Luo Ziling originally wanted to refute Fang Dongxun's words, but in the end he did not say it.
He accidentally recognized Fang Dongxun's theory.
Of course, he did not accept Fang Dongxun's suggestion, but only accepted Fang Dongxun's evaluation of Ouyang Feifei and Yang Qingyin.
Yang Qingyin would definitely not accept that he had improper relationships with other women unless she didn't know about it.
Ouyang Feifei can ignore these, because for her, love is not the most important thing in life, and career is more important than love and marriage. However, even if what Fang Dongxun said is correct, it still cannot affect his choice.
.
At least for now, he will definitely choose Yang Qingyin instead of Ouyang Feifei.
He has had that kind of relationship with Lin Lan, Chen Xiaoyi, and Wang Feiyang, but he did not take the initiative to do these things. It can even be described as being forced. And this relationship with Yang Qingyin, with them
The nature of the relationship is completely different.
He felt that he must take responsibility for what he did with Yang Qingyin on his own initiative.
He and Yang Qingyin fell in love in Zhengerbajing.
I had several affairs with Ouyang Feifei before, but the nature of the flirtation with Yang Qingyin was different.
Otherwise, he would not have grasped himself at the last moment and failed to get things done.
However, how to deal with the relationship with Ouyang Feifei is indeed a headache for Luo Ziling. He knows Ouyang Feifei's attitude towards him. This woman, after knowing that his relationship with Yang Qingyin is already very close, has not given up yet.
This can be fully explained.
Luo Ziling didn't want to talk seriously about this matter with Ouyang Feifei, so when he usually got along with her, he often used jokes to resolve the embarrassment. Anyway, the fun of teasing Ouyang Feifei allowed them to successfully avoid a lot of unnecessary embarrassment.
However, he had a headache just thinking about how he would get along with Ouyang Feifei in the future.
Looking at Luo Ziling's reaction, Fang Dongxun knew that he had not convinced him. In the end, he just sighed helplessly: "Pretend I didn't say it. But there is one thing you should believe, that is, the authorities are confused and the bystanders are clear. I believe your elders also think so.
Yes, I think Ouyang Feifei is more suitable for you. Older people have experienced a lot of life, and they look at problems more rationally. Life is realistic, and although feelings are important, they are not irreplaceable. At least I think so, and I may
Love someone, but you may not necessarily marry her. Loving a woman and marrying a woman are completely different things. In a person's life, loving once is enough. The happiness you can live with depends on living together.
Know."
"Should we not talk about these things?" Luo Ziling had a headache. "As you know, I am only twenty-one years old and have not yet reached the legal age, so I will not consider marriage for the time being. Also, the most important thing now is not feelings.
problems, but troublesome things in reality.”
"It seems that you all know that many times feelings are not the most important, practical issues are more important!" Fang Dongxun patted Luo Ziling's shoulder again and said with a smile: "Actually, this is the truth. If Yang Qing is making noises now.
I broke up with you, but you have encountered so many things that need to be solved. Where do you think you should focus your energy? To restore the relationship with Yang Qingyin, or to resolve the crisis first? "
Luo Ziling didn't know how to answer. He knew that Yang Qingyin would not break up with him now, and he also knew that the most important thing now was to knock down the Chen family first to avoid so much trouble in the future.
Once things have been accomplished to this extent, we must continue to do them and not give up halfway.
If such a situation really occurs, or if he was attacked by several attackers a few days ago, Luo Ziling feels that he will definitely focus on dealing with these things and deal with emotional issues first. Is this because relationships have no practical consequences?
Is it important?
Suddenly, Luo Ziling didn't know how to draw a conclusion.
"Sleep!" Fang Dongxun patted Luo Ziling's shoulder again and said with a smile: "For people like me, relationships have long been ignored. Enjoying life and making your life higher is the most important thing.
.I believe that you will think so in the future. When we were young, we would think that the old people’s ideas were too pedantic and too realistic. But those are ideas that we only have when we have not grown up. When we grow up, we have experienced things and been realistic
Only after being hit can you understand that what they think is normal, and although their view of the problem is realistic, it is the most correct."
After saying that, Fang Dongxun left first to wash up and go to bed.
Luo Ziling did not leave immediately. He wandered outside the courtyard for a while and then walked back into the courtyard.
After getting into the tent, Luo Ziling was still thinking about what Fang Dongxun said just now.
He didn't expect that Fang Dongxun would say such philosophical words.
And he also educated him as if he had experienced it.
When he first met Fang Dongxun, Luo Ziling felt that this person was very generous. Now it seems that this judgment was not wrong.
Fangdongxun is indeed forthright, no matter what he does or what he says, he is never sloppy.
Although this guy has many faults, he is indeed a friend you can make.
Just when Luo Ziling got into his tent and recalled what he had just said to Fang Dongxun, Ouyang Feifei sent him a message.
"Am I not welcome here?"
"What do you think?"
Ouyang Feifei rolled her eyes in return, and then sent another message: "Since you are not welcome, then I am going to go back early. I will leave in the next two days!"
After Luo Ziling thought for a while, he replied with a message: "Are you scared by the things you encountered?"
"No, how can I, Ouyang Feifei, be afraid of these things!"
"Of course I welcome you to come back here after more than ten years. Nothing here has changed. You should be able to compare!"
"It's true that it hasn't changed." After Ouyang Feifei replied to the message, she immediately sent another message, "But you are no longer the little boy who was willing to play with me before."
"You are not that little girl who likes to cry in front of me."
"But I'm still the woman who wants you to play everywhere with me!!!"
Looking at the three exclamation points after Ouyang Feifei's news, Luo Ziling was a little bit dumbfounded.
"What do you want me to do?"
"It's not great, I'm going back anyway." Ouyang Feifei added three eye-rolling emoticons after this message.
"Let's play for two more days. Didn't you say you want to conquer the Tianshan Mountains? You definitely can't conquer the Tianshan Mountains, but you can definitely follow us to the hinterland of the Tianshan Mountains to see the most beautiful scenery."
"I don't want to go, it's boring!" Ouyang Feifei's message revealed her emotions.
"You can't come back disappointed after so many years, right?"
"I came back disappointed, what's wrong with you?"
"Then I'll find a way to make you happy!"
"snort!"
"I promise to make you happy in the next few days, okay?"
After seeing this message from Luo Ziling, Ouyang Feifei, who was staring at the screen of her mobile phone, couldn't help but smile a little proudly.