He was not willing to marry an unknown daughter from a small family with fair looks but average conditions. In fact, it was not that he looked down on her conditions, but he felt that couples should not blindly follow the low price like that, and even if he
If you can't connect with your future wife, the least you should do is
To respect each other, then respect should at least be based on a certain understanding. However, after he also got to know these girls, he often felt disappointed. He did not see anything like them.
Find the part of your character, or qualifications, that you like.
She has seen smart girls who are good at calculating and can control a family, and even lead their family to make a fortune. She has also seen that kind of stupid girl, who was born into a wealthy family but does not want to make progress.
, the girl who only thinks about makeup and pink clothes all day long
, he has also seen that none of these girls seem to be able to cause any waves in Li Xiucai's heart. He doesn't know what the other half he is looking for should look like, but he also knows that everyone he meets in front of him is not what he is.
The wife you want.
Gradually, this Li Si became extra picky, and no girl could see his message, so it spread, so that later on, it was completely opposite to the situation when he accompanied his friends to cross the threshold of their house.
Li Xiucai's house was really deserted, and no one came to marry him anymore.
He was clean, but some people in the family were trying to make a move. Many people even reported that he had some unspeakable secrets, or a strange illness, which made him unable to marry. There were even more scheming people who were following him.
Talking about adopting oneself in front of others, this is also
What made Li Xiucai feel extremely depressed was how he could explain to everyone that there was nothing wrong with his health. Moreover, it was not like he didn't know what the tenants were planning. Rather than end up with the property falling into the hands of those people, he
I would rather marry a wife and have children by myself.
So when the old scholar talked about the girl he taught, Li Xiucai kept it in mind. In fact, she later inquired about it in private with the old scholar and found out where his female student came from.
The Yu He family also knew that three or four years had passed since the incident that the old show was talking about.
So this little girl is almost fourteen years old, and Li Xiucai was only sixteen years old at that time. It can be said that the age of the two is really a match made in heaven, and Li Xiucai started to get interested in this matter.
Heartbroken.
At that time, Li Xiucai had basically given up on the idea of finding a girl who had the same feelings as him. After all, this idea seemed too difficult. No matter what, he felt that he had to stick to the last bottom line, that is, he had to
Find a smart girl who can read and write.
It was not that Li Xiucai had never seen girls who could read and write, but in his opinion, they were definitely a bit biased towards studying. In other words, the books those girls read were definitely books that Li Xiucai didn't like at all.
After all, in his opinion, these are all rubbish. He really doesn’t know who created a book that binds people’s minds like this, and calls it a book. This cannot be called a book at all. This is simply
It's shackles.
What he must have never expected is that many people regard this kind of rubbish book as truth and let their daughters read such things. In Li Xiucai's view, girls who read such things are actually themselves
It's already useless. He doesn't want to win a woman who only knows about obedience and obedience back home. That's not a wife, that's a maid.
But after Li Xiucai searched for a long time, he still couldn't find a girl that he liked. He felt that his requirements were too high. Maybe he could never find such a girl that satisfied him in his life. Maybe he should
Like others have said, just find a random woman to marry, that's how most people live anyway.
And just when he was about to give up, there was always an unwilling thought in his heart. The most important thing that Li Xiucai was able to achieve today was relying on that unwilling thought in his heart. You know, from childhood to
Even though his eldest parents lived by his side, they did not show any care or love for him. If he had resigned himself to his fate at that time, he would not have achieved what he has achieved now.
After his parents passed away, the tribesmen wanted to interfere with his family affairs on the pretext of taking care of his property, taking care of his life, etc. Those were his relatives, friends, and elders. Maybe if he had succumbed to his fate at that time,
He couldn't even get the chance to read and write.
So for Lu Xiucai, he had already seen clearly very early on that the most important thing for him to be able to live like this and live so freely was the unwillingness in his heart. With this unwillingness,
He does not succumb to fate and does not compromise easily. He must persist until the end, even to the point that ordinary people cannot bear it, and he must achieve his goal.
You used to face life like this, but now you face choosing a wife to spend the rest of your life with. You also stick to your principles at this point. It can be regarded as a feeling of unwillingness to put everything under your control.
above.
Perhaps even God succumbed to his unwillingness and finally allowed Li Xiucai to overhear the chatter of the old gentleman and the woman next to him. The old gentleman Li Xiucai had heard about it, and he was not the kind to talk too much.
people, and the reason why this old gentleman told others
The main reason for the female apprentice I once liked the most was because sitting opposite the old gentleman was another old gentleman. It was obvious that the two had known each other for a long time, and they were able to chat in such a remote teahouse.
It's something that very few people do.
The people who come here are usually old customers who are familiar with each other and don't have so many scruples when talking. At least they know that not many people will spread the word here, so the old gentleman is talking about himself.
An old friend showed off, and the apprentice couldn't help but say something like this after a long time.
And obviously the old gentleman also felt that it was not a moral thing to talk about the affairs of the woman in his boudoir at will. If this old friend hadn't stimulated him today, it was too much, and he would not have mentioned it at all.
After all, when he mentioned this matter a few years ago, the little girl was still young. She occasionally said a word or two in the name of praise, telling everyone that there are still such smart people in the world.
The little girl's thoughts, but in recent years, the old gentleman has rarely mentioned this matter.