Ouyang Feifei calmed down quickly and replied softly: "Please give me some advice, Mr. Ling."
"Mom, how about I go take a shower first." Luo Ziling didn't want to get involved in this matter and let the two women, Ling Ruonan and Ouyang Feifei, talk about it themselves, so they planned to use the excuse of taking a shower to escape from the matter, "I'm tired today.
I'm sweating a lot, and my body is full of stinky smell, which will make you faint in a while. I'm going to take a shower!" He said, preparing to sneak upstairs.
But Ling Ruonan had no intention of letting Luo Ziling avoid this question, "You should also sit down and talk together. You are the party involved, and we want to hear your opinion."
This made Luo Ziling very embarrassed. In the end, he did not run away and sat down obediently.
He was also regretting that he had known that he would not come to Ling Ruonan tonight, or that he would not have agreed to bring Ouyang Feifei to visit.
But he had no way to escape, so he could only sit depressed.
"If Mr. Ling has any ideas, just tell him," Ouyang Feifei said calmly.
"When his grandfather and your grandfather arranged a marriage for you, I was opposed to it," Ling Ruonan said expressionlessly: "Because I am a victim of family marriage, and I have suffered deeply from it. Of course I don't want my son.
Zi Ling followed in the same footsteps, so I told his grandfather at that time that I did not agree with the marriage. His grandfather also accepted my request, so after Zi Ling came to Yanjing, the first thing he did was to come to tell you about this.
I think both our families can accept this matter, because the matter has not been made clear and has not been spread."
Ouyang Feifei did not interrupt because she knew that Ling Ruonan had not finished speaking.
Luo Ziling would not interrupt.
"I know that the person who is most strongly opposed to this marriage contract besides me is you." Ling Ruonan looked at Ouyang Feifei with a smile on her face: "I know you are definitely not willing to accept the marriage arranged by your family, like you
What a person with such a personality hopes most is to take life into his own hands. I think if Ziling came to propose marriage instead of wanting to break off the engagement, you would definitely not accept it. If he came to break off the engagement, your self-esteem would be affected.
I was hurt, so I changed my attitude and wanted to keep this engagement, right? The reason is just unwillingness."
Ouyang Feifei was a little embarrassed now, and she didn't know how to answer.
But after hesitating for a while, Ouyang Feifei finally nodded and approved Ling Ruonan's analysis. Because she thought about the two days ago, she and Luo Ziling directly said that she would not let go of the engagement like this. A woman's self-esteem is also
Not so easy to be trampled on.
"I do have such thoughts," Ouyang Feifei said with a wry smile: "I believe Mr. Ling can understand that no woman wants to be disliked by others, especially a woman like me who has always been arrogant. If Zi Ling came to the door and didn't propose to break off the engagement,
Instead, he proposes marriage and hopes to have a formal engagement with me, but I may refuse to accept it. I really don’t want things to turn out like this.”
After a pause, she continued: "Before Zi Ling came to break off the engagement, I did resist grandpa's arrangement. The most important reason is that what Mr. Ling just said is that I hope to be able to control my own life instead of passively accepting the family's arrangements.
Arrangement. Another point is that I am about a year and a half older than Zi Ling. I don’t want to be both a wife and a mother in front of my future husband. After I learned that Zi Ling was separated from you since he was a child, I was thinking
, if I really get together with him, I may have to take on the role of wife and mother, or at least take care of him like a sister. Another reason is that I hope that my future husband will be outstanding in all aspects.
People can surpass me, so I won’t be dissatisfied. I feel that Zi Ling, who grew up in a small mountain village and has never gone to school, will be lacking in many aspects."
After saying these psychological words, she smiled awkwardly at Luo Ziling, and then said her conclusion: "Therefore, I have always rejected this engagement and did not intend to accept it. But after hearing with my own ears that Quilting had broken off the engagement, my self-esteem
I was greatly hurt, and I was very unwilling to accept it, and even wanted to take revenge. In addition, I later learned that Zi Ling was excellent in all aspects, so my thoughts also changed."
"Well, since you said it so straightforwardly, let's not hide it." Ling Ruonan was very satisfied with Ouyang Feifei's straightforwardness. Without waiting for Luo Ziling to say anything, she explained what she meant: "I want to know where you are now.
Attitude, the reason for your frequent contact with Zi Ling."
She looked at Luo Ziling again: "I also want to know your attitude and thoughts, because the situation is very complicated now, and it's better to explain some things clearly."
Now that she has spoken out, Ouyang Feifei no longer has any scruples and directly explains her thoughts: "I don't insist on continuing the engagement. I know that there is no way to force this kind of thing. Even if I still don't want to be disliked by others, I won't."
I have thought about what I should force. The relationship between a man and a woman should happen naturally, rather than through an established marriage contract from the previous generation. Now I feel that Zi Ling is good in all aspects, and I am willing to treat him as a friend. As for whether he can become a lover,
That's not something I can control alone."
Unexpectedly, Ouyang Feifei would say this, Luo Ziling was greatly surprised.
For a woman to be able to speak to this extent, isn’t the meaning very clear?
When both women looked at him, he didn't know what to say.
"What do you think?" Ling Ruonan finally asked directly.
"I'm dating Yang Qingyin now, and I feel very good getting along with her," Luo Ziling could only bite the bullet and said in the end: "I also know that it is very difficult to be with her, but I don't want to give up. With Feifei
Although there are often some misunderstandings between us, I... feel that we can still become very good friends."
Luo Ziling actually said this, choosing Yang Qingyin over her, Ouyang Feifei was very disappointed, and her eyes when looking at Luo Ziling were a little angry. Luo Ziling did not dare to look at her, and turned his head to avoid looking at her.
"Okay, I roughly understand what you mean," Ling Ruonan breathed a sigh of relief and said to Luo Ziling: "You need to choose your own life. What you think now may not be your final choice, but no matter what it is, you need to choose your own life.
No matter what kind of choice you end up with, Mom will support you and try not to interfere with your decision as much as possible. I just hope that you can think about everything clearly, both emotions and reality. After all, two people are going to be together.
It will last a lifetime. If we get together, there will be endless troubles, so you still have to think carefully. I don’t want to see the tragic lessons of your father and me in you!"
Ling Ruonan's words surprised Ouyang Feifei and Luo Ziling again.