Throw a child of several years old out of the house, let alone relatives and friends, even the neighbors will not let them go. No matter what, the two of them still regard themselves as scholars, and they enjoy the respectful gaze of everyone.
Of course, we cannot allow such a stain to exist on ourselves. By then, let alone the treatment they are receiving now, even ordinary people will point fingers at them. This is extremely unacceptable to them.
So what method can be used to send the children out so that they will not be criticized by others, or the children will not cause any serious consequences, or even hidden dangers that will affect them again in a few years or decades?
As for their family. In the end, the couple discussed it and the result was that they could only send the child to a relative's wife. They gave up everything first. Maybe our family can't do it, and you can't either.
To know which of the relatives in our family are not profit-oriented, just look at the dowry they gave me. You can see that these are all evil-hearted and none of them are good. If you throw the child to them to raise, of course it is
It's a good thing, but I'm afraid that they will use this child as an excuse to keep reaching out to us. By then, things will be even more troublesome than raising this older child or daughter, waiting for us.
Grandpa nodded in agreement with what the eldest lady said. In his opinion, most people are good at everything, but the driver's license they brought with them was too little. Compared with their own home, it was simply a wife.
Yuan Zongzong always makes him feel that he is supporting the family, or that he has suffered a big loss. In his opinion, the husband and wife have almost the same assets, so they can make up a family. In that case,
Neither of the couple suffers.
Just like the eldest lady, the dowry may seem decent to others, but in fact, compared with her own family property, and the monthly salary she has to bring back from the academy, she is simply at a loss.
Dafa. If it weren't for the fact that the eldest lady had read a few books and could talk to him, he would have quit long ago.
Although he said this, in fact, the great grandfather said in his heart that if he quit, he didn't know what he could do. Anyway, in his heart, no one was worthy of him. It was rare for him to
Being able to tolerate the other party is a sign of condescension.
The eldest lady's dowry seems to have wronged him to the eldest grandfather and the eldest lady, but the actual situation is not the case. The eldest lady's dowry can only be collected for him with the help of several brothers from his mother's family.
It is already a very good dowry. Otherwise, it is impossible that almost ten years later, the eldest lady can still attend various family gatherings with the clothes from her parents.
But no matter what, the dowry that his natal brothers put so much effort into, in the eyes of the eldest lady and the eldest old man, is far from enough. In their eyes, the best situation is of course for the parents.
It all belongs to them, and if that doesn't work, then the vast majority should also belong to them. This is completely and thoroughly implemented by the eldest grandfather. After all, the eldest grandfather accounted for the vast majority of the family property when they split up.
But in fact, this situation of the eldest grandfather is very rare in other families. Although everyone pays more attention to the eldest son, it does not mean that most of the family property is left to Zhang Ziyiren. After all, except for the eldest son
In addition, there are three sons.
No matter how much we emphasize that the eldest son should value inheritance, the common practice of families is to directly leave half or even 75% of the family property to the eldest son. This is an extreme approach.
, but in the case of the eldest master, he basically took away Jiucheng’s family property.
This of course also shows from the side how much my grandpa’s wife originally loved and favored her eldest son, but when it came to the eldest man, it became a matter of course. He never thought about it, since he took most of it.
Family property, how can other brothers make a living? In his opinion, the other brothers are all people who compete with him for the family property. He has wronged himself by getting so much. After all, there is still 10% of the family property to be distributed to them.
There are three.
And now other people are living well. This situation proves that these guys don't need their parents to give them any property. Besides, after these brothers get married and start a business one by one, they are rarely like their elder brother.
The grandfather was very dissatisfied with the lack of respect or fairness in the past. Now, except for the fourth child who occasionally interacts with him, other people rarely meet him, let alone have any friendship with him.
Regarding this situation, the eldest grandfather did not think that he had any reasons. He thought that all these brothers were white-eyed wolves. Anyway, after the separation, his life was far away from them. What do they think about him?
There is no amount of public respect or respect.
It's a so-called thing, but he just can't understand that when these guys were pressured by their parents, they all kept their heads down in front of him and were afraid of even looking at him, but now there are 5 and 6 people there.
In front of other people, he pulls them one by one.
Come on, when you see yourself, you just turn around and leave as if you saw something you don’t like. You don’t even save face for yourself. Let’s not talk about the second child. You are hiding in the ravine and you don’t bother to pay attention to him. The third child is the worst.
If you ask him to make furniture by yourself, then what's the point?
It's not to give him face. It turns out that this thing is good. You have to queue up like everyone else. Are you kidding me? I am your elder brother. Do you know this and still dare him to come here with him? Then he turned around and left. From now on
Never give this guy any face again.
Of course, these are just the slanders in the boss's mind. Of course, he also hopes that he can stand out in the future and let the third guy, who has always held his head high and stubborn, unwilling to bow in front of him, to behave in front of him.
He bowed his head to admit his mistake, but he also knew very well that it was just a beautiful wish in his heart, and the reality
However, when he is in front of others, he has to try his best to show how good his relationship with Lao San is. It's not that he has to get in front of Lao San to talk or build relationships, but that in front of others, he still has a good relationship with Lao San.
When you mention that you are the eldest brother of the third child, you can often get more respect from others when you bring it up yourself.