What really puzzles the salesman is the attitude of the wife of the Zhao family. It is said that Zhao Rong is his only son and her support in the future, so no matter what, she should attach great importance to her disciple.
After all, this is closely related and an important factor in her future life, but in fact it is just the opposite. Many servants have revealed that their head wife, the Sixth Miss, whom they value more, has been inadvertently asked by the shopkeeper.
The salesman once inquired about this Sixth Miss, and found out that it was indeed the only legitimate daughter of the head of the Zhao family. In other words, the Sixth Miss should be the sister of the same father and mother as Zhao Rong, but they have different fates. They both have the same mother, but
This mother was extremely partial and indifferent to her legitimate son.
Of course, this is what the salesman feels in his heart. On the surface, the wife of the Zhao family has not treated her, her only legitimate son, in any way. On the contrary, she presides over the inner garden and gives her son as much daily expenses as all the children.
The highest specification among them.
And for their only legitimate son, this lady was even more tolerant. She spared her legitimate son from having to wake up at dawn and dusk every day, and only asked her son to study hard, so he didn't need to worry about all other things.
This should sound like a mother's heart, but in the view of the salesman, most of these treatments are superficial. Giving Young Master Zhao Rong the highest possible food and clothing expenses is something that should be done in itself. After all, he is the head of the Zhao family.
The only flute, he was supposed to inherit the family business in the future.
Besides, the difference between concubines and concubines is huge in other big families, but only for the head of the Zhao family, the difference is only in the cost of food and clothing, which in itself is very tolerant to the concubines.
The fact that Zhao Rong was exempted from waking up in the morning and dusk and only asked him to concentrate on studying made the salesman feel that he did not want to see his legitimate son. But what mother would not want to see her son?
This is something that the salesman always finds difficult to understand whenever he thinks about it. Even if he is looking forward to his son's academic achievements, he cannot be unwilling to see his son for ten and a half days.
Anyway, since the shopkeeper entered the main courtyard of the Zhao family, in the past few days, he has never seen this young master Zhao Rong in the courtyard of the householder and his wife. It is not that the shopkeeper missed the time to greet Mr. Zhao Rong, he heard from the servants
We have already found out from there that this young master Zhao Rong rarely appears in the school or other places outside his small courtyard.
If the wife of the Zhao family is very indifferent to her children, then the salesman can understand it a little bit. But in fact, the wife of the Zhao family is so doting on her only daughter that she would love to go to heaven.
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The attitude of the wife of the housekeeper towards her daughter is that she holds it in her mouth for fear of melting, holds it on her head for fear of falling, and holds it in her hand for fear of not being able to see it. These can be said to be two extreme attitudes.
, how could the salesman not be surprised.
You know, even a girl from the Zhao family will not have much to do with the Zhao family after she gets married at the marriageable age. Unless she is the kind of girl from the Zhao family who has made up her mind not to marry, or simply wants to find a son-in-law,
He may still have a certain status in the Zhao family. But in fact, I have asked whether the Zhao family has this custom of leaving their daughters at home.
That being the case, what is the reason why this young lady from the Zhao family, who is sooner or later a member of this family, is especially cared for by the wife of the head of the Zhao family? She even thinks more about him than she does about his brother.
, hundreds of times more.
You must know that the education these generations of women have received since childhood is to obey their father before getting married, obey their husband after getting married, and after the death of their husband, they will naturally obey their sons. This traditional education.
But even the salesman himself knows how difficult it is for women in these big families to capture the hearts of their men after they get married. After all, there is only one man, but there are several to more than a dozen women in the backyard.
In this backyard where there is no smoke of gunpowder, the battle of life and death is no different. There is no difference in the real battlefield. If you are not careful, blood will flow into a river. So compared to the pampering of a man, he actually holds the heart of his son.
, is the more important thing. Even a grown man like the salesman has heard of this simple truth.
In fact, the housewife values her son more. In the final analysis, she cares about her own interests. The son is their life-saving talisman and the final trump card from birth. Later, when the son grows up, he will of course be a big tree that she can rely on.
The tree has grown. This situation also determines that the women in the backyard value their sons more.
This is not only a situation among the public, but also among ordinary people, sons are often more valued than daughters. Otherwise, most people prefer sons over daughters. Sons must inherit their own incense and assume their responsibilities.
They carry out their own bloodline and continue their mission. As for daughters, they often get older and prepare a dowry, and suddenly they become members of other people's families.
In such a big environment, the wife of the Zhao family was uncharacteristically different from everyone else. She did not value her son, but valued her daughter particularly. The salesman could not understand this.
In his opinion, no matter what, for her own benefit, the wife of the Zhao family should clear the way for her son and push away all the obstacles that block his progress. Even if the Zhao family does not want to see his son, the wife of the Zhao family should
The wife of the housekeeper should also create conditions for Young Master Zhao Rong to appear in front of her husband more often.
Relationships between people are gradually developed. How can a son who never appears in front of him be compared to a son who is filial to her knees? Any mother who considers her son cannot put herself in the care of her son.
The son is isolated from his father. If they can't even see each other, how can we talk about the deep love between father and son?
But this is what the wife of the Zhao family did. She spared her son from waking up in the morning and dusk. She claimed that she wanted to help her son concentrate on his studies. But in fact, she just cut off her son and had no contact with him.
An opportunity for the two heads of the Zhao family to cultivate their relationship.
Didn't the Zhao family's wife think of this? Looking at the way the Zhao family's wife handles housework and organizes the backyard, we can see that this woman is extremely smart and skillful. When the servants in the backyard mentioned that they were the wife of the family, they all said the same thing.
The admiration and admiration on her face. From this, it can be seen that the wife of the Zhao family is extremely qualified and trustworthy. (To be continued)