Everyone looked up and saw Xu Dacheng running in sweating profusely.
Zhou Wen was taken aback and quickly stood up and asked: "Dacheng, what happened? Where is the elder brother?"
Xu Dacheng has been working with his eldest brother recently on his marriage.
The main reason is that Xu Dacheng's girlfriend Pan Xiaoting's family is very hesitant and has not given a clear answer.
Pan Xiaoting was a young nurse Xu Dacheng met when he was recuperating in Shanghai last year. Zhou Wen also met her several times later. She was also very beautiful, and she was small and exquisite like a southern woman, but she was a little shy and didn't talk much.
Although Xu Dacheng sometimes has a weak head, he still has a pretty good eye for finding girlfriends.
Pan Xiaoting is reserved and shy, somewhat introverted and timidly shy.
Xu Dacheng is a fool, but he is carefree and has an unrestrained and impulsive personality. The key is that this kid is shameless all day long and has a temperament that he dares to do without fear, which is very complementary to Pan Xiaoting.
Although Zhou Wen had never been married in his previous life, he had seen and heard a lot and had his own understanding of married life.
Marriage is not love. When in love, if both parties have similar interests and personalities, there will certainly be a lot of common topics, as well as a lot of passion and joy in finding a soulmate.
However, life after marriage will eventually become dull and trivial. At this time, the complementarity of the two people's personalities is extremely important, and it is even related to the principle issue of whether the marriage between the two is harmonious and long-lasting.
Think about it, after a few years of marriage, the passion for love gradually fades, and both parties will consider very practical issues, such as children, daily family life, housework, interactions with parents, relatives and friends, various career pressures, etc.
These very trivial but real life factors that occur almost every day will continue to consume the energy and passion of every member of the family.
At this time, if two people have similar personalities, it means that they have similar views on many things. When conflicts arise, they use almost the same methods to resolve conflicts. Therefore, when one person is excited, the other person will also
Excitedly, when one person thinks that this is their bottom line and will never give in, the other person will also not give in.
How do you spend your day?
In Zhou Wen's previous life, he heard that one of his classmates and his wife had a cold war for a year because of a trivial matter that seemed insignificant to ordinary people.
Hehe, we have seen each other at home every day for a year, but we are strangers to each other. Thinking about it makes people shudder.
Although Zhou Wen supports his brothers in finding wives, many of the brothers in Dawangzhuang have been engaged since they were young, and it is hard for him to get involved. However, Zhang Xiaoping and Xu Dacheng are in free love, and they are looking for urban girls.
It’s up to Zhou Wen to help check this.
Fortunately, although Su Yaqin is a wealthy daughter, she is simple and cute, and has a cheerful and generous personality. She dares to love and hate, which is perfect for an introverted person like Zhang Xiaoping.
Xu Dacheng and Pan Xiaoting also have complementary personalities, and Zhou Wen is also very supportive.
However, although Xu Dacheng quickly captured the hearts of other girls because of his thick skin, good talk and boasting as an anti-Japanese hero. However, Pan Xiaoting came from an ordinary citizen family in Shanghai. Her family considered
things are more practical.
Pan Xiaoting's father is a primary school teacher, and her mother is a full-time housewife. She also has a younger brother at home, and her living standard is barely enough for food and clothing.
This is also the reason why Pan Xiaoting went to work in the hospital at a young age, because she had to supplement the family income and her brother's education.
Originally, if it were just an economic and life issue, in the eyes of our Second Young Master Xu, would that be a big deal?
Not to mention that Xu Dacheng's family is one of the richest families in Loufan County, Shanxi Province, but Xu Dacheng's dividends from the mercenary group in recent years can also improve the living standard of Pan Xiaoting's family by several levels.
Originally, the Pan family was basically able to accept Xu Dacheng. Of course, Xu Dacheng's family's wealth was only part of the reason. Although Pan's father was only a Chinese teacher in an elementary school, he still had the character of a literati of this era, and he did not care about this rich man.
Some of the young master’s dirty money.
But Pan's mother, who saves money for the whole family every day, feels that Xu Dacheng is a pretty good kid. He has a cheerful and generous personality, is kind and considerate to his daughter, and is a reliable and good young man.
Moreover, Pan Xiaoting's ten-year-old brother also likes this generous elder brother who likes to tell him stories.
The main reason is that Xu Dacheng is very thoughtful. Every time he goes to Pan Xiaoting's house, he has to bring some gifts to her family, and he also caters to everyone.
Father Pan likes books, so buy some books for him that he usually doesn’t want to buy but likes very much.
"Uncle, I passed by the bookstore today and happened to see a discount in the bookstore, so I bought a few books. They are not worth a lot of money, but I don't know if you like them?"
Look, when giving gifts, you have to take care of others' face. Do you think Pan's father can still be embarrassed to refuse?
Pan's mother was usually frugal in running the house and very good-looking. There were several times when Xu Dacheng was left to eat, all the fish and meat were on the table, but the quantity... haha, it was not enough for Xu Dacheng to pick up with one chopstick.
Therefore, whenever Xu Dacheng went to Pan Xiaoting's house, he would always bring large baskets of fresh ingredients, regardless of whether he would leave food or not.
"Auntie, look, these fish and crabs are all freshly caught, and the fishermen are in a hurry to get them, so the price is very cheap. My nephew is just lucky, and he just happened to catch them."
"Oh! How can you be so embarrassed? I've cost you money again, Xiao Xu. Don't do this next time." Even though he said this, looking at Pan's mother's expression of smiling so hard that she couldn't even see her eyes, she knew that this was the case.
I was so happy that I felt so happy.
"This young man is just sensible."
And Pan Xiaoting's younger brother was the one Xu Dacheng tried his best to win over. Various snacks were delivered in large and small packages, and he occasionally took Pan Xiaoting's younger brother to go shopping. When he came back, he not only had a mouth full of food, but also wore shiny new clothes.
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When Xu Dacheng saw that the Pan family was gradually beginning to accept him, he wanted to strike while the iron was hot and quickly notified his family to propose marriage.
So Xu Dacheng's eldest brother Xu Dali came to Shanghai to propose marriage on behalf of the Xu family.
Little did they know that when Xu Dali came to the door with a heavy betrothal gift, Pan's father, who had already relented, immediately rejected the marriage.
It turns out that the problem lies with Xu Dacheng, who loves to brag.
The younger brother of the Pan family knew that Xu Dacheng was a soldier, so he liked to listen to his war stories the most.
As a result, Xu Dacheng once boasted a little too much and was a little too specific under the admiring and envious eyes of Pan Xiaodi, but he was accidentally told by Pan's father who came home from get off work.