This is easy to say, but in fact it is very difficult to do. You are a person who has always said the same thing in the whole team, and then suddenly one day. You have to have a good temper, accept everyone's opinions and suggestions, and then of course others will
It also means that if you want something, you can't reach out and grab it. Even if someone wants something in your hand, you have to offer it with both hands with a smile. This is really difficult to do, let alone to a ten-year-old.
A little girl of one or two years old.
Not to mention the fake lady who came in later. In fact, she was not an ordinary person from the beginning. Anyway, he was able to do such a difficult thing for him, so that from the beginning, everyone mentioned this little girl.
She was well-behaved and sensible, and gradually her reputation became wider and wider. In the end, she was even considered to be the standout among the girls in the provincial capital.
You know, considering his appearance and family affairs, it is very rare to become a household name. It can be said that it is filled with the sweat and tears of the little girl. He gritted his teeth and endured the grievances and pains.
, so that I can gain a good reputation.
It can be regarded as begging for help. After this little girl worked hard on her own, her reputation finally reached a certain level. This makes it possible for girls in the original class to get low prices or unsatisfactory prices when they get married.
The situation does not exist here, so his family's family background is generally better than his family's situation.
In this way, while the little girl's parents were satisfied, it also made the girl often sigh in her heart. She felt that she had sacrificed so much and finally got this result. The years were not satisfactory, but at least they were not in vain.
Years of effort.
Yes, even though it is said that they are proposing marriage to a little girl, these families are basically better off than theirs. The conditions of some of the families are better, and the conditions of their sons are also good. But in other families, it seems that every family
They are all good marriage partners, but in the eyes of the little girl, she feels that none of these people have met her own water requirements and standards.
Privately, Tai even felt very aggrieved. And he felt that he had done a good enough job. The reason why he had reached such a result now was that his family affairs had been dragged down. Of course, he knew in his heart about his appearance.
His appearance is average, but he does not think that his appearance is inferior to others, so he is only lacking a little in housework.
Now the little girl is perfectly able to hide her emotions, so even if she blames her parents in her heart and holds her back, the old couple does not feel their daughter's resentment at all and is still happy.
They are busy making arrangements for their daughter's marriage. In their opinion, the families who have no money to propose marriage are very good children, and they are also very good children. It is more than enough to accompany their own daughter. Then their problem is how to agree to the marriage of a family.
, and not offend other families.
The three flavors also caused a lot of worries. After all, in their opinion, they could not afford to offend any of the families who came to propose marriage to them. After all, they were really good at everything, and they were better than them in any horizontal comparison.
A strong family, in this case, more than a dozen households
How should they choose a family? First of all, they don’t know how to choose. That’s the first question. They also have to consider another question. They have chosen a family. Is it appropriate to offend other families? From this point of view,
The old couple felt that this was definitely a trouble for happiness.
As for a daughter who can be so powerful and make so many families good, and the condition of their son is also good, when someone proposed marriage to their family, the old couple naturally knew about the good reputation of the daughter of the public father in recent years. Of course, they did not
They don't think that their daughter is preparing for her marriage early, but they think that they have educated her daughter very well, so that outside, their daughter is a spokesperson for all the virtues of a woman.
So for a period of time, the old couple still thought that their daughter was suffering from some kind of depression, so that she suddenly became like this. You must know that in the past, the daughter also had some small personalities, or things that she was sure of, and he didn't
He allowed others to be better than him, and he did not allow his favorite things to be taken away by others. But I don’t know when his daughter started to have no temper, gentle and generous, even outside
When faced with being wronged, he would never resist directly, or bring the other person's refutation back home. Instead, he would laugh it off in a polite and generous manner. At that time, the old couple were worried that their daughter would develop such a temper in the future.
How should she gain a foothold in her mother-in-law's family? She is just a clay figure who can be manipulated by others, but her daughter is like this and will not resist anything. No matter how upset she is, she can just smile and put it aside.
The people at that time were very worried about their daughter's character. They really didn't understand how their daughter, who was originally normal, suddenly turned into a saint-like temperament. They said it and handed it over, but
But the daughter didn't listen at all. On the surface, she agreed well, but behind the scenes, she still had her own way. During that time, the old couple didn't know how many hairs they had turned gray due to worry.
Later, when rumors about their daughter's good reputation began to spread in the provincial capital, the old couple gradually relaxed, or in other words, they gave up and continued to educate their daughter. Obviously, their words were not good at their daughter's.
It doesn't have any effect. The daughter will agree to everything on her face, but when she is extremely sincere, she will completely follow her own ideas and not consider their suggestions at all, or their words will be ignored by the daughter.
Is there any influence on the son? At that time, the boyfriend was also very discouraged, but gradually he heard about the daughter’s good reputation, and the two met again and regained their courage. Maybe this is not bad, the daughter at least
With a good reputation, she can rely on her good reputation to find a good husband from her husband's family. As long as they choose a good son-in-law, their daughter will not have to worry about being wronged.
Of course, another point is that they found that although their daughter suffered a lot on the business card, she actually didn't seem to have suffered much grievance. People who often offended her daughter or bullied her daughter spent some time openly or covertly.
You will always suffer a loss and have bad luck. In short, it will not end well.