Those who are more kind-hearted naturally feel that this child also brings good luck to them. They think that they can raise him like his biological parents, which can be regarded as a fate. They even think that they can treat this child equally.
Both biological and adopted children are raised as their own, but things often do not change according to their wishes.
At first I thought I could treat my child kindly, but then I became more and more harsh. No matter what, it was not my child. It felt like a thorn in my heart. Since it was not my child, why should I let him enjoy it?
They are treated the same as their own children.
Even if their attitude is not obvious at first, over time, the little calculations in these people's hearts will naturally be seen by others, and even ignorant children can tell it apart.
This person has a good heart, and at the bottom of his heart, he usually just wants to raise a child to support himself in old age. After the couple had their own child, the adopted child, Rick, became their little slave.
If you give him a mouthful of food, or simply scraps of food, so that the child cannot die, he will suffer all kinds of abuse, not to mention physical abuse, but also psychological patterns, or even disgust. That child was adopted.
The child will never be able to hold his head up for the rest of his life.
What's more, the adoption incident caused a lot of trouble in the family. This grandma once heard this from a relative of their family. At that time, they still regarded this incident as an anecdote and chatted with each other among their relatives.
I said it casually when I was talking about it. Neither of the two brothers knew how it happened. One of them gave birth to four sons, and the other one gave birth to a daughter after all the hard work and nothing else happened.
However, the two brothers also have different impacts on their families because of their different children. Originally, their family fortunes were similar, but the eldest brother had to raise four sons, which cost a lot. In addition, I don’t know whether it was because life was too difficult or whether
After giving birth to four children in a row, my body was exhausted. Anyway, the eldest daughter-in-law passed away early. It is conceivable that if a man takes four children and a family of five men go too far together, it is conceivable.
Compared to the eldest brother's family, the second child's family is much better. After all, there is only one daughter. The two brothers, who were originally about the same family, gradually began to distance themselves in all aspects of their living standards.
At this time, some well-intentioned people came forward to speak. Since the second child has no son, it is not easy for the eldest son to support four sons by himself. It is better to simply let the eldest son live a few years older and give the younger son to the second son, so that both families can
When it is complete, the eldest family can also feel less pressure, and the second eldest family also has a family, but they can inherit the family business.
After all, the daughter is going to get married, that is, she belongs to someone else's family. At that time, the problem of providing for the two children in old age is difficult to solve. When the two brothers heard this person's suggestion, they were only slightly tempted at first, but as time went by,
More and more people started talking about it, and together they thought it was a good idea, so it was decided.
But it was supposed to be something that benefited both families, but in practice it was completely different. The adopted younger son was already about ten years old when he was adopted, and he didn’t understand anything at that time.
children.
For him, it was a bolt from the blue. Suddenly, his parents were no longer his parents, and he had to call his uncle and aunt his parents. How could he change his name all of a sudden after calling him uncle and aunt for 10 years? Moreover, his father
You are still alive and well, why do you need to call others daddy?
And to put it bluntly, boys all play together. He has three older brothers, and they have been very happy playing together since childhood. As for everyone’s younger sister, they actually rarely have contact with each other. Now, since he was the youngest,
The child suddenly became an older brother and had to take care of his younger sister. The gap in this matter was very difficult for this child to accept.
In addition, there is still a little bit of reluctance among adults, and because the new parents have to take care of their children, and they don't know how to deal with this over-radical son, they are inevitably unfamiliar and polite. Such an attitude
This made the child feel very confused, and at the same time he felt even more aggrieved.
Anyway, when someone who was serving beside the old lady heard about the final outcome of this matter, it was not a happy ending. The child who was passed over has never been able to adjust his mentality. Basically, he is unwilling to call anyone daddy.
Regarding mother, maybe privately he would rather call his biological father daddy. As for uncle and aunt, he just doesn't call them uncles and aunts if he can.
But the second son and his wife really cared a lot about their son. Not only did they provide for him to go to school, they also spent a lot of effort to marry him a wife from a well-off family.
It's just that the attitude of the daughter-in-law here has always been towards her son. Of course, the daughter-in-law imitates her husband's attitude towards his parents, so the couple seems to be completely separated from the second child's family.
A special existence outside, and their relationship with the little girl
The relationship is not very good. The most important thing is that the little girl feels that since this brother has been given to their family in the past and is his brother, then she should be filial to her parents like him, instead of acting like this now.
Just like the young master who is a guest in their home.
Later, the health of the second son and his wife really got worse and worse for some unknown reason. First the second son's wife, and then after a few years, the wife finally passed away peacefully, but the second son suddenly fell ill and died.
Pass away and live forever.
After hastily handling the funeral of the second child and his wife, the two siblings, who were not biological, fell into a rage, and their relationship almost dropped to freezing point.
Even when the younger sister got married later, the man who was radicalized to become the elder brother did not offer any blessings. The brother and sister seemed to have a grudge, and no one liked the other.
Perhaps for that child in the past, fate itself was very unfair. He had done nothing wrong, so he was abandoned by his father and left to his uncle and aunt. However, no matter how good his uncle and aunt were to him, he was still
The good news seemed to have some purpose. He was not comfortable at all in his new home and felt very uncomfortable in every aspect. Therefore, in his opinion, God was very unfair to him.
Since others are unfair to him, of course he is unwilling to understand other people's feelings and think for others. In his opinion, his heart is filled with a kind of anger and dissatisfaction. With nowhere to vent, he can only
He can vent his depressed mood on his new family members.