Of course, later on, through her own observations, conclusions, extraordinary understanding, etc., the little girl finally found the reason for those people, that is, these people were not like herself. They started doing it early and were prepared to know that people like this
There are many things in life that need to be taught by others. He is very young.
At that time, he knew that listening to the private discussions of his elders made it very clear to him that people really have many masks. These elders look one way in front of others, but they look another way behind their backs.
Their speech, behavior, expression, and even cognition may be completely opposite attitudes.
In the eyes of the little girl, the faces of these people on the outside are really dull and boring, but in fact when they are doing things in private, their faces are vivid and real, so for the little girl
For a girl, she prefers to listen to those in private. Alas, because of her young age, she has heard a lot of gossip, so gradually she has mastered a lot of people who are quietly eavesdropping next to her.
ability.
The little girl thinks that it is because she has heard enough of these things, her knowledge of this matter is broad enough, and she has thought about enough things that her knowledge and understanding of life are beyond ordinary people.
He seems to have a clearer understanding than the new godmothers who are getting married.
He knew that for these new families, the husband's family was a completely unfamiliar area, but as brides, they should pay attention to it. The most basic thing they should pay attention to was their dowry. Anyway, who they would marry has already been decided at this time.
The most important thing for them should be to work hard to make their husband's family live a better life, so the most basic factor to ensure them is the dowry for their marriage this time.
Although the little girl said every time in front of her parents that she would not get married, she was truly happy to be with her parents, and she would stay with her parents all her life, be filial to them, and let them enjoy happiness. But he knew these words.
What he learned from those people is the superficial set of high-sounding words. Anyway, speaking such words will please his father and mother, and he will get more love.
But in fact, the little girl had already planned it long ago. Ever since she heard her father and mother discussing her in private about her future dowry and dowry, she had always paid attention to her words and deeds, striving to be in the best position for herself.
Everything you say and do can please your parents, and only if they like you more will they be more willing to spend money on you. The richer your dowry, the more you will do in the future.
The more you live, the more comfortable and at ease you become.
At that time, the little girl didn't know about the difference in family status. In her opinion, the dowry was the most decisive factor in a woman's marital happiness, so she only attended her cousin's wedding in the past three days.
Being so stimulated, it was the first time in her life that she had seen the real so-called Shili Hongzhuang.
Of course, saying "Shui Hongzhuang" is a bit exaggerated, but his cousin's dowry is already several times the dowry that a person of their status would give when marrying their daughter.
Such a dowry was enthusiastic enough for a little girl, but later on, as she grew older, she gradually realized that when wealthy families marry their daughters, it can only be called a red dowry. Parents on this side may have just
Entering the passenger door, the driver's license on the other end is not the last one.
Leaving the front door of her natal family, such a situation can be called Hongzhuang, but for Mrs. Jia, who entered the family at a young age, the wedding he observed was the first time he had ever known her.
It turns out that people like them can also have such a dowry level.
But he knew very well that my cousin's family was actually not as well off as theirs, but they were able to give their daughter so many things. He even knew when he listened to those people talking in private,
The betrothal gifts sent from the south were several times more than this, and their cousin's parents still kept most of them.
He only gave a small part of the betrothal gift to his daughter as a dowry, and let him take it out of the house. Even so, the level of the dowry surprised him so much that he was so envious. Even in his heart, he was so small at that time.
He was thinking that if he could have such a dowry when he got married, he would be extremely happy.
And when she heard that the man's betrothal gift was several times more than this, and most of it was secretly withheld by the cousin's parents to supplement the family income, the little girl's heart was full of injustice, and at that moment she seemed to be transformed into
He was so angry when he saw his cousin himself. Since it was the man's betrothal gift, it was given based on his cousin's face. Why did his parents dare to withhold these in private?
Later, he listened to many people's comments and realized that it was normal for his cousin's parents to behave like this. After all, daughters are generally not taken seriously in the family. In addition to this beautiful girl, she also has several brothers and sisters.
Of course, the girls don’t need to worry too much, but the several boys each
They needed to get a wife, and they had lost a lot of their betrothal gifts. His cousin was too beautiful and was attracted by the rich man, so the betrothal gift given by the man was really large.
With most of the betrothal gifts intercepted in this section, their family will not have to worry about the marriage of their own boys.
That was almost the first time that the fake lady who came in later realized the difference between men and women. Before, he only thought that there was not much difference between men and women. It was just a marriage in theory. For men and women, it was a separate marriage.
In terms of marriage, the man has to pay a betrothal gift and the woman has to pay a dowry. This is an important factor that can ensure the future life of the couple. However, he did not realize that in most people's families, boys are indeed more important.
This is the first time the little girl reflects on the situation at home. He has an eldest brother who is five years older than him. Anyway, he has the impression that his parents love her very much. After all, his eldest brother is much older than him.
Too many. It’s impossible for my eldest brother to play with him since he was little.
So he really didn't pay attention to his parents, as to how different they were, and the most important thing is that boys and girls have different life resources, and the things they need in their environment are different, so