Chapter 1,217 It’s not just Alang who is sad, but also that fancy girl Bobo
"Alang's Story" is a literary film, but this literary film has caused quite a stir.
All controversies have topics.
"Alang's Story" is of course also controversial.
In fact, the controversy is not small.
Although this point avoids many poisonous points in the plot, and although Chen Weijie's personal charm adds a lot of color to the character, the male protagonist A Lang is indeed a scumbag. This is irrefutable.
Moreover, the era in which "Alang's Story" appeared in this world is different from the era in which this film appeared in the past.
For many male film critics in "A Lang's Story", the focus is on the character of A Lang.
Some say he is a model for men, others say he is a representative of a prodigal son who cannot turn back, his growth, etc., etc.
But for female film critics, their focus is obviously different.
The famous female film critic Liu Fang specially prepared a review to interpret this film from a female perspective.
It can be said that the status of women in this era is completely different from that in the 1980s and 1990s.
No matter how much "A Lang's Story" is said, it seems that Bobo is the heroine, but it is still a man's drama. Otherwise, the title of the movie would not be "A Lang's Story" but "A Lang and Bobo"
"The Story".
Back to business.
This female film critic has always been known for her unique perspective. In this world where male movies are the mainstream, she is always able to observe and criticize movies from a female perspective.
This time is no exception.
"There are many movie reviews on the Internet about "Alang's Story" that talk about a boy's growth history, or a man's heroic plot, or the prodigal's 360° stunts. I'm sorry, as a woman, I really can't bear to listen.
What is the story of the prodigal son? What are you doing to fulfill the legend of the prodigal son? Are you willing to turn into a living memorial arch for an infatuated goddess? Or what is the bloody story? There are always bad boys who cut through our youth like a blade!
I don’t understand why so many people only pay attention to the male protagonist A Lang but ignore the female protagonist Bobo?
It’s true that Alang’s ending as a prodigal son is tragic, but shouldn’t Bobo be the more tragic one?
To be honest, I have always been anti-mainstream when it comes to the aesthetics of the opposite sex, and I don’t like any mainstream good men - such as Chen Weijie, because Chen Tianwang has a fake smile on his face, but at first glance he is full of bitterness. This is a hidden bitterness.
He is a Phoenix male idol. Therefore, any man of the opposite sex who regards him as an idol around me will be simply and crudely classified by me as a boring man.
I have never been able to get his handsomeness, and I feel that in the face of such male chauvinism, no matter what kind of girl she is, she will become a sad symbol - the woman that the eldest brother loved, tut tut tut, she cried and cried from the beginning to the end when she looked at the appearance.
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However, as I get older, I start to get all kinds of good things from these mainstream handsome men.
"A Lang's Story", when it is difficult to hide his belly, half of his hair is gray after shaving it short, and he is unable to hide his middle-aged fatigue, he is even afraid of crying and can only hide his face and cry quietly, an old handsome guy who is full of helplessness and compromise with life.
When Chen Weijie acted so handsome and awkward, I suddenly understood why Chen Weijie was once the dream man of thousands of girls.
Many male compatriots believe that what really impresses girls is that they are special men. It is best to be like a spiritual father, always strong, like a big tree with strong roots, only then can he attract countless girls. To be honest, that level of aesthetics can only
It’s just the kind of beautiful girl who hopes to find a man to support her and live a life of love. What really impresses a girl who has a soul equal to that of a man is a little timidity outside of the perfect lover persona, such as when she is in her 20s.
, we will accidentally see the cool and awesome school girl, but also childishly secretly act cool or can't help but burst into tears. Really strong girls will like a person of the opposite sex because of their potential motherhood. Unfortunately,
There are too many stupid straight men who can't look away. Fortunately, there are a huge number of humans on this planet, and there are always all kinds of stupid and cute soft girls to match them.
In fact, movies like "A Lang's Story" are not my cup of tea, but after watching it carefully, I understand that this is indeed a very different movie, but what is still difficult to understand is that the focus of everyone's attention seems to be
It has always been about Alang, but Bobo has never been seriously mentioned.
In "A Lang's Story", what made me break down and cry was that the daughter of a rich family was kicked out. She hugged her head and cried at the door of her house. Her little lover A Lang said, don't cry, Bobo, let's go. At this moment, as A Lang, he
In fact, it doesn’t matter. I think it’s better this way. I can sleep with Bobo openly and openly. It’s very sad. This is the man who makes us sleepless at night, so entangled that we can’t eat, and who sacrifices his future to love. They will always only
First of all, thinking about themselves, it is difficult for them to see the sadness of a woman giving up her family for love, because if the identities were reversed, how many men would fight against their families for a woman?
Looking at the current conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, we can see that the world is not worth it, and shallow creatures like men are even less worth it. Even in such a scene, if the male protagonist was kicked out of the house because of the woman, the perfect female protagonist would probably kneel down immediately
, doing all kinds of things on oneself, hoping to help this person in his heart return to his family. Unfortunately, too many film and television works are directed by stupid straight men. They have never really seen a woman, a woman's true soul and thoughts.
The second thing that made me sad was that the pregnant Bobo went to find Alang. When he went to deliver the meal, he saw the child's father making out with a girl, so he threw the lunch box away, went home and made a fuss about leaving, and then the man came back and was lazing around.
After a few words of coaxing, he took action. Please pay attention to what Alang said at that time, "I make money to support my family, but you still dare to hit me."
See, this is the truth about the love a man can give. Although domestic violence is only a small probability event, no matter how gentleman or perfect man is, there is almost no one who is not proud of making money to support the family. They have never seen a woman
What kind of life has been given up to have children, and how much labor has a woman put in to maintain a warm home. So I always advise my female colleagues in the real world to go out and make money, because no matter how difficult it is, at least
When the man you love, the father of your child, says something like "I make money," you can straighten your back and say, "I can support myself." When he no longer cherishes your love and cares about your family, you can
Leave in style and take our beloved apple-faced angel with you to live a decent life together.
This chapter is not over yet, please click on the next page to continue reading! Then there is the long-awaited reunion between Alang and his ex-wife Bobo, who was let down by his love-hearted domestic violence. All he thinks about is getting back together. Therefore, he has no sense of self-blame to face Bobo in front of him.
In front of Bobo's fiancé, a decent gentleman, he directly told Bobo that he and Bobo had a marriage history, and that Bozai is Bobo's biological son. Do you see, this is a man's love, first of all, considering the possession of more females left from primitive society
By nature, few men would think that their spouse is first and foremost an independent person. What they hide behind their sweet words and domineering pampering is actually their own possessive heart that they cannot bear to consider carefully - women are their own private property.
property.
So, I'm thinking about how a silly girl with deep roots and a heart full of little feet can fall in love with a prodigal son and only love bad boys. If she just enjoys beauty purely like a man hunting for beauty, if this can be considered love, I
I would rather castrate myself mentally and become an unintentional scumbag.
Therefore, although the ending of "Alang's Story" is tear-jerking, it is undoubtedly fatal. Because the director of this movie is sadly a male director, so he hopes to create a tragic figure of a stranger (silly) hero (cross), and the awakening female audience
We, unable to accept the grown-up calm Bobo, went back to the old ways, gave up for the apple-faced angel, gave up the fiancé who had the same views as ourselves, and went to find Alang, a rough man who thought that beating his wife was nothing.
Moreover, as a middle-aged person, I think about it horribly. The reason why Alang turned back as a prodigal son is because life is too hard. He is raising a child alone, has no money and no time to do anything. With Bobo’s financial blessing, this
Men will sleep with all kinds of passers-by and women will not run away. So, no matter if they die, the old friend in tears will at least never be disillusioned, right?"
Liu Fang's film reviews have received high recognition from female audiences. After all, this is the most controversial aspect of the film.
Alang has never been a good man, and Bobo has always been the one who was hurt.
From the beginning, to the middle, and finally to the end, Alang chose to use his life to prove his repentance. Isn’t it actually another injury to Bobo?
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Of course, there are also many people who don't like Liu Fang's extreme behavior.
Soon some film critics used film reviews to refute Liu Fang's views.
“I saw this review by chance and I felt unhappy.
From a female perspective, it is understandable for you to criticize Alang for domestic violence and cheating. However, I cannot agree with Alang regarding Bobo as his private property.
There is a long-standing saying about two people meeting each other, which is about people and time, about meeting the right person at the wrong time or the wrong person at the right time, and so on. It sounds like the situation is complicated and changeable.
, but in the end it is very simple. The so-called time is nothing more than marriage or not; the so-called person is nothing but love or not.
First, let’s take a look at the pairing of Alang and Bobo. When Alang and Bobo met, both of them were unmarried. They should be attracted to and in love with each other. So there’s nothing wrong with this, right?
You said that Alang doesn't care, but it's also just your imagination!
If he doesn't love, how can he feel guilty?
If he didn't love, how could he make that choice in the end?
It is impossible to say that if Bobo's economic conditions support him, this would not exist, because Alang has never been that kind of person from beginning to end.
When he is with Bobo, you can say that he has a prodigal mentality, you can say a thousand words, but please remember, this has nothing to do with how much money Bobo's family has, or whether Bobo has money!
Even if they meet again ten years later, Alang has never thought about this.
So don't insult it all with money.
Let’s talk about Alang’s death. The so-called stranger hero is also untenable. Can Alang not die?
I think even the director can't imagine that a down-and-out libertine and a wealthy and beautiful lady from a well-known family can reunite and start a family and be happy...
So the so-called right and wrong are not only related to time and love. The power of the world is always stronger.
Alang's death was right, maybe it was the only right thing he could do.
Of course, it is precisely because of this that people who break through the so-called worldly forces and come together for love are always touching. What is touching is not that they can break through the worldly forces, but that they can be together - coordinating the differences between the two.
The gap between the two is by no means an easy thing. It may require the two of them to make some compromises, or at least one of them has to change. But at this time, is she/he still the same?
In "A Lang's Story", A Lang is a prodigal son, and the prodigal son will not be able to exchange for gold, but the prodigal son did not look back, but Bobo did not look back.
When young, it is easy for a woman to fall in love with a prodigal son. Because the prodigal son is fearless, unencumbered by the world, dares to love and hate, is handsome and humorous, free and cute.
Compared with the prodigal, most of us are just mediocre people in the world. We are submissive, we are easy to compromise, we are selfish, and in the end our lives are the same, repeating the same things every day, and only living one day a year.
What is sad is that such a life is actually defined as a happy life by the world.
If you make a mistake in a computer game, you can go back. Can you go back if you make a mistake?
Alang worked as a worker on a construction site. When he met Bobo ten years later, his love for her was still there. At this time, he had lost his way, but Bobo did not hate him and would never love him again.
A prodigal son may not be able to change his fortune, and a broken mirror cannot be reunited.
Going back to the male and female protagonists, the so-called right and wrong, as both parties involved, it seems that we should put the responsibility entirely on Alang. In fact, everyone is the same, because everything is caused by him.
However, upon careful analysis, we should see that both of them acted improperly.
Just like ten years later, when both of them realized the mistakes they made when they were young, they each regretted their mistakes.
Bobo said, "I was young and ignorant at that time."
Alang said, "People really can't do wrong things. If they do something wrong, they will never be able to turn over."
Bobo's confession is that he regrets his blind love impulse when he was young. Because of the momentary impulse, he destroyed his beautiful youth and ruined his future happiness. Girls are always full of fantasies about love, imagining love as an incomparable dream.
Day after day, they are immersed in the phantoms created by their own minds. It is precisely because of this fantasy of love that they do not use their brains to think about problems, but follow their feelings. But sadly, practice often proves that most feelings are inaccurate.
Alang's confession is more about self-blame for his current miserable situation, because he was a wild man when he was young, which caused him to lose his beloved woman and served two years in prison. After he was released from prison, he had to take care of his children while working hard to make money to support his family.
, his youth was wasted day by day in this trivial daily life.
Alang and Bobo could have enjoyed their youth beautifully, but due to their youthful ignorance and wildness, their youth was destroyed, and their youth was far away from them. Men should bear more responsibilities in love, because
The tragedy of love often hurts women more, and women are not without any responsibility. At least they should learn to protect themselves and cherish themselves. We always say that a mature man must know how to be self-disciplined, and a mature woman must know how to love herself.
You have to go through it before you can become mature. This is true for men, and it is also true for women. Of course, it is precisely because of immaturity that there are so many stories happening."
