There were many times when Li Xiucai was young, she would hide in bed and cry secretly alone. She felt that she was not her parents' biological child, but there was no other proof to prove the correctness of her conjecture.
Fortunately, I am retired and coming of age, or in other words, taking over.
When he was nearly an adult, his parents passed away due to illness one after another. At this time, you finally don’t have to face this problem anymore. Anyway, his parents have passed away, so he is still not their biological child.
, it no longer makes much sense.
Anyway, because of the environment in which he grew up, he has a relatively weak affection for his parents, so he does not have many expectations for his children. Even in the darkest part of Li Xiucai's heart, he silently doubts himself.
, may not be the biological child of the parents, or may be their child, but the parents' attitude towards the child is obviously affected,
When he thought of his child, Li Xiucai's first reaction was not about innocence and romance, or about how much happiness it could bring, or about giving him expectations for the future, or about having something for him when he was old or unable to move at all.
A person to rely on or take care of, but Li Xiucai didn't have so many thoughts. The first thing he thought about his children was trouble.
There were many times when he thought, luckily it was his wife. Although his wife had not been diagnosed by the doctor as having any infertility, she had fallen into the water on a cold night and was a little cold.
Therefore, his wife has always believed that the reason why the two of them have no children is mainly because of themselves. However, Li Xiucai does not think so. He thinks that the main reason why the two of them have no children so far may be because of him.
Psychological fear of children.
At this time, you don’t know whether a child who is not expected and is even afraid of shirking will come, but it is obvious that his attitude has affected the couple’s distress and selfishness. Anyway,
In his opinion, no, it's just that this is definitely not an unfortunate thing, but a simple thing.
The person who accompanies him the longest throughout his life is not his children or parents. In fact, the person who accompanies him longest is his half-month. If you can find someone who is compatible with your soul, you can say that you are a soul mate.
Man, Li Xiucai felt that he had run out of luck in his life. Being able to find such a wife who suited his heart was already a huge blessing. Therefore, he had always just followed fate when it came to his children, and this fate was still biased.
For the best, it would be a good fate not to come.
People who are shy about getting along with you or real friends all know that Li Xiucai respects his wife the most, so even if someone does have some opinions about Li Xiucai's wife just because of this matter, they firmly do not
He would not mention this matter in front of Li Xiucai, let alone show off the great achievements of his own children or the children of his friends in front of Li Xiucai.
In fact, it is understandable for them to show off these things in front of the scholar. Li Xiucai did not have such a narrow idea in his heart. If he refused to raise his children, he would not allow others to educate outstanding children. It can be said that in his opinion, he saw
Excellent children are better than naughty children
There are many more children. After all, the environment he lives in is a circle of scholars. No matter how much these people cultivate themselves and their families, they know what they should do. Their expectations are much higher than those of ordinary people, so for the education of their children
They also pay more attention to it than those who are illiterate.
In addition to the words and deeds of these people, after all, I was born in a scholar's family. I saw my parents studying hard since I was a child, and my mother took care of my father who was studying in a gentle and virtuous way. This is a kind of education in itself. Growing up in such an environment
The children will either follow their father's wishes and continue to work hard in their studies, or they will imitate their mothers and run the house gently.
So the good kids you are in contact with are much better than the bad kids, but they can often see the occasional trials in the yamen, so they know that before those evil people do evil things, they themselves are a
It’s a tragedy, no matter when they were young or until they grew up, the treatment they said they received actually has a very strong problem in itself.
After understanding more than the average person, Li Xiucai is able to look at this problem normally from a third-person perspective. He will not be narrowly envious or jealous of families with children or good children.
He will despise or hate parents who raise bad children. In his opinion, these are his own choices in life.
The reason why he finds it difficult to accept is that those people's parents may not have done anything evil, but they have cultivated an evil person who endangers other families, society, and even the country itself.
Parents should bear very strong responsibilities, but the law did not pursue this point. This made Li Xiucai a little depressed, but there was nothing he could do about it. Just because a person made a mistake, you cannot think that his parents are also guilty.
Well, Li Xiucai only thinks so much when he thinks about it very occasionally. Most of his time, he is still swimming in the ocean of knowledge, and he likes to meet like-minded friends with him.
Let's talk about some academic issues together, and recently he has become even more obsessed with chatting with this young military master. It seems that there are endless topics between the two of them, and every topic can arouse a great deal of excitement between them.
resonance.
Therefore, talking is a very enjoyable thing for both bows and arrows and Li Xiucai. No matter how long they meet, they can always get along extremely happily. Later, Li Xiucai introduced bows and arrows to his home.
, the three of them felt even more harmonious when swimming, which is why Li Xiucai and his wife gradually became more and more familiar with bows and arrows.
This would have been had it not been for Li Xiucai's original plan to go out with his wife for an outing, or because the bows and arrows were about to arrive, and the two would inevitably be separated when they often attended the village committee. These reasons caused Li Xiucai to still maintain his original self.
Make a plan and insist on going out.
What he didn't expect was that he thought that the separation between the two would mean that they could not see each other for a few years and had no way to contact him. However, he did not expect that the key point was that he proposed to entrust his second brother and another brother to Li Xiucai and his wife.
, the two of them took them out on a teaching tour, which was simply unexpected and something that suited the two of them very well.