The three flavors also caused a lot of worries. After all, in their opinion, they could not afford to offend any of the families who came to propose marriage to them. After all, they were really good at everything, and they were better than them in any horizontal comparison.
A strong family, in this case, more than a dozen households
How should they choose a family? First of all, they don’t know how to choose. That’s the first question. They also have to consider another question. They have chosen a family. Is it appropriate to offend other families? From this point of view,
The old couple felt that this was definitely a trouble for happiness.
As for a daughter who can be so powerful and make so many families good, and the condition of their son is also good, when someone proposed marriage to their family, the old couple naturally knew about the good reputation of the daughter of the public father in recent years. Of course, they did not
They don't think that their daughter is preparing for her marriage early, but they think that they have educated her daughter very well, so that outside, their daughter is a spokesperson for all the virtues of a woman.
So for a period of time, the old couple still thought that their daughter was suffering from some kind of depression, so that she suddenly became like this. You must know that in the past, the daughter also had some small personalities, or things that she was sure of, and he didn't
He allowed others to be better than him, and he did not allow his favorite things to be taken away by others. But I don’t know when his daughter started to have no temper, gentle and generous, even outside
When faced with being wronged, he would never resist directly, or bring the other person's refutation back home. Instead, he would laugh it off in a polite and generous manner. At that time, the old couple were worried that their daughter would develop such a temper in the future.
How should she gain a foothold in her mother-in-law's family? She is just a clay figure who can be manipulated by others, but her daughter is like this and will not resist anything. No matter how upset she is, she can just smile and put it aside.
The people at that time were very worried about their daughter's character. They really didn't understand how their daughter, who was originally normal, suddenly turned into a saint-like temperament. They said it and handed it over, but
But the daughter didn't listen at all. On the surface, she agreed well, but behind the scenes, she still had her own way. During that time, the old couple didn't know how many hairs they had turned gray due to worry.
Later, when rumors about their daughter's good reputation began to spread in the provincial capital, the old couple gradually relaxed, or in other words, they gave up and continued to educate their daughter. Obviously, their words were not good at their daughter's.
It doesn't have any effect. The daughter will agree to everything on her face, but when she is extremely sincere, she will completely follow her own ideas and not consider their suggestions at all, or their words will be ignored by the daughter.
Is there any influence on the son? At that time, the boyfriend was also very discouraged, but gradually he heard about the daughter’s good reputation, and the two met again and regained their courage. Maybe this is not bad, the daughter at least
With a good reputation, she can rely on her good reputation to find a good husband from her husband's family. As long as they choose a good son-in-law, their daughter will not have to worry about being wronged.
Of course, another point is that they found that although their daughter suffered a lot on the business card, she actually didn't seem to have suffered much grievance. People who often offended her daughter or bullied her daughter spent some time openly or covertly.
You will always suffer a loss and have bad luck. In short, it will not end well.
At first, the old couple was as surprised and surprised as everyone else. Gradually, after more and more such things happened, everyone came to a certain conventional understanding, that is, good people will be rewarded, and bad deeds will always be punished.
It was retribution, but the one they encountered seemed to be a special retribution.
So gradually they couldn't talk to their daughter, and seeing that she didn't suffer too much, the old couple gradually became satisfied with the good reputation their daughter had created. Anyway, now everyone praises her very much after meeting her.
Their daughter praised them for their good teaching, which enabled them to educate such a dignified, gentle, and lovely daughter. It is simply not an exaggeration to use all the beautiful adjectives that can be piled on him.
It can be said that from that time on, the old couple no longer worried about their daughter's marriage. In their view, with such a good reputation, she would naturally have a good one. When people came to her, it was just as they imagined. After her daughter became active, she
Many people came to propose marriage, and at first the couple could enjoy seeing each other, but gradually they began to feel a little tired. After all, they couldn't afford to offend any of these families.
Which they
They all look good, anyway, they are much better than theirs, and each has its own advantages and interests. It is difficult to decide at the moment, which one should I choose? They would rather have 10 8's.
daughter, they were able to solve the problem at once, but every day they only had one daughter proposing, and there were more than 10 families who proposed to them, all of which they thought were good, and they were reluctant to give up on any of them. In the end, they all became a little picky.
I don’t know which one to choose.
When we encountered the same problem as them, there was actually a very simple solution, which was to directly ask the girl for her opinion. Whichever house the girl chose would be the one. The old couple were not the traditional stubborn ones.
Those who pay attention to the parents' orders and the matchmaker's words will treat their daughters
Their opinions are completely ignored. Of course, what they value most is what their daughter is worried about, which is her happiness in the rest of her life. So when they are practicing for the exam and don’t know which family to choose as their son-in-law,
Naturally, I thought that I would let my daughter make the decision.
But when his boyfriend introduced the detailed information of all the families who were seeking marriage to his daughter, what he ultimately meant was, of course, that they thought they were all good now, and then they decided to see who their daughter liked.
No matter which family they marry, as long as the daughter looks at the old man, they will make a decision and directly agree, and the marriage will be finalized.
But to the disappointment of the old couple, this time the daughter did not give them a clear opinion. Instead, she looked at the old couple with trust and said that she was reluctant to leave her father and mother. As for her marriage, she still let her father
As long as the mother makes the decision, he, as a daughter, believes that his father and mother will give him the most suitable and reassuring marriage.