The silent attention is a more true reflection of their inner thoughts. If these two people don't care or in their hearts, if they don't pay attention to their son, how can they always glance at their son while eating and looking up?
, but it was his daughter. After Chen Ping finished adding food to his daughter, the two of them would say that they rarely cared about how much the little girl ate.
This cannot be blamed on the parents of Mrs. Jia, who entered the family late. After all, their little girl is extremely well-behaved, and they have spent a long time with her daughter, so they know very well what her daughter likes to eat and how much she eats.
Yes, but my son is different. As he gets older,
However, they found that they spent less and less time with their son, and they were not so sure of his son's preferences. Therefore, they did not dare to randomly add extra meals to their son during meals, in case they added extra food to their son.
If you don’t like food, aren’t you making things difficult for your son? Should he eat it or not?
Moreover, as my son gets older, his taste has also changed greatly. Today he likes to eat one thing, and tomorrow he likes to eat another. In two days, he may not like what he likes to eat today. In this case, the couple has nothing to do.
I can only pay more attention to my son. If he likes to eat something, then he should make more of it in the past two days.
And their habit was quickly discovered by the smart little girl. This made the little girl extremely annoyed. She found that her father and mother were always concerned about the dishes of their eldest brother and son's eldest brother Dafang during meals.
If you eat a few more bites, this dish will definitely appear in the next meal. This is obviously the favoritism of the father and mother. They are just like other parents, they all value their sons and not their daughters.
While thinking about it like this, the little girl completely forgot about her favorite dishes. In fact, they often appear at home, and even the expensive dishes she loved could only be eaten by her family in 10 days and a half.
It will happen once. This is completely
It was his father and mother's love for him, but in front of him, he was shocked by the secret he discovered today. He also truly believed what others were saying, that is, not all parents rely on their sons.
Of course, I value my son the most.
He felt that his father and mother were simply too treacherous and had been deceiving his feelings. He had been trying so hard to please them, but in fact, they valued his son more. In this regard, the little girl's
His cognition was suddenly greatly impacted, and he was even more determined to do everything possible to
Seek more benefits for yourself. After all, it is a foregone conclusion that your parents are partial. Since they prefer your eldest brother, you can only seek as many benefits for yourself as possible, so that you can be prepared to gain a firm foothold in a rich family in the future. After all,
Since father and mother are already partial, then they are unreliable.
Some little girls with this understanding still please their parents at home as always. In this regard, he did not let his parents notice the changes in him, but gradually the couple also discovered that their daughter
Today's aesthetics or preferences have changed to a certain extent. In the past, he always liked jewelry with bright colors and fresh patterns, but now he seems to have changed his preferences and prefers heavier and thicker jewelry.
Moreover, the daughter’s spending money has also changed significantly. In the past, it was normal for a daughter to like some small things and like to buy them herself. However, now she prefers to let her mother buy them for herself. This change makes the old father feel that her daughter is more attractive.
Now that I can rely on myself, I feel very happy, and my daughter also
I asked if we could give her more monthly pocket money. After all, she is considered a big girl. There are always some things that she likes and buys for herself. Although I didn’t see what my daughter bought, the couple did.
My daughter’s money has been increased, which is much more than my son’s.
But the address was like this, and the little girl still felt very aggrieved when she saw the few taels of silver she had saved over the year. He was thinking about his cousin's rows of dowries and what he had heard about
Yes, he didn't see the so-called generous betrothal gift from the man at all. He felt that he had too few assistants at home. He had already worked so hard, and the money he received after a year was only a few taels of silver.
This little girl felt very disappointed and frustrated. After all, she originally thought that with her own efforts, she would be able to make a lot of money for herself, and then she would take it with her when she got married, which would also make her parents richer.
What happened to her, she didn't expect. Over the past year, she took advantage of various opportunities to save money, and then
He kept asking for more pocket money, or when his parents stopped checking and noticed something strange about him, but in the end he only saved a few taels of money this year. This was like child's play, but he forgot that he was this age.
He was supposed to be a child, and he was already very rich with a few taels of private money.
This kind of little girl took a deep breath in the road of giving her own dowry. It seemed that her road was unworkable, but it didn't matter. She carefully recalled her cousin's wedding and those people.
Those things he talked about behind his back, he finally came to a conclusion
On the other hand, no matter what the woman's family is like, if she can find a generous or wealthy person to marry, then her dowry does not need to be too bad. Even if her parents are biased and leave most of the property and betrothal gift, they will still give it to him.
Part of it was used as his dowry, just like my cousin did.
You must know that in the cousin's family, there are several boys who have not married, so the betrothal gift must be relatively large. There is only one eldest brother in the son's family. The eldest brother in the son's family has already started talking about marriage, and it is possible that he will wait until he gets married.
, my eldest brother has already
When he gets married, his parents don't have many reasons to withhold his betrothal gift at that time, not to mention that he is not that easy to bully. No matter what happens then, he will have to keep his betrothal gift, maybe he will find a rich family directly.
That's the most important thing.
After figuring out the hurdles, the focus of the little girl's life suddenly changed from saving money for private housing to how to find a strong husband for herself. In his daily life, he used whispering or eavesdropping.
Waiting for skills, he worked hard to collect wedding news about himself or the sisters next to him.