He knew at a young age that his family was not very well-off, so they could have one or two slaves, but he did know very well that their family was still far from those rich families, so he could only
Classified as a well-off family, that is, a small family in a provincial capital, and as a daughter, as a daughter in such a family, for her, the marriage market in front of her can be said to be
The room for choice is very narrow.
Mrs. Jia, who really entered the family as a junior, realized this problem when he was eleven or twelve years old. He was slightly more mature than his peers, so at a young age he finally realized that he had a future in the marriage market.
Maybe the choices are very narrow, maybe I have worked hard for a long time, and the husband I finally chose is just like their family. There is no way for me to be a master, and I can't be the golden phoenix that is very difficult. Regarding this point,
He said that Mrs. Jia, who came in late, was very unwilling.
This can't be blamed on the wife's unwillingness. After all, when he was young, he had an aunt who married into a famous and promising family in the provincial capital. The main reason was that his aunt was too beautiful. Of course, this was his
Cousin, my cousin is far away from their blood relationship, but he still clearly remembers the pomp and ceremony when he married his cousin.
That scene was something he had never seen before, and from the gossip he heard from the guests, he naturally knew that his cousin was definitely worth a high price. He went out and listened to those people talking about what his cousin said.
The betrothal gifts received by my cousin's family, the boxes and rows of valuable things, etc. all made my cousin's family so happy that they couldn't open their mouths from ear to ear.
Almost everyone is saying that his cousin's name is good, and everyone is saying that his cousin is lucky. When he comes to his husband's house, he will do whatever he wants, and finally live the life of a rich wife. Such a small
The young lady who entered the house at a young age had a great impact on her soul.
Originally, he felt that his family's life was very good. No matter what, he was the treasure in the hands of his parents. He had been well-behaved and sensible since he was a child, and he knew how to please his elders, so his parents were very good to him. He was one of the only few in the family.
The slave has two little maids to serve him. In addition, the mother specially assigned a woman in charge to be responsible for all the things in her daughter's yard. The two of them only have a few people to serve around them.
Just two people.
So the little girl was originally very arrogant. Among her playmates of the same age, she was the one who made everyone envious and jealous. After all, even though their family backgrounds were similar, he had three servants around him who could help him when he was young.
.As for the friends of the same age, there is at most only one little girl around them, and most of them are not valued by their families because they are girls, so they don’t even have anyone around them to serve them.
Although girls from their family background are not like ordinary citizens, girls like that have to take care of housework and do some other chores. They can keep their fingers off the sun, but considering their family background
, can I have this servant by my side?
Serving them is already a big deal. But Mrs. Jia, who came in late, was accompanied by two little girls, and there was also a mother-in-law. Although the mother-in-law occasionally took care of her mother's side, in name only
But it was the mother-in-law in my own yard.
So at that time, when the little girl was playing with her friends, the happiest thing was, of course, that with the large number of people around her, she could be a leader among her friends. After all, he was not the only one.
Others think more and are more mature. In addition, there are two maids behind him who are completely obedient to his command. Therefore, among the little girls in childhood, Mrs. Jia, who entered the family late, has also been the king and the hegemon since she was a child.
Came here.
I always thought that the little girl felt that her life at home was very good, basically much better than other neighbors, which made her very popular among other little sisters and other cousins in the family.
It was face-saving, but it was after attending that wedding that she realized that her family also belonged to a disadvantaged group.
It's no wonder that the little girl was touched by him that time. After all, even though she was a Shili Hongzhuang, hearing about it was enough to stimulate him. After all, he had attended the weddings of other sisters and relatives before and he knew very well.
In a family like theirs, when a girl gets married, she is usually accompanied by around 10 people in Taiwan.
dowry, but when his cousin got married, she had a dowry of more than 30 yuan, and it was more than that. Listening to the voices of relatives talking about it, you can tell that the gold content in this dowry is still higher than other dowries.
There are a lot of them, but even so, it is inevitable that there are still some gossips among relatives.
When the little girl is full of curiosity, it is impossible for her to pay more attention to human communication with adults. In other words, she is like a leek at the banquet. For her, listening to some gossip among adults makes her appear knowledgeable.
, the one who can hold his chest up and raise his head even in front of little sisters.
For this little girl, she prefers to hide in the corner and listen to the words that some nuns and six women say in private, which are not the words said in public in the factory. It is often those words that make the little girl feel that he is more capable.
Clearly understand the essence of things.
He was originally shocked that his cousin could have so much dowry when she got married. The things contained in the dowry were actually very high-end for some girls. They were originally in this
At his age, he only likes games and playing, and he is close to any little girl, and then he dresses or wears jewelry, but this little girl has already had a certain understanding of marriage.
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In private, he has also heard his father and mother discussing in private the issue of dowry for his daughter's future marriage. So he is very clear that a woman's dowry is an important factor in his ability to stand in his husband's family. Anyway, for him
, people near their class
Almost all such values exist. It is not something that a little girl like him thinks or thinks about privately. He just listens to too many private discussions and then realizes this, and observes it.
After reading this, he was even more convinced of the information he had received.