During dinner, Wang Bixia specifically told Li Yuhang to proceed steadily, not to be too radical, and to ask Li Chengdong for his opinions on business matters.
These are not the main ones. Wang Bixia focused on Li Yuhang's personal issues and asked him to start thinking about them now.
Li Yuhang's grandparents also agreed, asking him to talk to his girlfriend now. If the two parties get along, they can get married in a year and a half.
Li Yuhang said helplessly: "Mom, grandparents, I'm not yet nineteen years old. It's a little too early to talk about this now. Besides, the legal age in the country is that men can only get married when they are 22 years old?"
"Yuhang, since you are not studying now, you can start working on this aspect. Several of your junior high school classmates now have children, and one is even only one month older than you.
Now that the family has developed well, I have nothing to do except take care of the cafeteria. If you have children, I can help you take care of them."
Li Yuhang didn't expect that his family would start urging him to find a partner if he thought so, but now he has no such idea at all.
"Mom, you see, my career has just started. I don't have time to think about this. When my career develops in a few years, I will definitely find you a virtuous daughter-in-law."
Wang Bixia seemed to have something in mind. After Li Yuhang finished speaking, she immediately asked: "Yuhang, how are you and Yu Xin doing in the district during this time?"
Li Yuhang didn't know why Wang Bixia suddenly made a 180° turn and suddenly asked about Li Yuxin's situation, but he still talked about Li Yuxin.
"I'm not asking you how Yu Xin is at work, but how are you and her together?"
Li Yuhang suddenly felt something was wrong. Decades of experience in his previous life told him that Wang Bixia's questioning look was more like asking about her daughter-in-law's performance.
He immediately said: "Mom, what are you thinking about? Yu Xin, Yu Dan and I have been playing together since childhood. I have always treated her as a younger sister, and she will not turn eighteen until three months later.
How could you have such thoughts?"
Wang Bixia ignored Li Yuhang's excuses. She understood Li Yuxin's thoughts, but her son was busy with his career every day and did not understand his thoughts at all.
She said loudly: "Li Yuhang, don't use your age as an excuse. You are only over 18 years old this year, and I will not turn 39 in half a year. You can do the math for yourself. Is Yuxin considered young now?"
Moreover, you silly boy treats Yu Xin as a younger sister. Don’t you think about it, if Yu Xin had no idea, wouldn’t she need to take care of you so much in the district?
We know that your age is different now, but Yu Xin and you are not in the fifth server, and there is no such thing as incest marriage. Your grandparents and I both approve of this child very much. You better give me some attention, and we will do it during the Chinese New Year.
Find a matchmaker and settle your marriage first."
Li Yuhang felt speechless. In the eyes of Wang Bixia, Li Cailiang, and Wu Xiuzhen, was he so incompetent that even his wife needed them to take care of the arrangements?
To say that Li Yuxin was really good to him, during the more than a month in the district, Li Yuxin prepared breakfast and dinner for him, Li Yuxin did the cleaning of his residence, and sometimes Li Yuxin washed his clothes for him.
If there were no worries about his previous life, he would not object to being with Li Yuxin.
It's just that whenever he remembers his wife, who has been with him for more than ten years, he feels a little unwilling in his heart. Maybe this is because he is not satisfied.
Especially after he had enough capital in this life, the possessive desire in his heart became even stronger. He did not want his wife from his previous life to lie in the arms of someone else in this life.
But at this time, he calmed down and thought about Li Yuxin. If Li Yuxin suddenly married someone else one day, Li Yuhang felt that deep down he would be too willing, which made him feel a little panicked.
Fortunately, he is still young and does not need to face these problems immediately. When the time comes, he will think of a solution. There will be a road for cars to reach the mountain and for boats to reach the bridge.
Li Yuhang responded: "Mom, the times now are different from your time. Yuxin and I are still young. Even if we both have that intention, we still need to interact with each other for a while to get along, otherwise there will be some conflicts between the two parties.
, when they are all in the same village, both families will lose face."
Wang Bixia and the other three all showed satisfied smiles after hearing Li Yuhang's response. They did not say that they wanted Li Yuhang to get married immediately, as long as he was willing to try to develop in this direction with Li Yuxin.
They have watched Li Yuxin grow up and know Li Yuxin quite well. They also want Li Yuxin to be Li Yuhang's wife, so that they can worry less about Li Yuhang in the future.
They believe that Li Yuhang's industry will become bigger and bigger in the future, which requires a virtuous and sensible girl to be Li Yuhang's virtuous wife, so that the family can be peaceful.
If they pick up a girl who is selfish and only cares about her own feelings, she will definitely be upset and even affect Li Yuhang's career. They don't want such a girl to become Li Yuhang's wife.
Wang Bixia warned: "Yuhang, you don't want Yuxin to do everything for you, especially when a girl has so many days every month, you should pay more attention to her, I can tell you now, Yuxin is me and you
As agreed with your father and your grandparents, if you make Yu Xin suffer, you will suffer the consequences."
Li Yuhang really didn't expect that Li Yuxin had done the work for his family so early. Look at this attitude. If she came to file a complaint, she would probably be scolded, and it would probably last for several hours.
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Of course, it is Li Yuxin who has a very good appearance, and is very filial and sensible, so she can be recognized by Wang Bixia and others, otherwise Wang Bixia will definitely not let Li Yuhang find a rural girl who has graduated from junior high school as his wife.
In this era, urbanites are the envy of all rural people, and many rural people try their best to become urbanites.
Unlike a few decades later, when rural hukou was very popular, many people were unwilling to convert their rural hukou to urban hukou. On the contrary, many urban hukou wanted to convert their urban hukou to rural hukou.
"Mom, I am your son, and Yu Xin is not your daughter-in-law yet. If you just protect her like this, what will happen in the future?"
"Li Yuhang, don't say this to me with a playful smile. Yu Xin's personality is too good, and he usually won't say anything about his grievances. On the contrary, it's your personality. I don't know yet. You'd better control your temper.
Having a girl like Yu Xin who treats you with all her heart is a blessing you have accumulated over many lifetimes. If you don't cherish her, I won't teach you a lesson."
Li Cailiang also spoke up: "Girl Yu Xin can endure hardships and is diligent and eager to learn. You must cherish her. Although some women outside are good, there is no one who knows the basics like Yu Xin.
Even though we are advocating freedom of marriage now, we cannot force you to marry Yu Xin.
But if you look at your grandma and me, and then look at your parents, we were introduced by a matchmaker, and we are not together for life.
It is difficult to draw a dragon or a tiger, but it is difficult to know the person and face but not the heart.
Many people's personalities cannot be seen in just one or two years. If your career is developing rapidly now, there will definitely be many girls around you in the future, and their appearance will definitely not be bad.
But it is difficult to see clearly whether they are sincere to you or to money.
On the contrary, it is Yu Xin. We have watched him grow up and know her character very well. At least when it comes to dealing with people and family, Yu Xin does a very good job, is filial, and is very thrifty. He will not waste money just because he has money.
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When we say so much today, we also hope that you can think carefully about it. With a girl like Yuxin treating you so sincerely, you must seize the opportunity, otherwise it will be too late when you regret it in the future."
Listening to Li Cailiang's words and recalling his time with Li Yuxin, Li Yuhang fell into warm memories.
Every morning Li Yuxin would knock on his bedroom door and ask him to get up, wash up and eat.
Every day after get off work, dinner would be prepared for him and waiting for him to eat.
When he goes out to socialize, he always picks him up and takes him back to his residence when he leaves.
At this time, he realized that he had overlooked too many things. Many times before, he just didn't want to think about it. He had already made it a habit for Li Yuxin to prepare breakfast and dinner for him.
At this time, Li Yuhang was in a state of confusion. The memories of his two lives were so intertwined that he even forgot to respond to what Li Cailiang had just said.