The first is, of course, the issue of status. Since Wang Qi passed away, Mr. Jia has indeed had a lot of trouble with women, but there are very few who actually have this title, only two, and the others are all
She is considered a common-room girl and has no status at all.
Secondly, most of the identities of these women in Mr. Jia’s family were selected from his own family. This was also thanks to the mother of everyone in his family, the original wife, who was his second wife.
1 person, when her son and daughter-in-law were around, the old lady felt extremely aggrieved
, on the one hand, he is extremely satisfied. The dowry brought by his daughter-in-law and her original status are much higher than Jiajia's. After all, she has heard from her son where her son can go in the officialdom.
To a certain extent, it all depends on how much help this woman brings.
But at the same time, although she was very satisfied that this woman could bring great help to her son, this old woman felt very aggrieved that her son would depend on a woman for his future promotion and wealth.
The son felt aggrieved. After all, his son was a talented person with outstanding talents. No one could make her suffer any grievances since she was a child. The old couple held their son in their hands, fearing that he would suffer even the slightest grievance, but now
On the issue of marrying a wife, the son made a huge concession. Couldn't he see that his son had no affection for that woman? How could this mother not know what her son was thinking? In fact, in front of outsiders, he
Show your love to your wife, such as Xiao Si's wife, who shows you are particularly affectionate with your wife, but as his mother, Mrs. Jia can actually see at a glance that what her son does is because of
It's just a show for others to watch.
The way his son looked at his first daughter-in-law was just a look at a precious commodity, or an important person who was extremely useful to him, without any sign of admiration or connection.
As a person who has experienced this, Mrs. Jia certainly knows very well why her son still shows an incomparable love for him even though he does not like the woman in front of him. Of course, it is for her own sake and for this woman to bring her own observation skills.
Various treatments come.
Of course, he understands or supports his son's approach very much. After all, people like them have just escaped from the lowly status of businessmen, and it is rare for them to change their family with their son, so they can turn over in one move, but they
In the officialdom, there is no help. In this case, the current officialdom, in addition to relying on various relationships, actually does not give any newcomers a chance to get ahead.
It was just a song with a little bit of adult race that changed the family. Only then did Mrs. Jie notice that now the court could talk about various forms of officialdom. He also asked around, and of course the person he was asking about was a person from all walks of life.
Yes, it can be said that the information is relatively limited, but in the end Mrs. Jia finally learned that it is very difficult for the court to become an official in the current court, mainly for newcomers who have passed the imperial examination.
Now if you want to get an official position in the officialdom, at least you should have a senior who can bring you into the officialdom. Without this key person, it will be even more difficult for you to enter the officialdom. In fact,
People like them who are scientifically qualified in the new imperial examination, but if it doesn't actually matter, you will just play a role for life, and there is actually no way to get an official position.
During that period, the little old lady certainly saw clearly her son's depression, anger, helplessness, and powerlessness. At that time, he was worried that he would stifle his son. After all, he watched his son suffer all the way.
After working hard, they passed the imperial examination and changed the family. They thought they were such geniuses.
Of course, it would be smooth sailing for a son who was an ordinary figure, and he would be sought after by people wherever he went. But in fact, given the current state of the imperial court and officialdom, his idea would definitely become a fantasy, and it would be impossible at all.
The realization of the situation before us was a profound and lasting moment for the whole family.
At that time, the parents, wives and parents were actually avoiding Mr. Jiang. After all, they themselves were unable to help their son, so they should not hang around in front of others. Do they need to remind their son that they, an old couple?
How incompetent he is, how unable to help him develop in his official career, isn't this a shocking thing?
Every time they appear in front of their son, they put an invisible pressure on him. At the same time, they remind their son of the incompetence of the old couple. In this case, of course, the old couple have to hide as far away as possible.
They are unwilling to appear in front of their son, firstly because they are afraid that his son will be upset when he sees them, and secondly, because they are afraid that his son will think that they are urging them as if they are his sons.
Yes, under such circumstances, the old couple lived extremely frustrated. How could they live in the same house and not see each other every day? What's more, they were once proud of their son and boasted it to their neighbors.
In other words, it greatly satisfies their vanity. After all, their son has outstanding abilities, which are beyond ordinary people in these families in Fujian.
Once upon a time, my son was so dazzling. Once upon a time, my son was so enviable. Having such a capable son was a very lucky thing for the old couple. In their eyes, this son was the one they had been growing up with.
They can be envied and envied by others. After all, their son has disturbed a height that has not been reached by several generations. Ah, he has fulfilled the wishes of their ancestors for generations and has changed you from now on.
It is easy for them to no longer stick to the lowly status of being in school. They also become people with status and can be looked up to by others in society. Once they go out, many people will pursue them. In this case, the old
Of course, the couple has always regarded their son as their top priority and based on his will. Whatever he wants to do, the old couple can only support it and try their best to create conditions to meet their son's requirements.
But the most critical thing he has experienced now, so after being stuck at the checkpoint of thousands of troops, what his son faced was not a smooth journey, but a more difficult test, which is absolutely unparalleled for the old couple.