Who doesn’t cherish their own feathers and spread rumors about themselves outside, no matter good or bad, in fact, everyone has some huge feelings in their hearts. After all, men have basically already shaped themselves as to what kind of image they are in front of everyone.
Well, in fact, I am not like this in private, but who believes this? Everyone is more willing to believe the rumors that are widely circulated outside. They are more willing to believe the facts that everyone knows by convention. As for the truth of the facts, it is
No one bothered to verify it.
Besides, making a name for oneself is not something that only one or two people can do. It is simply a customary thing in the circle of scholars. Of course, no one will take this matter seriously, nor will they regard it as a serious matter.
There is nothing bad about it.
After all, if you do this kind of thing and everyone does it, then something that was not very normal, or some abnormal thing will become a matter of course and become a common rule, then of course everyone will not take it seriously.
If you have any doubts about the matter, or doubts, go against it. Since it is a matter that is beneficial to everyone, it is best to
How could a family stand up against the reputation that a certain person has spread outside? If you can spread such a reputation for this kind of ringtone, then it is a reflection of a person's ability and your family's financial resources and other aspects.
Everyone wants reputation, so it depends on whether you have the ability to spread and maintain this good reputation.
Some people are even more pitiful. That is, they wanted to spread a good reputation at the beginning, but they did not expect that the reputation did not spread. Instead, they were caught. On the basis of having a certain good reputation, they also brought more to themselves.
Big stain, in this case everyone naturally
Of course, people will not listen to his so-called good reputation. Instead, because of his stains and the words that were spread before, he became the laughing stock of everyone and spread even wider. This
The whole thing was accomplished, and it was a matter of stealing the chicken but losing the rice.
This kind of thing does not exist, or it often happens. After all, even if a person wants to create a good reputation for himself, if he does not pay enough attention to details every day and is caught, then the good reputation will suddenly become a plus.
The contaminated black water is poured directly on your body and cannot be washed away no matter how hard you wash it.
And like Mr. Jia, it is not a very difficult thing to inherit good folk customs for yourself. Because of his identity as a powerful man, other scholars with low official positions or who have not entered the officialdom at all naturally dare not offend him.
In addition, the betrothal gifts from his own family are also very good, so naturally some people will spread the word about this good news.
Rumors that are beneficial to oneself are also something that can be easily obtained, and what is rare is that Canadians have paid great attention to themselves over the years. Every word, every action, and every move will not let anyone make any mistakes in their words and deeds.
Wrong. What's even more rare is that the whole family, whether young or old, is very united.
It can be said that the two members of A's family are united and work together to maintain the good image and good reputation of Mr. Jia outside. Each of them is very careful, for fear that they have missed something and it is not for Mr. Jia.
Comparison is a bad thing to add to your reputation.
The main thing here is that the parents of fake Renren are old and fake adults. It can be said that their biggest hope in this life is that Mr. Jia can get ahead. When they finally saw this wish, they were really hit in the head.
, when it was learned that even though Mr. Jia passed the Guangming exam, he did not
They may not be able to get an official position, and they may just run away like most scholars, leaving the provincial capital in despair to teach in a rural place. At that time, it can be said that the old couple felt that the sky was falling.
Generally, how happy they were before, how depressed they will be at that time.
Fortunately, there is always a road ahead. The most important thing is that their son is smart enough to break this bad situation quickly. When he walks out of a road leading to officialdom, then they
I am extremely proud in my heart. Look at others and you have nothing.
The only solution is to be empty-handed. When he returned to his ancestral home, Mr. Jia relied on his own ability to obtain an official position in the officialdom. No matter who the official position came from, I don't care whether the method is clever or not. Anyway, as long as the result is
Okay, the old couple are already happy from ear to ear.
At that time, the old couple thought that the rest of their lives would be spent singing happily and that they did not need to worry about anything. The old couple had successfully retired and they could just be frivolous. However, they did not expect that their son's path to heaven would indeed end in infancy.
Of course it is a pity for them, after all
I just gave birth to a child and didn't expect it. Which woman in the world doesn't have children, but this young lady's body is too strong to guarantee her life. She will kill her children directly, and he, his daughter-in-law, will leave.
After his death, the attitude of his parents' family also made the old couple very disappointed.
In fact, who wouldn’t feel chilled? When The Marriage was being screened, the old couple had expected that the parents from a wealthy family would welcome them. Even though their son’s family was originally a businessman, it was considered a family with a relatively low social status.
, but my son is excellent
, in front of such a smart, capable, handsome and unrestrained son, the old couple felt that they could still stand upright several times their age, but they made various preparations and even made up for the etiquette rules, but in the end they knew that the bride
I didn't get to see my in-laws even after I entered the house.
This is actually a very rude thing. Whether or not one family gets married is a matter for two families. Meeting the parents of both parties is simply a must before marriage. But the other party is so aloof and has no idea of even meeting them.
The couple felt very melancholy.
But they are not willing to show off and cause trouble for their son. After all, this matter is a great good thing for his son, and depending on the son's view of the in-law family, such simulated behavior does not make any sense.
It can be seen which aspect the son values more. Finally, the old couple looked at each other and sighed deeply. Alas, there is no other way. Everything is for the son. They can endure whatever they can, and they can do anything.
Forbearance, as long as they are good to their son, they can do it.