But no matter what, one thing that cannot be changed is that Mrs. Jia finally realized the significance of her husband's existence. From that moment on, most of her dissatisfaction with her husband disappeared, although she still often thought of the old man.
It was useless, but gradually I accepted the fact. After all, only this old man could be by my side in my later years.
However, when Mr. Jia was no longer so utilitarian, it seemed that he valued his son's future and the fate of the entire family more. In other words, as a man, he may have had such a strong idea from the beginning.
It's just because my abilities are limited, so I don't want to show it. After all, on the one hand, my abilities are insufficient, and on the other hand, I desperately want to change the fate of my family. This is very contradictory in itself.
Therefore, when his abilities are insufficient, Mr. Jia is also aware that he will not be able to fulfill the wishes of his ancestors in this life, and he will not be able to become a master like others. At this time, his only choice is to
To comfort yourself, you need to relax, know how to divert your attention, and don't let yourself focus on this dead knot and beat yourself to death. In the end, no one will sympathize with him, but will laugh at his stupidity and incompetence.
So he acted calm and indifferent to fame and fortune. It wasn't that he didn't want to, but that he couldn't. He didn't have the ability. Naturally, he could only accept the glare from his wife.
.And in his smart son, he did
He saw hope, but he also knew that based on his own conditions, he did not have the qualifications, or that he did not have the confidence to ask his son to do things that he could not accomplish in his life, to do things that he could not do in his life.
A height that is impossible to reach even if you die.
It can be said that Mr. Jia saw this clearly. He knew that he could be like a father from other families or other families, put on a serious look, and then ask his son to study hard, but he did not.
He had to imagine the aggrieved feeling in his heart when he was a child, when he was oppressed, when he was oppressed by his father, when he was asked to do various things and couldn't do it. He wanted to roar at his father.
, since you can't do it, why do you ask me to do these things.
So every time he saw that his son was so smart and wanted to do something, or that he wanted to put all the family's hopes on his shoulders, at that moment he actually thought of his own past. He
He was afraid that his son would also roar in his heart, that his son would be as aggrieved as he once was.
At this point, Director Jiang has always felt that he is indeed a very good father. At least he is not like his father, who imposes things that he cannot do on a little child, his own son.
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Don't think that Mr. Jia has only one child in his family, and his grandpa has only one son in his family. This is impossible. In fact, at grandpa's house, there are three or four brothers.
There are outputs. In this case, most of Chiayi's final successors are actually Mr. Jia. It can be seen that among these sons, he has the best relationship with me. But in fact, the good relationship between father and son depends on
All these are the skills that Mr. Jia can endure.
Grandpa Yang is indeed the best-tempered among his brothers. Perhaps because he is not the eldest child, nor is he the youngest child, he has not been particularly valued by his parents from the beginning, so he has developed a special temperament.
This is something I can endure. I can endure it, and my little grandpa also
He becomes a good old man. After all, not everyone can take his anger into his stomach, hold it in and think about it all the time. Isn’t this asking for trouble for himself? If he doesn’t really turn himself into this, his personality will be bad.
It completely erupted and became a crater of its own.
And Mr. Jiang is the kind of person who can hold his breath back. He can divert his attention and let the breath out of his body naturally, and never mentions it again. This is also inevitable because his parents don't care about him, and his brothers and sisters below him don't particularly like it.
Playing with him, so in this case, all he can do is bear the blow. He has no choice. What can he do if he can't bear it? Even if he breaks out, not many people will be able to take him seriously.
But as he grew older, the young master was very grateful to himself for developing such a tolerable temper. Anyway, he had a good reputation among his brothers and sisters. Everyone thought he had a good temper and were willing to associate with him.
Parents also think that he has a good temper, is obedient, and does what he says. Although he may not be able to do it if he continues to ask for it, he will still work hard honestly. Even if such a child cannot please his parents too much,
care, but at least it won't bore them.
And Grandpa Jia’s parents are the kind of parents who are eager to see their children become successful. For their own son, asking them as a couple is an extension of the family. They ask for more academically and more in life.
As for his sons, every one of them was so suppressed that they wished they could not straighten their backs. They lived under the pressure of the couple every day. How many of them could not express their feelings? Gradually, the family's
There are more and more conflicts, and the problems between sons and parents are becoming more and more acute. The conflicts are gradually escalating. In this process, the one who stands out is Mr. Jia, a tolerant son. He has a good temper and is obedient even if he can endure it.
, this impression gradually gained points, and in the future he gradually became the most proud son of his parents, so none of the other sons could become talented.
And under such circumstances, the children are all underachievers, so of course they have to choose a child with a temper that surpasses their own and will not make them angry to inherit the family business, so the little grandpa suddenly appeared in front of his parents.
In my mind, I became the most ideal person to inherit the family business.
What's even more rare is that when the family property was finally divided, even though his parents gave most of the property to Mr. Jia, his brothers and sisters did not have any partial comments or different opinions. They all
They think that such a good-tempered grandpa is indeed suitable to inherit most of the Jiang family's property. As for Mr. Jia's other brothers, they think it is a very happy thing to be able to leave the strong oppression of their parents.