing doesn't care about me and that my financial situation is not good, so sometimes they will deliberately give me things and even
I have to pretend that I don't like it, but in fact I know that they are protecting my poor self-esteem."
"Why don't I dare to use it... I'm afraid that I'm used to being in that kind of environment, and I'm afraid that if I use their stuff once or twice, they won't mind, but if I use it more often, they'll think I'm taking advantage. I... actually do care about their opinions.
.”
"..." "I'm not very good at accepting other people's kindness towards me, can you understand?"
"I understand, so you don't accept the gift I bought."
An Nuannuan nodded, she looked at him carefully, and whispered, "If I can give you something of the same value in return, I can accept your gift, but... our consumption level is obviously not at the same level, two at a time
Once, I could buy a gift for you, but there were too many times, and my finances didn’t allow it, so, so..." Xiao Rui said, "So I just didn’t accept it from the beginning!"
"Um."
"..." Xiao Rui felt a little upset, "According to what you said, we can't buy each other things while we are in love?
An Nuannuan, you have the wrong idea! Giving gifts is a way to express your feelings, do you understand?
For example, I never visited women's clothing stores when I went shopping, but now that I'm with you, every time I pass by a women's clothing store, I can't help but take a look to see if there are any clothes that suit you. This is a sign that I care about the other person.
! Let me ask you, if a man keeps saying he loves you, but only talks on paper and shrinks when it comes to money, is such a man reliable?"
An Nuannuan thought for a while and shook her head.
"That's right, I'm telling you from a man's point of view, if a man spends money on you, he doesn't necessarily love you, but if he doesn't spend money on you, he definitely doesn't love you. If you encounter such a man, he will kick you as soon as possible.
"
"..." "Secondly, if you still can't tell the difference, then see if this person is willing to spend energy on you. Those who are rich and willing to spend energy and time with you are the ones who really care about you! It doesn't take much more.
Think, I am that person!”
"..." "Also...you have a psychological burden when others treat you well. Change it immediately. If you don't change it, you will have a psychological burden every day in the future."
"..." Seeing that she didn't speak, Xiao Rui's tone softened a little. He took her hand and said, "Take your time, I'll accompany you!"