Gong Jian could only create opportunities so that other people in the village could see clearly the faces of his uncle's family instead of letting them make trouble in front of others.
Of course, if something like this happens once or twice, it doesn't prove anything. But if his uncle's family is so cooperative every time, I believe the people in the village will soon realize the true character of this family.
As for Gong Fu, Gong Jian only felt that this road might be further away.
Gong Jian also loves and protects his family members, and can even be said to be very protective of his shortcomings. For his younger brothers and sisters, he not only wants to protect them and raise them up, but also teaches them how to be an upright person.
He feels that this is how he cares for his family members. Asking one party to give blindly will only make the recipient feel that everything others do is deserved. On the contrary, he will no longer cherish what he has received.
Gong Jian never believed that the giver could stand on the moral high ground. Instead, he felt that the giver should bear a great responsibility. It must be because of him that the recipient grew up to be a deformed person.
But Gong Jian had to admit that this responsibility should mainly be borne by the head of the family.
In this family, it must be clear to everyone who has contributed and who has benefited. If he is not clear about it, he just thinks that he has leveled the bowl of water and treated everyone fairly.
Gong Jian can only say that what this parent does is really incompetent. He is a completely stupid parent. Then he will not get the respect of his family members or anyone.
And if the parent already knows the contribution and gain of everyone in the family, but he is unable to coordinate the relationship between them, or due to his own bias, one party is always in the position of giving, while the other party is always in the position of giving.
One party can always get something for nothing.
Gong Jian felt that what this patriarch did was not just stupid, but stupidly destroyed his own family. It seems that the person who always gives will naturally not live a happy life, and the person who always gets something for nothing will naturally not live a happy life.
It is impossible for a person to feel any gratitude. If he is not grateful, how can the person who gives be grateful to the big head of the family?
So, parents who do this will only end up being complained and disliked by everyone in the family.
Since Gong's father has been bedridden and unable to support the family, Gong Jian took on the position of head of family early and tried his best to fulfill the responsibilities of this position.
He knew that he had to shoulder the responsibility of supporting his family. Gong Jian did the same and tried every means, whether it was hunting in the back mountains in the early stage, selling recipes later, or thinking of some gadgets to sell in the town.
In short, he has done what he thinks is the basic job that every parent should do. That is to take good care of everyone in the family.
So the first day Gong Jian woke up, he asked his younger sister to find his second brother back from the landlord's house. After his family had some spare money, he went to find a famous doctor to treat his father.
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But at the same time, more importantly, he believes that what all parents should do is to educate everyone in the family to become self-reliant and self-reliant.
And his education started from his attitude towards his uncle's family. Their family was no longer like before, letting the uncle's family take and take away things. Only when a person can stand up for himself can he live a serious life.
So later on, it was impossible for Uncle Gong Jian's family to take any advantage from Gong Jian's family. The uncle's family even wanted to run to other people in the village and cry and complain that Gong Jian's family was unkind.
Of course Gong Jian knew that despite his uncle's family's unremitting efforts to smear him, the people in the village had a certain view on him as a member of the family.
It's not like Gong's father is bedridden, and he can't go out and walk in the village at all. In order to make a living for his family, Gong Jian often has to go out and interact with villagers and town people. They looked at him with strange eyes, Gong Jian
He is not blind, he can naturally see.
But he tried his best to do it and not pay attention to these rumors. Now, his family has become tougher, so the cries of his uncle's family can be regarded as true to a certain extent.
But for Gong Jian, he would rather have this result. He cannot let his uncle's family plunder at will like his previous family. At the very least, he guarantees that his family's life will get better.
But this attitude of the villagers still had an impact on other people in the family. My second brother Gong Yu would rather work hard at home than go to the village to communicate with other people, which was caused by these rumors.
Because of this, Gong Jian once again made a mark for his uncle's family. But fortunately, this opportunity allowed Gong Yu to get in touch with some families worth making friends with in the village. This allowed him to start his social activities in a relatively good way.
in the environment.
Gong Jian believes that his second brother will be able to master the ability to communicate with others. Is a person with self-esteem and self-confidence still afraid that he will not be able to make friends? Gong Jian has done all this in order to bring his second brother to the next year.
Send him to a private school in the county to study and prepare.
After seeing Gong Yu's performance today, he felt very satisfied. Gong Jian could also relax this time.
Gong Jian was still counting the rabbits in the backyard. Each of the fourteen ordinary families would give away eight rabbits, which equals one hundred and twelve rabbits. And there were still forty-eight rabbits left at home.
He planned to give twenty rabbits to the village chief's house and his eldest uncle's house. Of course, he was willing to give them to the village chief's house. And the reason why he gave so many rabbits to his eldest uncle's house was entirely to block the village.
The mouths of other people also blocked the mouths of my uncle's family.
Although he also knew that no matter how many rabbits he gave to his uncle, they would find them too few. But giving twenty rabbits is better than giving eight rabbits, which can make the uncle's family silent and persist longer.
That's what Gong Jian thinks. If he gives more rabbits, they can stay calm longer. He doesn't think that his uncle's house can still raise rabbits well. If he gives more rabbits, he hopes that these rabbits can survive at his uncle's house.
After the new year.
At that time, Gong Jian sent Gong Yu to a private school in the county, and then he also considered moving the whole family to the county.
Previously, Gong Jian had already bought back all the land he had sold at home. He even purchased more than ten acres of fertile farmland.
This time, he plans to move his family to the county, and simply rent the land to the villagers for farming. (To be continued)