Since this is the wish of his younger siblings, Gong Jian felt that as the eldest brother, he must try his best to satisfy their expectations.
So Gong Jian said: "You want to be good to others and let others accept your kindness. In fact, the only way is to perform well and make them feel at ease. However, this will definitely take a while.
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Gong Jian knew that Old Man Wang's family had been treated in this way, but in such adversity, they still insisted on staying together as a family, which showed that each of them had a strong mind. Such people would not open their hearts easily.
As servants, they may be able to stay at their master's house and work conscientiously and fulfill their duties as servants, but they must accept their family from their hearts. Just like what my sister said, let his family
It is really difficult to get along like a family.
As he said, it is better to say something than to do it to make people accept it. After all, no matter how good you say it, it is not as good as what you actually do. But this process will be longer.
But now that my younger brothers and sisters have grown up, and I want to get along well with those people, or even get along with them and become a family, then this long process is not suitable.
Who knows whether the Wang family will really be able to accept the kindness of their own family after such a long time?
And if it goes on for a long time, in their hearts, even if they have realized the good intentions of their master, they have completely fixed their status and identity on that role of servant. They cannot break it at all. By then, the role of their younger brothers and sisters
Expectations are also unattainable.
When they heard their eldest brother say that no matter what they say now, it is better for them to treat that family well, Gong Yu and Gong Yue were still full of confidence. After all, they are both kind and honest children. In their opinion,
, as long as you treat the other person kindly and compare your feelings with each other, sooner or later the other party will be able to realize the sincerity of the two of you towards them.
But when they heard the worries Gong Jian said later, the two couldn't help but become anxious again. If after treating them well for a long time, they were allowed to more firmly classify their identities as servants, then they
There was really nowhere to cry. They didn't want to just get a few loyal servants.
Gongyue was even more anxious. She said eagerly: "Brother, can you think of a solution? What should we do?"
In fact, the main reason why this matter has developed into this situation is because the Gong family is not used to enslaving others. In their hearts, family and friends are more reliable, trustworthy, and more trustworthy than servants.
It's comfortable and they get along more harmoniously. That's why the two of them are waiting so anxiously for the eldest brother to find a way.
Gong Jian scratched his head. He was also worried about this matter. He must know that his little sister and brother have such thoughts, which are really different from others.
Although it is not difficult for his own family to understand their thoughts, it is really difficult for a strange family to understand their thoughts. After thinking for a long time, he finally set his sights on Gong Yu.
on the body.
Seeing his eldest brother's gaze resting on him and not moving for a long time, Gong Yu knew that his eldest brother was thinking of a solution and thinking about himself. He quickly asked Gong Jian: "Brother, how can I help with this matter?"
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Gong Jian nodded. This boy was not honest enough. He knew what he meant by falling in love with him. So he said, "Yes, we also know from the descriptions of those people just now that Old Man Wang's family is honest."
It is difficult to impress such people with their own duties and persistence through words.
What they can recognize the most is our attitude towards them over a long period of time. But as I just thought, once this kind of people form a pattern in their thinking, it is probably more difficult to change. Therefore, it is subtle.
This way of impressing them is not feasible, so we have to rely on you."
Gong Yu was startled: "Me? Brother, are you kidding me? I don't have any good ideas? Brother, please stop joking."
The reason why he thought Gong Jian was joking was mainly because Gong Yu knew himself very well. He knew that he was a little too honest, too accepting, and lacked the ability to adapt.
From the perspective of reading by myself, it is already remarkable that I can grasp the meaning of the written words, but the eldest brother is different. He can know the other mysteries hidden inside through the superficial words.
At this point, Gong Yu felt that even if he practiced for another hundred years, he would not be able to reach the level of his elder brother. So when he heard that his elder brother actually put the opportunity to solve this matter on himself, how could Gong Yu possibly
Don't think it would be strange.
Not only Gong Yu, but also Gong Yue looked at Gong Jian in surprise, waiting for his further explanation. Neither of them felt that Gong Yu, an honest and amiable boy, could touch the guard of Old Man Wang and his family.
Gong Jian slowly explained to them: "People like Mr. Wang and his family want them to reach a consensus, understand what you said, and believe in your sincerity. So those who deal with them,
It should have qualities in common with them.”
With his words, Gong Yu and Gong Yue immediately understood what their eldest brother meant. Yes, only honest people can deal with honest people.
Gong Yu scratched his head in embarrassment. Why did he feel that his elder brother's words sounded like he was praising himself, but no matter how he heard them, they sounded like they were teasing him.
Gong Yue was even more rude. She was secretly covering her mouth and laughing: "Second brother, let's see how good you are tomorrow. Little sister, I'm optimistic about you."
Gong Yu, who was so confused by his little sister's laughter, looked at Gong Jian eagerly: "Brother, what should I do tomorrow? How can we make that family accept us?"
Gong Jian smiled and looked at the somewhat panicked second brother, and said, "You can't ask me what to do. If you ask me, that's not your way of doing things.
You don’t have to be too deliberate. As long as you chat with them according to your usual way of doing things. Talk to them honestly about your thoughts, your thoughts. I believe that the effect will be achieved, and it will be better than mine or younger.
If I go talk to them, it will be much better."
At the same time, he did not forget to remind Gong Yu, "Don't be too eager. There must be a process for everyone to accept things. Your role is actually to open a gap so that they can accept our opportunity, so you don't have to be too eager."