After asking the lady a few times, you will know that you can neither be too enthusiastic nor too cold. Anyway, this person is difficult to maintain. Although many sisters are not willing to play with him, they are in the way.
Because of the pressure from the elders and having to stay next to him, even if he tells a few truths, he may be used as an excuse, and then he will be accused. In short, this person seems to be an untouchable treasure, but in fact
No one wanted to see him in their hearts.
If anyone really regards him as a treasure, it is his parents. In the eyes of both of them, his little daughter is good and the best no matter how he looks at it. Just look at them.
The look in the daughter's eyes that turned into water and almost stuck to her body can be fully understood. This couple absolutely loves their daughter passionately.
But this superficial scenery, in fact, if you look at the glass and analyze it carefully, you can see that the life of my eldest brother and sister-in-law is probably not very good. In fact, before the two daughters were born in Shenzhen, the eldest brother's career had obviously been in the best way. After all,
Is he still in Jiangsu in the Central Committee?
He is very thin, and the head of the mountain likes him, so he also intends to promote him to a higher sales class. In this way, his academic performance and salary will be improved. But later, since the two daughters in the early morning,
The eldest brother's energy was diverted a lot from teaching.
From the beginning, there were one or two absent-mindedness, to more and more days of asking for leave. Anyway, the thought of Big Brother has completely disappeared. Now I can still use Big Brother to continue teaching, that is completely up to date.
It's the same as before.
The income did not increase the expenditure, but increased several times. This caused the economic situation of the eldest brother's family to go from bad to worse. The parents of the eldest sister-in-law probably had to pay a lot, but the couple never tired of it and were happy to spend all their money.
Spending money on the little daughter, but actually handing over such a beautiful girl that no one can touch, in fact many people are just watching a good show.
Not to mention the sisters who were bullied or accused in the family, even she, who stood alone outside, knew that there were many in the family who had great opinions on the eldest brother, sister-in-law, and the whole family.
, many people can't stand it when they become parents, but after all, it is their family's business, and it is difficult for others to say anything, but it does not prevent them from expressing their dissatisfaction.
The most obvious manifestation is that once the little daughter of the eldest brother and sister-in-law appears at a family gathering, the little sisters will just sit in a bunch without talking to anyone, drinking tea or reading a book. In short, no one wants to mention it.
Huantou, provoke this extremely squeamish yet domineering and ruthless squeamish person who is capable of making black faces and behaves pitifully all day long.
The situation of the eldest brother and sister-in-law is not much better. In the past, the eldest brother was a rare scholar in the family. Many people followed him with a look of admiration or respect, but now others see him looking so silly.
, it would be nice if it didn’t come with contempt.
It is impossible to say that the eldest brother and sister-in-law have not noticed the change in other people's attitudes towards them. After all, no matter how hard they study, or in other words, this kind of study-related matters, it is impossible for them to have any sense of worldliness and understanding.
How could he not be aware that other people's attitudes towards them had changed so drastically?
But in his opinion, the eldest brother's response to the change in others' attitude toward him was just to become more arrogant and look down on other clan members. In his opinion, maybe those who are involved in family disputes have not read
What kind of book is this? It means uneducated and uneducated people. It is very depressing and not worthy at all.
Talk to him. Maybe the couple thought so in their hearts, so no one paid attention to them during the family gathering. They also enjoyed themselves and did not feel that they had been left out. Instead, they felt that these people finally had something to say.
Now that they are self-aware, they will not bother the couple anymore. After all, they are people who cannot reach high places.
But seeing his eldest brother's life not going as he wished, he, as a brother, certainly felt uncomfortable. When he couldn't bear it anymore, he once asked his eldest brother tactfully whether life was going well at his eldest brother's house.
He was a little short of money. Of course, he didn't ask directly. He just briefly asked about the Nagel family heirloom that his eldest brother used to wear with him all the time. I don't know where the jade pendant went.
Unexpectedly, when the elder brother heard his relaxed attitude and tried to pretend to be a casual question, he became furious. His face even turned red and his veins were about to appear, and he pointed at him for a long time.
After saying a word, he finally waved his sleeves and walked away.
He still remembers the looks of sympathy and feeling that he deserved it from other members of the family. Even a brother with whom he had a better relationship came forward to ease the atmosphere, pulled him to a secluded place and said,
Why are you provoking him when you have nothing to do?
, haven’t you seen that the poorer he is now, the more grumpy he is. No matter whether you are well-intentioned or complacent, getting in front of him will not end well anyway. Rather than being brushed off like this, it is better to just let him go. Anyway,
People don’t look down on us either.
Only then did he understand why the rest of the family were so far away from his eldest brother and sister-in-law. Before, he only thought it was because his trouble-making little daughter had offended all the families with daughters. But now he thinks about it.
It is estimated that his eldest brother and sister-in-law have offended many people. Their family is really not a family that does not belong to the same family.
But then again, there was no progress or solution to the difficult-to-solve matter. The days passed like water, and they never looked back. However, the girl they raised under their knees grew up day by day and had already
When it comes time to talk about marriage, it is now a matter of how this girl will live for the rest of her life. It is a major issue. With them like this, the uncle and aunt are indeed a little worried and worried. I don’t know if they can take on this responsibility.
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If something unexpected happens, or if they don't think carefully and keep celebrating the New Year, and live an unhappy life in the second half of their lives, other members of the family will know a little bit about the couple, or talk behind their backs or face to face.
You can ignore the accusations. After all, the two of them have a decent conscience. But if their elder brother and sister-in-law come in front of them and point their noses at them, it will be a bit hard to accept.