Since everything and all achievements in this life revolve around his son, his son's influence on the old lady of the family is absolutely the greatest, so he actually treats other people and everyone.
My husband's attitude towards his daughter-in-law is based on his son's starting point.
After the little old lady got older, her attitude towards Mr. Jia has improved a lot. She no longer wanted to educate him directly like when she was young. Of course, this matter has never happened to him, although it has been rehearsed countless times in his mind.
times, but he still has never really implemented it. After all, he has been educated for more than 10 years, meeting female ghosts, etc. Of course, he knows that it is treason for a wife to attack her husband.
Verbal attacks and ridicules, as well as not accepting other people's opinions and not paying attention to these things are all things that Carrefour people are used to doing. It can be said that they are willing to invite him to his place. Mr. Jia is a person who does not need to pay attention to it.
There is no need to care about people. Anyway, he can live quite well by himself. He can also live quite well by himself. There is no need for him as a wife to do anything. He only needs to take care of himself wholeheartedly.
Just have a son.
This is also because her son has already shown extraordinary talent at a young age, so of course the old woman in the family devoted her whole heart to her son.
When you are with your son, you not only have to take care of his daily life, but also strictly consult various teachers for guidance, and then cultivate your son's reading and writing skills.
At that time, if Mr. Jiao was annoyed and would point fingers or say something, Mrs. Jia would actually turn a blind eye to him, or simply forbid him from intervening in matters related to her son. At that time, the relationship between husband and wife was really about to reach its freezing point, and the two of them were basically turning a blind eye.
All of them are in a state of non-interference, non-influence and non-participation.
However, when she got older, she was called the old lady, and her attitude towards Mr. Jia changed a lot. The most important thing is that her son has become famous and has a certain identity and status, so they should no longer eat themselves and their husbands as outsiders as before.
There is no face in front of him. After all, the husband's face also represents part of his son's face. When he goes out, he also represents his son's face. Therefore, the Carrefour people's attitude towards Mr. Jia has softened a lot. Of course, the other
On the one hand, the little old lady is getting older, and his health is not as good as before. At this time, he feels that people really have all kinds of problems when they get old. The most important thing to think about is to stay with him in the end.
Who is he by his side? Obviously, this question has to be put aside when he was young. The old lady would have said directly without hesitation that he would be by his side for the rest of his life. Of course it was his son, but now he does not dare to say so directly.
Exported.
Facts have long proven that no matter whether the son marries his wife before or after he marries his wife or his wife or his daughter-in-law, the son actually belongs to his daughter-in-law, and the only one who belongs to him from the beginning to the end is his own.
husband.
When this issue was brought up, Mrs. Jiang was actually shocked. He had never thought about it, or I had made a decision in my heart since he was young, that he would never rely on me in his life.
He has to create his own husband who can be his biggest support. But
So in a sense, your old lady did achieve what she said, but at the same time, as she grew older, this old lady Jia became more and more aware, so she said
As his body became increasingly useless, his mind also underwent earth-shaking changes.
I don’t know when I got married and finally realized that my son is just a son. He can’t always stay by his side, and he can’t give everything like himself. In the other person’s body, he is only to his son.
He is just a member of the family, so the degree may be more important than others, but in fact the scope cannot be separated from the scope of the family.
My son has too many things in his life, and he has many things that he needs to consider. He can no longer help him. There are many things that his son needs to think about and bear on his own. At this time, Carrefour people have to
Admitting that most of his life, his son may occupy all areas, but this situation can only happen to him. If he cannot get the same reward, his son will only occupy most of his life.
A small part.
At that moment when I thought about the audience, the old lady was actually extremely frustrated. She never felt that she had done anything wrong, nor did she feel that she needed to regret it, or that she needed to feel that she had done something wrong.
But at that moment, he felt such earth-shaking importance. He felt that all his efforts and all his energy in this life were worth all.
Yes, well, wealth is concentrated on his son. Are these actions correct? But looking back again, he felt that if he was given another chance to do it again, he would probably continue to be like this for the rest of his life. Even if he had
The current sentiment, in fact, after so many years of life, but he will still devote himself to his son as he chose before.
Maybe this is the life span of a mother. She can devote everything she has to her children, but she does not expect the same return. No matter how many times he is asked to choose, his choice will always be based on his own
Children are given priority. This may be a common problem among all mothers in the world. Of course, all mothers may get more or less benefits from their children.
However, it is impossible for him to pay as much as he once paid, but no matter what, they have no regrets, they are all happy, just like calling the old lady, he does not feel that it is worth regretting, although he
He knew that his son's weight in his words was indeed more than ten times less than his son's weight in his heart, but he still had no regrets.
But no matter what, one thing that cannot be changed is that Mrs. Jia finally realized the significance of her husband's existence. From that moment on, most of her dissatisfaction with her husband disappeared, although she still often thought of the old man.
It was useless, but gradually I accepted the fact. After all, only this old man could be by my side in my later years.