This is their freedom of choice. Since they have chosen this kind of life, they have exchanged themselves for the opportunity to be successful and respected by others in exchange for their own free life.
This kind of sacrifice may actually seem insignificant to others, but in fact, in their lives, this is the whole meaning of their lives. Therefore, others can say that they are not enterprising and can be angry, but they cannot, because
They make this choice and feel that everything they get from them is useless. After all, what they sacrifice is for their own lives, not for others. Others should no longer take these things for granted, but think that the things they plunder are all worthless.
It's useless.
This grandma is basically like this. If it weren't for his temper, she wouldn't have been able to carry the old lady with her for ten years. She has no new ambitions and no thoughts of seeking personal gain for herself, so
To make an old lady feel so at ease, don't worry, if it had been that woman, she would have been dismissed by the old lady long ago.
As for the relationship between people, the most important thing is to look at the attitude of the person in charge when the status is unequal. Their actions and attitudes can determine the relationship between people, the final direction and situation.
Just like the often mentioned irreducible relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. In the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the mother-in-law is completely in a dominant position. After all, she is the elder and her husband's mother, so she has an absolute advantage in her natural position.
Often the most important factor in the harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the mother-in-law. Only the person in the upper position can clearly understand this point, can make a rational analysis, and the relationship between the two can maintain its own principles.
.Only the relationship between the two can coexist peacefully, and conflicts and disputes will not easily arise.
In the relationship between the mother-in-law and the mother-in-law, it is the mother-in-law who plays the dominant role. It is not that this Momo is afraid of the mother-in-law, but that under the psychological influence of guilt, he instinctively
He will choose to submit to the other party. When there is any conflict between his own interests and the interests of his mother-in-law, the first thing he will choose must be to fulfill the interests of his mother-in-law, not himself.
Of course, this mother-in-law is also very good at grasping this kind of relationship, so after so many years, even though he has been sucking blood from this mother-in-law, she still has not let them recognize his true nature.
Every time he can make this nanny feel that he owes this good sister, so he has no choice but to treasure or save his own money or material things in order to calm his conscience.
And other things were given to this mother-in-law for free and selflessly. In terms of manipulating people's hearts, this mother-in-law did an extremely good job.
This is a clear example of the superior being able to clearly realize the relationship between the two, and use this advantage to maximize their own interests. Perhaps if all the mothers-in-law in the world could have such shrewd calculations as the mother-in-law
, it is estimated that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not become the biggest problem in history.
Let's bring it back to the topic. After the old lady finally understood the old lady's intention relayed by the nanny, he couldn't help but fall into deep thought. Originally, he thought that the second master could use the love between mother and son to impress the old lady or perhaps
He said that it was the common interests between the two that convinced the old lady to help him become the head of the Zhao family.
throne, but in fact, the old lady was not affected by the second master at all. The old lady saw it very clearly. Whether to take action in this matter is not a big problem for the old lady, but taking action
After that, my life may not have improved much. Instead of working so hard, I might as well just sit back and watch.
The main reason, of course, is that the old lady is very clear in her heart. Having said so much, the main reason is that the old lady does not think highly of the second master. This old lady is also very clear about this. After all, she lives in the family.
Which of these servants in the yard
It’s hard to see clearly. The only son that the old lady likes is the previous Zhao family. Of course, everyone understands the old lady’s thoughts. After all, with such a wonderful and insulated son in front of him, who can take a fancy to him?
What about these stupid things at the back?
But now it is true that the possibility of the second master becoming the head of the Zhao family has been reduced to the lowest level. Since the old lady is not optimistic about the second master at all, his current idea of fighting for the position of the head of the Zhao family is basically in vain.
It’s a daydream. After all, Mr. Yang Er was at home.
In terms of connections and prestige in the clan, as well as past achievements, responsibilities, and other aspects, it seems that the second master does not have any advantages at all, and it even gave him a lot of low marks.
, after all, in the past, the second master relied on himself as the son of the head of the family.
The brother of the head of the family, but he dominates the family and never does serious things. This is already the lightest description. Basically, he has made no contribution to the family. At the same time, he spends a lot of money and does his best.
Treat other tribesmen from the accounting room,
At that time, the second master looked aloof again. The eldest brother, who used to have the father who was the head of the family, was looking at the face of the head of the Zhao family in front of those people, so naturally he would not argue with him any more, but he offended him.
The person must have been offended long ago.
At this time, if you really ask other people in the Zhao family that the second master can become the head of the Zhao family, it is basically impossible. Alas, the mother-in-law sighed deeply in her heart. Of course they hope that the second master can
Become the head of the Zhao family, otherwise they will definitely have a very difficult life in the future. Only the second master becomes the head of the Zhao family.
Lord, they still have a glimmer of hope. Otherwise, with the second grandpa’s spending skills and the second lady’s stubbornness, never giving out her dowry to supplement the family’s income, the servants’ overstepping of their authority would probably be very serious.
It will all be deducted soon, and it would be nice not to find various excuses to make them pay.
Finding all kinds of weird reasons to ask servants to pay to support the family may be completely unheard of in other places, but this woman knew in her heart that if the second master really couldn't become the head of the Zhao family,
This kind of thing would happen in the second master's yard for the first time.