Wei Jiang interjected: "Listen to what you said, it's hard for the talented people who come from poor families to marry with people from rich families? Can't they find better people? Are they destined to degenerate and be solidified?
In the lower classes?”
"Of course not!" Yuan Yi said flatly.
"But what you said is a good match, that's basically what it means..." Wei Jiang teased.
"No! Your understanding is somewhat biased. First of all, the so-called "well-matched" does not only refer to wealth. In fact, measuring a family or a person's class does not only refer to wealth, but a comprehensive indicator. In addition to wealth,
Status also includes knowledge, education, thought, language, inheritance, environment, habits, appearance, bloodline, skills, etc. It would be too biased and too biased to evaluate a person's class based solely on wealth and status.
It’s too narrow!” Yuan Yi said.
Wei Jiang was startled and couldn't help but nodded slightly in agreement.
"Secondly, it does not mean that if a person finds a person with high wealth and status to marry, he will be in the upper class. This is also very inappropriate!" Yuan Yi snorted.
"This...makes sense!" Wei Jiang agreed again.
"Of course it makes sense! In fact, this point is often misunderstood by many mortals. Some people try their best to climb up and find children from rich families to marry with. Some spend all their money to please the rich ladies, and some put aside their dignity and use all their means to think.
Marrying into a rich family, but...even if they really get their wish, it doesn't mean that they will be in the upper class, because a black-bone chicken is a black-bone chicken, and it is impossible to become a white chicken as soon as you join a group of white chickens. On the contrary, you can become a black-bone chicken
After entering a flock of white chickens, it will become more conspicuous and easier to be ridiculed and driven away by the surrounding white chickens..." Yuan Yi said metaphorically.
Wei Jiang and Fan Zijue were dumbfounded, but they had to agree with Yuan Yi's statement, because the fact is as he said, when a person from a lower class enters a higher class, his weaknesses will be
Magnifying it makes it even more impossible to hide it. You can imagine how difficult it is to be recognized and accepted by others.
Fan Zijue said: "Well, since you said that a good match is the best way, how can you find a good match?"
"Of course this is the fate that our immortal family admires..." Yuan Yi said leisurely, shaking his feather fan.
"Huh, I already knew that what you were talking about was the ethereal fate. If everyone relied on fate, then mortals would basically not have to reproduce..." Fan Zijue said sarcastically.
"Haha, fate is not just a vague thing. As a person grows up, the circles, levels, people, etc. he comes into contact with will change, and fate will naturally follow. Therefore, even if a mortal's life span is long,
Keep it short, and don't be too anxious to find love, because when the boy is ignorant, the so-called love is at best the love driven by instinct. When the boy grows up, factors such as thoughts, circles, levels, and characters will all change.
After a great change has occurred, when his thoughts and circumstances are relatively stable, it will be much more reliable to find love in the corresponding circle..." Yuan Yi stroked his beard and said with a smile.
"According to what you said, every mortal has to wait until after the age of forty or fifty, when his thoughts and circles are basically fixed before looking for love, and he has to find love in the corresponding circle. Isn't this too late and too narrow?" Fanzi
Jue continued to argue.
"Why does it become narrow later? For ordinary people, only when the mind is mature and the character is stable, the body will also mature and stabilize. On the contrary, when the age is too young, the mind is immature, the character is unstable, and the body development is not stable.
It may be stable. Thoughts are also related to personality. People with mature thoughts can better control their personalities. Therefore, once a person finds someone who is in love with him at this time, the love may last longer and be more perfect.
If you pursue someone at an age when their personalities are prone to rebellion, both parties may be in a state of extremely unstable thinking and personality, so the possibility of this so-called love dying is too high!" Yuan Yi retorted.
"Even so, isn't it too narrow to just search within the circle?"
"The circle is not fixed in a certain place as you understand it. In fact, the circle may spread throughout the entire realm, as long as it is comparable in thought, knowledge, education, inheritance, environment, habits, appearance, bloodline, skills, etc.
Those who are compatible can become people in the circle, and these people can be the objects of his choice. Sometimes, such fate will come suddenly, it depends on whether he can catch it..." Yuan Yi said.
"Then how can we catch it?"
"Since it is fate, there is no need to force it. A person only needs to work as hard as he can under the environment, resources, conditions and other factors that he can use, because this is something he can control himself, and whether fate is
The arrival is not something he can control. But if he wants to sharpen his head and climb up, then he must be prepared..."
"What preparation?"
"Since he cannot change the objective conditions, the most important thing for him is to change his own conditions. For example, he uses his talents to cultivate into a powerful warrior and becomes the backbone of the mortal empire to defend the country, or become a
A great writer becomes a member of the country's think tank. As he grows up, the family related to him is also quietly changing. At this time, the people who are close to him will also change accordingly, and he is also advancing to the upper class.
However, if you do not change your literary and military talents, but try to enter the upper class by relying on some heresy, even if you succeed, once someone exposes your secret, it will eventually become a joke..." Yuan Yi talked.
As for talking, when we talk, we can really talk endlessly.
Fan Zijue and Wei Jiang also listened with great interest. In fact, it is not easy for great immortals and powerful people like them to talk about an interesting topic. Today, these people in the spirit world ate Bai Lingcai and cried.
They talked about the concept of love in a dark matter, which made them feel very satisfied.
But after listening to Yuan Yiyi's views on love, the question about the Taoist meaning of that dish of Bai Ling Cai was still not solved.
So Wei Jiang directly interrupted Yuan Yi and said: "Brother Yuan, your view of love will stop here for the time being. Since you said that the Taoism in it is not about love, what is it about? What kind of Taoism can it be?
Let these people touch the softest part of their hearts and cry like this?"
"Actually, you have missed some messages from the spirit world. I have read a message sent to me by Ling Daozi. Several people among them also ate such a plate of white cabbage, and ended up crying too.
They once mentioned that eating Bailingcai reminded them of some interesting things that happened when they were very young. In other words, it was something that happened when they were most innocent and childlike, but after experiencing
After living for a long time and being tortured by various situations, their bodies and minds were so exhausted that it was impossible to go back to the past and experience the most carefree and happy life! Just imagine, among them
How big of a contrast is there? This is the easiest thing to trigger emotions. Therefore, the Taoist meaning of that plate of Bai Lingcai should be that of the most innocent and childlike era. This Taoist meaning has been experienced by almost everyone, so, usually
People who eat Bai Lingcai will burst into tears..." Yuan Yi said proudly.
"Oh my god..."
"I see…"
The two of them suddenly realized it and exclaimed!
Yuan Yi is right. The carefree life in childhood is so precious! How lovely! How nostalgic!
If you can record it, even if you don’t remember it when you grow up, as long as you look back at those records, you will laugh with joy from the bottom of your heart and envy your childhood life...
If eating a head of white cabbage can remind people of those precious memories of their childhood, then no matter how much it costs, as long as they can afford it, I am afraid people will choose to experience it without hesitation!
Wei Jiang felt extremely emotional. Suddenly, he had a flash of inspiration and said in surprise: "If Bai Lingcai wants to achieve such an effect, it must contain the meaning of time!"
"The meaning of time?" Fan Zijue and Yuan Yi were both startled, and their eyes lit up!
"Yes, only the will of time can allow a person to go back to the past in an instant and relive those innocent and childlike things, isn't it?" Wei Jiang said loudly.
"Brother Wei is right! It's just..." Fan Zijue said thoughtfully.
"Just what?!"
"The little slave just now said that Bai Lingcai was made by Li Yun himself. If this dish contains the meaning of time, doesn't it mean that... Li Yun has the meaning of time? Is this possible?" Fan Zijue said in surprise.
.
"This..." Wei Jiang looked at Yuan Yi with an incredible look on his face!
Everyone knows how rare people are with the Principle of Time. Li Yun is already so outstanding. Isn't that not enough? Should we add another Principle of Time to him?
"Look what I'm doing? Don't you know how to use time? Although I also have a deep understanding of the way of time, it seems unlikely that I can create the way of time in the dishes and let you return to your childhood..." Yuan
He hummed.
"You can't do it, what about Li Yun? He did it..." Wei Jiang teased.
"It cannot be concluded now that Li Yun knows the way of time. Maybe he uses other meanings, which can also remind people of childhood events." Yuan Yi said.
"Impossible! This is obviously the effect of the Law of Time! Stop telling secret words in front of us! I can understand that you want to protect Li Yun, but we won't pose any threat to Li Yun, right?" Wei Jiang
Hummed.
Yuan Yi was silent and his face turned a little rosy.
Fan Zijue suddenly realized: "Haha, I know!"
"What do you know?" Yuan Yi glanced at him and asked.
"It seems that the relationship between you and Li Yun is not shallow. In your opinion, Li Yun is a treasure of your Xianji Department and a money tree. Your purpose of protecting him is actually to make more money.