If you really can't stand it, you will naturally not agree to the marriage. After the engagement, the man can go to the woman's house to give gifts every holiday. This custom continues to this day, but there is also a period of time before the marriage.
Men and women are not allowed to meet each other. As for why no one seems to pursue this tradition specifically.
Some people speculate that it may be because there are too many things to prepare before marriage. Both men and women are busy with preparations at home during this period, so there is less time to meet. As it gradually evolved, it became
It has become a custom that men and women do not need to meet before marriage.
Some people also say that it may be because during the wedding preparation period, young men and women know the situation of their own families and let them meet each other. If they talk about the wedding preparations, they are afraid of any new requirements or even
No matter what happened, the most important starting point to prevent this situation from happening is to directly cut off the opportunity for the two of them to meet, so that the wedding can proceed smoothly.
Regardless of the reason or possibility, the newly married man and woman are closest to marriage before marriage. However, the custom of not meeting each other in the days approaching the wedding has been retained, and the servant did not deliberately make it up.
A lie to deceive the young master of his family, although they all know very well,
It is impossible for their young master to know such a custom, but they are also afraid that if there is something wrong with the young master, they will recruit someone to ask. If they are making up lies, then their fate will obviously be exposed.
It would be miserable, after all, they were facing the big devil in their family and their young master.
The person who made this suggestion felt that this reason should work. With such persuasion, since his young master valued that woman so much, of course he would hope that their marriage would be happy and grow old together, but if it was just because the two of them always hooked up before marriage,
If they are together and it affects their marriage, my young master may also have some scruples. If you think so, well, maybe using this reason is the most likely opportunity to call the young master out.
The other person hasn't come up with a better solution to the problem he's thinking about. That's fine at all. He just listens to you. Maybe he will take his future wife, or his married life, into consideration later and accept your own suggestions.
, no matter what, this is the only visible proposal now.
After all, his young master's brain circuit is different from that of ordinary people. He doesn't care about things that others may care about. He doesn't think he needs to pay attention to things that others think are normal. The rules that others follow simply don't exist for him.
So, even though these two people were speaking seriously, and although they followed the law, they couldn't guarantee that this matter would really make the young master agree with this idea.
Perhaps knowing that the man also felt that although the proposal was reliable, any reliable thing might become unreliable when it comes to the young master, so the servant who made the suggestion added, Alas, remember
We must talk more about the negative impact on marriage when two young men and women meet before marriage.
Thinking about it, since the woman values so much, it is very likely that they will succeed. After all, they saw Shaoxing with their own eyes that day. They grabbed the woman and ran directly from the door. That look was definitely like beating a chicken.
It was the same as blood. This was the first time they saw Shanghai so excited. Anyway, it was the first time they saw him look like a fox mother. Even if the young master usually enjoys the compliments of others, he has never been so excited.
Like the breath of a living person.
But everyone witnessed that day. He ran from the door to his grandfather's wife. All the servants in the family along the way, but those who saw this scene of the rich man were single hens. They had never seen their young master be able to do this.
So happy to be like this.
After hearing about the girl that the young master suddenly brought back, no one paid much attention to what she looked like. They only knew that she was the girl who had been following Shanghai and running in from outside. Anyway, she seemed to have good physical strength.
, your young master may be running ahead because he is more sexually excited. Anyway, it is that kind of excitement.
The murderer was still panting, but he didn't see the girl behind her who was also out of breath. Instead, she seemed to be able to easily follow the young master and run in. But no matter what, everyone was surprised.
His young master actually knew how to bring back a woman from outside, which was enough to shock everyone.
Later, I heard that the young master was going to marry this girl. Everyone started to ask about which family this girl was from. We didn’t pay attention to see what the girl looked like. The customers heard that the young master and the people in the yard
Rumor has it that the girl is not bad looking, and is very gentle. She is not the kind of person who yells at all. Anyway, she is completely different from vulgar people like us. Alas, the young master has good taste, but
But I don’t know where this elegant girl came from.
Yes, how can one just follow the young master home? This is something that everyone cannot accept. After all, no girl would follow a stranger home. Their young master is someone they have grown up watching.
Knowing all the action paths of my young master and the places he goes to, it is simply unimaginable that he can meet a single girl in these places. She is young, and most importantly, she has good looks and a good personality. This is simply unimaginable and impossible.
matter.
But this happened right under everyone's noses, no, of course we were talking about it eagerly, and we were always asking about the origin of this girl, but no one could figure out the origin of this girl. Later.
It was just a servant who said that at that time
The young master and the old lady replied that this girl was given to him by God, and she was the direct candidate to be his wife. Because now everyone was even more eager to discuss this matter. Could it be that a fairy really cannot descend to earth? But what do you think?
She is just a girl from an ordinary family.
If you are really a fairy, you don't need to eat or go to the toilet at all. But it is said that the people who serve this girl said that this girl is quite difficult to serve. The food you eat must be exquisite, and the clothes you wear must also be delicate.
high quality, materials, top quality
This girl chose a lot of silk to make clothes. She didn't regard herself as an outsider at all, and even had a greedy face. At first, she was slightly attracted to him because of his words, deeds, and appearance.
The impressions of the servants on him immediately hit a freezing point.