Luo Ziling didn't know how to explain, nor how to comfort Yang Qingyin, so he might as well use some violence.
The violent method was quite effective, and Yang Qingyin finally surrendered to him.
Of course, after Yang Qingyin calmed down, he still resorted to Yang's unique Nine Yin White Bone Choking technique, which made Luo Ziling repeatedly beg for mercy.
Yang Qingyin told Luo Ziling that even if she got engaged, she would have to go abroad for a while to calm down and think about it.
She asked Luo Ziling to think carefully and think everything through.
If you feel that the two parties are not suitable to be together, or that you cannot be devoted to her, then the best result is to separate.
She doesn't want to share a man or his feelings with anyone else.
"Okay, then calm down and think about it." Luo Ziling didn't want to discuss these things too much with Yang Qingyin, so he agreed according to her wishes.
Luo Ziling did not sleep with Yang Qingyin, but went home around ten o'clock.
The engagement ceremony was going to be held tomorrow and he had to go back to make preparations and discuss some things with Ling Ruonan.
Yang Qingyin didn't stop him and let him go back.
The engagement ceremony and the entire process were organized by Chen Qiaoyu.
Tonight she came over to discuss some details with Ling Ruonan.
The Yang family is a super wealthy family. Although the Luo family is not as glorious as the Yang family now, Luo Ziling is the grandson of the Ling family. He is also a super Internet celebrity with hundreds of millions of fans. He is a potential star who can talk to many big bosses, so he is engaged.
The ceremony must match the identity of the two families.
For wealthy families, face is very important.
If such a big event is not arranged well and loses face, it will be laughed at.
When Luo Ziling returned home, Chen Qiaoyu, who had come to discuss matters with Ling Ruonan, had not yet left.
She was actually waiting for Luo Ziling.
Seeing Luo Ziling back, Chen Qiaoyu breathed a sigh of relief.
After giving some instructions to Luo Ziling, she went back to sleep.
There are actually not many activities planned for tomorrow.
In the morning, Luo Ziling came to ask for marriage with a gift and his birth date. If the Yang family accepted the gift and his birth date, it would mean that the Yang family was willing to have Luo Ziling and Yang Qingyin together, and the marriage between the two would be completed.
After Yang Jia left Luo Ziling to drink tea and snacks at home, there was nothing else to do.
The highlight is in the evening.
There were many guests at the engagement banquet in the evening. In addition to exchanging engagement rings and other engagement gifts in front of the guests, the two of them also had to face all the guests as a couple, toast them and accept everyone's blessings.
Engagement and wedding ceremonies are different in each place, because Luo Ziling is from the south, and the wedding ceremony must follow the customs of the south. And Yang Qingyin is from the north, and the engagement ceremony must be held according to the customs approved by the Yang family.
Life must have a sense of ritual, this is a popular saying among modern people.
But modern people don’t value the sense of ritual as much as the ancients did.
Both engagement and marriage rituals have been handed down from ancient times.
People in ancient times, no matter whether you were noble or lowly, if you did something big without a ceremony, you would probably not be recognized by everyone.
In the eyes of many people, when you get married and register with the Civil Affairs Bureau, it is not considered a real marriage. Only after a banquet is held can you get everyone's approval and you will feel that you are married.
Ancient Chinese people had six wedding rituals, namely: accepting gifts, asking for names, accepting gifts, accepting invitations, asking for an appointment, and welcoming in person.
Nacai means inviting a matchmaker to come to propose marriage and ask for names. Naji basically matches the birth dates of both parties with their horoscopes. Nazheng is when the man sends a betrothal gift to the woman’s family. What modern people call an engagement is actually the Nazheng among the six rites.
The invitation period is to set a date for the wedding. The best way to understand it is to welcome the bride through the door.
Luo Ziling and Yang Qingyin haven't registered their marriage yet, they're just engaged, so the date and wedding cannot be held yet.
In fact, Luo Ziling's engagement ceremony almost followed the six rites, but Chen Qiaoyu and Ling Ruonan completed the previous procedures. Of course, a matchmaker was needed, and the giant Buddha Li Haiyang was moved out.
He was familiar with Luo Ziling and Yang Qingyin, and his status was respected. Both Ling Ruonan and Chen Qiaoyu accepted him as their matchmaker.
When Ling Ruonan came over to invite, Li Haiyang happily agreed, and together with Ling Ruonan, helped Luo Ziling complete the previous procedures.
Li Haiyang personally accompanied Luo Ziling to deliver betrothal gifts and propose marriage.
Early in the morning on the twelfth day of the first lunar month, Luo Ziling, accompanied by Li Haiyang and several acquaintances, Cao Jianhui, Wu Longjiang, Li Fuming and Ling Haijun, attacked the Yang family in a mighty manner.
Having been in Yanjing for more than a year, Luo Ziling has been surrounded by many people.
However, most of the backbone people who do things for him are women, not many men.
The male supporters who can be called hardcore are the classmates Ling Haijun and Luo Ziling.
This is not a good phenomenon. Luo Ziling feels that the lack of male supporters is a shortcoming in his life.
In the next period of time, he will cultivate more male backbones.
Although women can hold up half of the sky, in many cases, they still have to rely on the strength of men to conquer the world.
Of course the place where Luo Ziling gave the betrothal gift was not the Yang family's old house, it was the place where Yang Yuanshan lived.
The place where Yang Yunlin and Chen Qiaoyu live is Yang Qingyin's natal family.
Yang Qingyin also went home last night. After Luo Ziling left, she did not sleep in her own place and asked Ye Xiaoli to take her home.
After returning home, I didn't go to bed immediately. I discussed it with Chen Qiaoyu, who came back very late, for more than an hour.
This morning, she got up very early again.
I didn't sleep well last night, so I looked a little lackluster, so I had to use makeup to make up for my lack of energy.
Luo Ziling and Li Haiyang arrived at Yang's house at exactly ten o'clock in the morning.
Yang Yuanshan and Yang Yunlin are both there.
Yang Yuanshan took his granddaughter's engagement very seriously. He postponed other activities and took charge personally.
Li Haiyang had no psychological disadvantage when facing Yang Yunlin, but when facing Yang Yuanshan, he still did not dare to show his usual momentum. However, Yang Yuanshan did not embarrass Li Haiyang, a makeshift matchmaker, and did not embarrass Luo Ziling. He
He happily received Luo Ziling's marriage proposal group, praised Luo Ziling in person, and asked Luo Ziling to work harder and strive for greater achievements.
But Yang Yunlin is not so easy to negotiate.
Yang Yunlin, who has never been satisfied with Luo Ziling and even tried to get rid of him several times, certainly does not want him to get engaged to Yang Qingyin.
But Yang Yuanshan agreed. Realistic factors also made him feel that the engagement between the two would be more beneficial to the Yang family, so he agreed against his will.
Agreeing to their marriage did not mean that he would change his attitude towards Luo Ziling.
He is Yang Qingyin's father and Luo Ziling's future father-in-law. Today Luo Ziling came to ask for his hand in marriage, and it was impossible for him to agree so readily.
Therefore, Luo Ziling was embarrassed by Yang Yunlin.