But what can I say? At that time, Mr. Jia certainly had a lot of dissatisfaction with his wife, but he couldn't stand it. This was the only shortcut that could help him gain a foothold in his official career, and even go deeper. Of course, all his dissatisfaction was resolved.
Because the smoke disappeared, he offered more to his wife. In his opinion, he was
He invited a giant Buddha to be displayed at home, so as to ensure that he would have a smooth career in his official career. Therefore, of course he had to treat the Bodhisattva respectfully without any slander or disrespect, so he treated him with respect.
My own little thoughts are hidden very deep, and basically no one knows about them.
But he really wanted his official career to be smooth sailing. After all, after his wife passed away, it was obvious that his Le family no longer wanted to talk to him. This family with little future and not much sports felt that he
He is purely a drag, so naturally I want to get rid of him as a burden.
And because he was just hanging around with his second wife, his status could not be that high, so the Canadian actually gave up on himself during that period. During that period, he basically thought about the maid he had fallen in love with before.
He wanted to sleep, but all the maids who couldn't sleep fell asleep.
So outside, he seems to be clean and self-sufficient, and his heart is focused on his son. He works hard to take care of his son's daily life. He pays attention to every detail of every move, but in fact, he only cares about his son when he comes home.
I asked one question, and then the rest is for my own enjoyment. Maybe it was because I was very depressed a while ago or after marrying that wife. After the current wife passed away, of course this person A was completely indulgent.
own.
Of course, he did know very well that the maids he had brought in, and even the two-room concubine he had brought in, could not actually take on the responsibility of being a grandmother. In his heart, he knew very well that even if he married a wife for the second time
, it is impossible to marry a concubine from an official family like the first time, but it is not from their so-called scary background.
, or it can be said that those women from those places can be their wives when they are born. He is very clear about this, so he has always just slept without making promises. Anyway, in his opinion, he can
Sleeping with them and giving them a little bit of winning money or a gesture is already a huge favor to them.
But at that time, even if the fake adult gave up on himself and did not want to strive for anything, or he had already reached a certain level of consciousness in his official career and had lost some of his ambitions, he still maintained his bottom line. Then he was
He knew that his reputation must be even better. After he heard outside that he had the reputation of loving and cherishing his children for a long time, he understood and made up his mind that there would not be any exported children in the family.
Anyway, for him, the only thing the child brings him is trouble, and asking him every day is already very troublesome for a fake person, not to mention that he has to pretend to be in front of the child.
To act like a loving father, having a debt collector like this is enough.
At that time, others were completely unaware that if you want to build relationships in the officialdom, it is actually okay. There is another aspect, which is to develop your own relationships and build your own network. That is also very important. He has always been there.
He was looking forward to being able to enter other people's relationships, use himself as a pawn in other people's relationships, and let others promote him. At that time, he didn't realize how important it would be for him to raise more sons.
When he was young, Mr. Jia could only say that he was ambitious and felt that the family had to rely entirely on himself to prosper and continue to be glorious. Of course, he also had the capital. After all, as the son of a businessman, he had been businessmen for generations.
As a businessman, his status in this society is very low. Even if you win money and go out, you can't just quarrel or have disputes with others. Anyway, for the author, the businessman itself represents an unreliable person.
A class that can be completely despised.
Living in such an environment, or growing up in such family conditions, Mr. Jia actually suffered a lot of grievances when he was a child. In his opinion, his life is obviously better than others, and those who are living a better life
Children who are not as good as him can blatantly bully him, but he cannot resist if he wants to.
Yes, even in 45, the attitude of all the students and husbands can be distinguished from the long wait after three days. Although they, the shopping mall people, give a lot of gifts and gratuities to the father and son every year during the holidays, but
These fathers and sons themselves are the children of businessmen who have become more and more contemptuous of them because of this.
Under such a cognitive situation, it is inevitable that the children of these businessmen will have conflicts among the girls in private. When the conflict occurs, whether it is justified or not, the person who is punished will always hurt other people's children. In fact, hurting other people's children in this way is actually a problem in private servers.
The situation here is very difficult and frustrating.
It's like a vicious circle. Because of the rising prices, people's social status is very low, and because their lives are very affluent, so after they were wronged in private schools, these children who hurt others are not willing to do it again.
Go to a private school to study
Books, or perhaps because of resentment, cannot be fully focused on reading. In addition, the teachers in the private schools do not teach attentively, or they are partial to teaching the children of merchant families, so these children will inevitably
Not very outstanding academically.
And because children born from other families often do not have any outstanding academic performance, or in other words, the poor students in the classroom are often children born from other families, which leads to even more discrimination in private schools.
A descendant of a merchant family.
And the fact is that, on the one hand, it is the private parts that are in a difficult situation and have been wronged, and on the other hand, I have the conditions at home to eat, drink and have fun. Under such circumstances, how many children can have such strong self-control and control?
Only with ability can you always immerse yourself in books, study hard, and change your family's social status through the imperial examination.
Therefore, it is said that children from merchant families study a lot, but very few of them can really achieve any results, and the Canadian is one of these rare ones. He was indeed wronged in private school when he was young, but this Jia Jia
Your Excellency has met a mentor. That teacher has a deep understanding of
All children are basically treated equally. Even children from businessmen's families should seek truth from facts when they have disputes with children from other families. Consider the matter based on the true facts, rather than treating these with certain prejudices.
Things, without considering the reasons for them at all.