It's up to him to deal with this kind of thing, but he doesn't want to starve into this situation. After all, he still raises a daughter of his eldest brother. This matter is indeed caused by his lack of imagination and thought at that time.
As a result, since I had already seen the decisive attitude of my eldest brother at that time,
degree, they should simply change the genealogy and raise a daughter by themselves. Their family has a lot of children anyway, raising one more child would not be a big deal. Besides, they can definitely earn money for their own family. In the past few years, they have
We have grown a lot and raising a child is not a burden at all.
Besides, looking at the child's performance in the past few years, he is actually very satisfied. Their family does not have a brain for reading, and this eldest niece seems to have completely inherited his father's smart brain. Anyway, in terms of reading,
He felt that his eldest niece was no worse than his eldest brother. Anyway, he didn't think that his eldest brother had read so many books.
And if others don’t know, how can he not know? In fact, the eldest brother often behaves like this when he is studying. When he was young, his parents always emphasized to his brothers that they were too naughty and should not go to his eldest brother to disturb him.
Studying, and then I was not convinced and sneaked into my elder brother's study.
I peeked through the crack in the window to see my eldest brother reading inside. I did see him lying on the table and sleeping in. Sometimes I could see him reading a book. He never told anyone about this. Anyway, even if he said eldest brother
Even if he denies it, it is impossible for his parents and other people in the family to believe what he said. Instead of doing that, it is better to keep this matter in his heart. Anyway, the eldest brother has not been in a state of depression as he originally thought from that time on.
A high position.
But the eldest niece is different. No one pressures him to study, no one urges him to work hard, and there is no reward to encourage him to continue studying like this. After all, he is a girl, it is impossible to participate in the imperial examination, and there is no way to participate in the imperial examination.
Opportunity, then what’s the use of reading?
That is such a child. He is actually able to restrain himself, enjoy his own time, and force himself to study hard. In other words, for him, learning is not something he needs to force himself to do, but something he needs to do.
He enjoyed it, otherwise he would not have read through most of the secretaries in his study. When he thought of this, the uncle actually felt a little distressed.
If I had known earlier, I should have changed the family tree directly. Although I knew who his biological parents were when the child was young, he simply recognized them. So what if the child is his eldest daughter? He is occupying them now anyway.
Welfare, the title of the eldest lady, but people in the family know very well that this child is his eldest brother's daughter, but she is not a direct student with him, they are only uncle-nephew relationship.
If he had known earlier that when the eldest brother and sister-in-law took over the child, he would have simply asked them to directly change the tenants in the group and change the child to his own name, and then the couple would get along well with the child instead of
As we are now, we are close. If we are not close, we will not be too far apart.
Speaking of relatives, the couple have only ensured the life of this little girl over the years, and have been in a relatively humorous state. Indeed, they have not appeared in front of their little girl much. After all, the little girl has not shown it.
Need care from adults, or rather need them
The couple attaches great importance to her. Anyway, the little girl is more willing to enjoy herself. Anyway, she can learn from the scene very quickly. The speed is absolutely amazing. The husband has talked to him more than once about how the little girl is.
What kind of intelligence, what kind of chemistry, what kind of diligence, what kind of outstanding talent.
At that time, I just listened to it as a joke. After all, she was a girl. Even if she was born to see her as a flower, he would not be able to take part in the imperial examination. Being able to read and write is already very good and smart.
Where to go.
Anyway, when I heard the old gentleman boast about how smart his eldest niece was, I was very happy. After all, his three little boys had never been praised by any gentleman, and he had never
I have experienced the kind of opportunity to have outstanding children at home, and then be praised and praised by my husband. It is a rare opportunity to have such an opportunity, and it is actually my eldest niece who earned this feeling. It is really sad.
It feels so good.
But it is true that he did not take this matter seriously. After all, she was his niece, not his daughter, and a woman who is talented in reading and diligent in learning is indeed not something worth being particularly happy about.
, as a girl, everyone’s requirements for her are relatively gentle, I am better able to run a house, or I am more generous, etc. These traditional virtues are really smart and studious, and diligence are not the virtues that are favored by others.
He also thought that the child was holding his breath and must excel in learning, which would attract the attention of the couple. So at that time, he also thought that the child was seeking attention and care from adults, just like his brothers often did when they were young.
It's like the kind of thing they do, but they really want to make their husband happy in reading, so that they can be valued by their parents, but there is no way to achieve this.
But gradually he also discovered that his acupuncture was not what he thought. He was studying in order to get praise, or to be taken seriously. His study seemed to be entirely for himself, and he was not studying because of it.
There is no arrogance in this matter of people being outstanding.
He was arrogant, or the kind of expression that needed people to praise him. He hid himself very well. Even the chance of appearing in front of them had been ignored by him. From this point of view, at that time, he was still
It's great to see this little girl being so knowledgeable about the situation in front of her.
After all, there was an extra niece who was raising his own family inexplicably. This in itself was a new experience for him, or he was a little at a loss. He didn't know how to face this girl and didn't know how to face such a weak one.
When he was a little girl, would he ask himself about his biological parents? Would he be able to live with his miserable year? These were the things he feared the most.
Every time that happens, or every time he thinks about it like this, he has to be grateful for his parents who were extremely strict.