The reason why he is relatively well-known among the businessmen in the provincial capital is because he has a large collection of books at home, and he is also known as a semi-literate person outside. He does not dare to occupy the host's side too much, otherwise
No matter what other people would scold him, his eldest brother would rush to his house and scold him like crazy. It is simply insulting for a failed person like him to dare to claim to be a scholar.
But he is definitely not pretentious, not pretentious, and not for the purpose of citizen education. With such a reputation as a scholar, he does respect scholars and cherish books, so he does not say that he keeps all the books in the study room.
I have read it, but at least every book is hand-selected by him. In his opinion, he may not be able to read these books, or he may not read them again in his lifetime, but they are indeed things that he thinks are valuable.
And although none of the three sons of his generation has any talent for reading, but if his grandson has a grandson, none of his generation will be able to read. No matter what, if there is a seedling of reading in the future generations, there will be
If their ancestors have accumulated this kind of investment, then .asxs. will be much nobler than others, and their resources will be much more convenient. This can be regarded as a disguised investment.
Of course, he only said these words to his wife and did not mention it to anyone else. Otherwise, others might compliment him on the surface and say that he is far-sighted and far-sighted, but the elder brother might just be sarcastic and feel that
If you don't study well yourself, you still expect your descendants to think of beauty.
Anyway, regarding the matter of studying, he and his eldest brother have always had huge differences since childhood. There was once a period because of his eldest sister-in-law, or maybe the eldest brother became a little gentler after having a family, so the relationship between husband and wife was harmonious, and the relationship between their brothers was harmonious.
It has also improved a lot.
However, this improved their relationship a bit, but they couldn't stand the incident of his eldest brother and sister-in-law throwing the child over, and more that happened later. When it came to educating their children, the couple really couldn't stand the way the eldest brother and sister-in-law did it.
I couldn't stand it, and when I tried to persuade him with a word or two, he was often blamed and scolded for being nosy. After this happened more than once, the relationship between the two families naturally returned to the freezing point.
If the relationship between the two families is not good, then they should just stay away from each other forever. Although they are new brothers, there are many people in the world who have turned against their brothers. They just stay away from each other and close the distance enough.
Being far away also avoids hanging around in front of the other person's eyes and making them feel annoyed. It doesn't say how much you really have any opinions on the other person, or it can be said to be a relationship that turns into a grudge.
But it is impossible to stay far away. First of all, the provincial capital is so big. The two families have many relatives and friends. During the New Year and holidays, when relatives and friends get together, they will inevitably talk about each other, and then they will appear to be related.
It's not okay to be too cold, plus there is such a child and such a big person here, this is definitely a huge connection between the two families.
It is impossible not to contact them. Although only relatives and some close relatives know the specific situation of this child, how can the family not know this? The couple is fostering other people's children and does not want to
Regarding their relationship with their parents, this time, at least in the eyes of others, the couple seems to be trying to seize other people's children, but who knows if they need to do this? They have children and a daughter, so there is really no need to raise someone else.
Treat your children as your own daughters.
Judging from the fact that the couple has been together for nearly 10 years, they have not made the girl change her story, and they have never hidden themselves, or in other words, they have not stopped people from guiding the girl correctly. Anyway, they are sure that when the child comes
Already 5 years old, of course he knows who his parents are. They have been together for so many years
He did not force him to forget his family of origin. Instead, he sometimes asked his mother-in-law to talk about some things about his family of origin. Of course, they were important matters, such as the couple's blind doting on their little daughter.
Don't bring things up and poke someone's heart in front of their children.
But after mentioning it twice, they discovered that this little girl didn't care about her family of origin at all. She didn't have much interest in her biological parents. On the contrary, after she was able to study, this girl almost took care of herself.
All the time was spent on studying and reading books. At first, I spent all my time on this. Later, after listening to the advice of the couple, I arranged my time reasonably, but it was still
I spend most of my spare time on this.
This is why the couple later found out that this little girl had actually read most of the books in their study room. Although they were surprised, they did not have any unfortunate emotions. After all, the little girl's hard work was enough.
It is already known that even if the couple does not live there specifically, one can know the little girl's daily behavior by paying attention to the little girl. It is known that he frequently borrows the books in the study room and spends almost all his time reading these books.
Moreover, with the little girl's increasingly cheerful features, cheerful personality, and gentle and generous expression, the couple had no doubt that the little girl borrowed the book back and did not read it properly, but pretended to do so.
With the same face, he could return the book directly in a few days and exchange it for another one. There was absolutely no need for him to do so. After all, everyone in the family knew that he was the one who came here for help. She was not a young lady in his own family, but his parents.
But he no longer wants him, and under such circumstances, there is no need for him to pretend to show it to others.
What's more, under the management of his wife, the backyard can be said to be a mess. No servant dares to use the identity of the eldest lady to give him a low profile, or to treat everyone with a cold shoulder. Treat him, maybe better than his own.
The attitude of the lady should be a bit warmer. After all, my lady is still a family member, so it is normal to be a little scornful or affectionate. However, when facing this guest lady, everyone's attitude is respectful and respectful.
Also polite.
In such an environment, there is really no need for this young lady to perform such a big drama. Show it to some servants. Coupled with his speech, behavior, attitude towards things, etc., the huge changes that have taken place in all aspects can be seen.
It proves that when reading, this little girl is not the kind of rigid reader or just looking at the surface, but truly understands the content of a book and learns the principles.