Gong Jian was educating his second brother that he should pay attention to his image in front of outsiders. You must know that there are still narrow-minded people regardless of whether they are scholars or not. His words made Gong Yu's
His expression suddenly shook.
He hurriedly agreed: "Brother, don't worry, I know. In the future, I will not directly express what is on my mind in front of outsiders."
This trip to the provincial capital was very fruitful for Gong Yu. It can be said that it made Gong Yu grow up a lot. The people he saw, the scenes he saw, and the world he saw became much richer.
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So much so that now, he has somewhat understood that when dealing with people, although he cannot be like those villains, he should at least not expose his true thoughts to others too much.
Of course, when facing his eldest brother and Zhao Rong, Gong Yu still relaxed. After all, he was his own people here, and his thoughts could still be expressed directly. Otherwise, it would be too tiring to keep pretending.
While the two brothers Gong Jian and Gong Yu were talking, Zhao Rong had been thinking about his problem beside him. He now understood a little bit. It seemed that the behavior of the scholar that the second brother just mentioned was the
This is the face of a scholar in real life. At this time, his mood couldn't help but feel a little depressed. The status of a scholar who was originally high in his heart suddenly collapsed.
He couldn't help but reflect on his life for more than ten years, and since his enlightenment, no one had ever told him what a scholar should look like. All the images of a scholar were his own imagination.
And today, it was indeed proven that what he had imagined all along was completely wrong. How could this not make him feel depressed and depressed for a while?
While Gong Jian was educating Gong Yu on his behavior, Zhao Rong listened to Gong Jian's earnest instructions. For a moment, his spirit recovered. Yes, scholars like Brother Gong also exist.
, it is not as the second brother said, all scholars are so hypocritical and cunning. Under the background of those people, scholars like Brother Gong appear even more admirable.
So soon, Zhao Rong cheered up again. At the same time, he also secretly thought in his heart that there are indeed many kinds of scholars. Just like his father, he did call himself a scholar. However, in his heart, he had always
It became clear that the father and the legendary uncle were two different kinds of scholars.
So he quickly accepted this theory. Maybe the scholars that the second brother said he looked down upon were just like his father. They were not very knowledgeable and could not get any honors.
After thinking about this clearly, Zhao Rong immediately cheered up and listened to Gong Jian's words. At the same time, he also firmly remembered Gong Jian's words in his heart.
No one had ever told him these principles of how to behave. After all, he was a little bully at home. No one would educate him, and no one was qualified to reprimand him.
What his father and mother talked to him the most was filial piety, which meant respecting the elders. No matter how unhappy he was, he could not refute the decisions of his elders.
So when Zhao Rong tried to remember what Gong Jian said, no matter how dissatisfied he was, he should not show it on the surface. At the same time, he felt that what Brother Gong said was so reasonable, and
Very practical.
After traveling with his second brother a few days ago, Zhao Rong also broadened his horizons. He also understood that outside, no one would give him any preferential treatment or blindly treat him just because he was the eldest young master of the Zhao family.
of concession.
In the vast world outside, he is just an extraordinary person. He must follow the common rules and principles of this society. And strangers will not treat you more favorably just because of whose young master you are.
Take a look. After all, in the eyes of many people, you may encounter these few times in your life, so there is not much overlap between the two. Why would people give you preferential treatment because of this unfounded relationship?
It can be said that those days, thanks to Gong Yu accompanying Zhao Rong, Gong Yu was always able to solve problems for him, which also made Zhao Rong learn a lot by his side. At least, he learned how to
When getting along with strangers, I learned how to deal with some small conflicts and learned some tricks to get more preferential treatment for myself.
He had never come into contact with these things before, and no one had even told him about them. This time outing, Zhao Rong had an eye-opening experience. At the same time, he secretly made a decision in his heart, and he must do his best in the future.
Get out of the house more. After all, when he is at home, he spends most of his time in the study. In fact, what he gets in the study is not proportional to the time he spends.
After all, it is indeed not easy for a person to read through those difficult books and learn some basic things. What's more, it is possible that his old gentleman will not have a positive effect.
At other times, the people he had the most contact with were the servants at home. Those servants mostly just obeyed his orders, and it was very difficult for him to express what he meant.
This also led to the fact that Zhao Rong had almost zero experience in dealing with people. That's why he made such a joke at the wonton stall.
At this time, he also understood that not all the food in this world was of the same standard as what he did at home, and the lives of people in this world were not like those in his home. People in this society are still
Divided into three, six, and five grades.
When he is at home, he can be at the top of the pyramid, but when he walks out of the house and comes to society, his status is just a little higher than those poor people.
Therefore, Zhao Rong listened carefully to what Gong Jian said, and hoped that Brother Gong could speak more, so that he could learn more about how to deal with others.
But of course Gong Jian didn't know what Zhao Rong was thinking. After educating his younger brother, he turned to Zhao Rong and said, "Little brother, if you still want to participate in the cultural gathering, I can take you there."
.After all, none of you have ever participated in this type of party."
Hearing Gong Jian's old story mentioned again, Gong Yu certainly didn't understand what his elder brother meant, but he also knew that there were some things that couldn't be said. At this time, he turned his head to the side unhappily and expressed himself