When they are with their three naughty boys, they are always anxious to get angry. When they are with their little daughter, they are always spoiled. They let him get what he wants and look at him dotingly.
Growing up every day, but only when I am with this girl, that moment
Only when people of the same age understand each other can they surround themselves. That feeling of being understood and cared for makes the couple happy to see this girl every time, and to say a few words to her makes them feel like they have always been there.
The things that were suppressed in my heart no longer weighed so heavy.
It can be said that the relationship between the girl and the couple has improved a lot, and has quietly undergone huge changes. The way they get along now is not like women or uncles and nephews, but they seem to have some friends.
The smell was there, which also gave the couple a headache when trying to find a husband-in-law for such a special girl.
If there hadn't been much contact between the two parties in the past few years, and they still remembered that timid, timid and somewhat depressed little girl, they could just find someone who could see it, and they would marry her and prepare a good marriage.
dowry, that means they have entered the status of uncle and aunt
, they didn’t owe anything to this little girl, or they felt they were wrong, so they just sent her away. Even his biological parents were like this. They ignored him at all for more than ten years. Their uncle and sister-in-law
For my uncle and aunt to be able to do this, they are absolutely benevolent.
But things did not go according to the original planned route. In the past few years, as they had more and more contact with this girl, their love for him and their love for him also grew day by day. In this way, if we follow the original plan,
It is not feasible to find someone who can look forward to marrying him off. They indeed pay more attention to this little girl's current mate selection than their three sons marrying wives.
After all, marrying a wife is different from marrying a daughter. One is imported by thousands of people, but the other is a matter for this girl's whole life. If the choice is wrong, it will have a great impact on both aspects, but in general, the latter is more cautious.
In addition, the fact that this little girl is not their biological daughter, but just the niece they have been keeping by their side, makes the identity of the little girl complicated again, and they have to let her go during the matchmaking process.
People pay attention to it, or it is a factor that cannot be ignored. Even though their fathers have promised that this little girl will have a large dowry, in fact, the real wealthy families have been daunted by this little girl's identity.
Faced with this situation, they, as uncles and aunts, were actually very helpless. On the one hand, they felt aggrieved that they had raised such an outstanding girl. Just because of their family background, these wealthy families directly took her away.
It is not within your scope to consider giving up a little girl, but if you want to marry such a girl to a small family, they themselves will feel very wronged for the child.
It's not that they are bragging about being uncles and aunts. After all, this is not their biological daughter. Even if they praise God, they probably have a different relationship with them. But he is definitely speaking in all fairness. Such a girl with such style, if she is not a big family,
Being the matron of the house is indeed a waste of this girl's lifelong talents.
The girl has ordinary specifications, a grandeur that girls don't have, and she also has talents that many women don't have. If he were to marry an ordinary family, he would live in a backyard, thinking about oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea all day long.
The life of her husband and children is definitely a kind of torture and burial for this girl.
When these grandmothers from wealthy families or famous families choose their daughters-in-law, the first thing they look at is their status. Even if they have promised to give their children a generous dowry that is no less than that of the daughters of wealthy families, these grandmothers
They were also very picky about this girl.
And what these housewives seem to value more is political housekeepers and other abilities that these girls have. They do not value the talent of reading and writing, and even this item is not something that can be added to girls.
points, on the contrary, it is an item that reduces a lot of impression points.
There are very few of these housewives who can read, and most of them think that being able to make a few words is enough. Being able to understand this scene and know how to be a housekeeper is what they pursue. In the end, there are more of them, and the men are not men.
It's their business. As long as they, women, take care of their husbands and raise their children, and keep the backyard safe.
And it is impossible for the reputation of a girl to be spread outside, let alone to know some young talents in the provincial capital, so this matter ultimately falls into the hands of these matrons, but they are thousands of
It is absolutely impossible to look down on this girl, who has problems with her life experience, and who is mediocre in other aspects except for her superior knowledge.
The final result is that there are only a few families with good family status. They have expressed their willingness to woo young girls, but these families have their own problems. There is not only a bare shell in the middle of the house.
It looks good, but in reality life is very clear, just waiting for the daughter-in-law who has obtained and pretended to be rich to go back and live off other people's wives' dowry.
It's just that the children in the family are really shameless, and they can't hold the wall up. They can't find a decent girl who is willing to marry him, so they have to ask for it with lower conditions.
Regardless of which of the two situations, the couple firmly disagreed. Even if they married this girl to a poor family member, they felt that they had wronged their niece, not to mention that the family was in trouble.
Or perhaps someone with such low qualifications came to marry him, and they simply refused. With their refusal, the reputation of this girl who went south gradually spread in the circle, which made the couple even more excited.
Regret endlessly.
Well, even though they have some reputation, they are definitely not the most conspicuous and eye-catching, so when they look for this girl to marry in the future, the two of them are more cautious.
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It was because of such a contradictory and difficult matter that neither of them knew how to solve it, so the uncle came up with such a bad idea. Of course he knew how bad his idea was, but in front of him
Didn't the current situation force them to do nothing?