Chapter 1,472 Grandma who can’t speak spoke out all her love for me
"Grandma's Home" or "Love Home" has begun to be released on a large scale.
For a movie like this, you can't expect it to be as big a hit as those popcorn movies at the beginning.
This is a low-cost feature film. Even if it is directed by Li Yi, it is still a low-cost film.
This kind of movie is not a commercial blockbuster, so although the theater chain gave Li Yi a lot of money in terms of film schedules because of his past performance, the National Day schedule is a popular period after all, so it doesn't actually have much advantage in the film schedule.
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But the result was beyond Li Yi's expectation, or it was beyond the expectation of many people.
Although Li Yi is the big devil in the film industry and his movies can often create miracles, after analyzing many movies of the same period, we feel that this time Li Yi's movie is not a very "popular" movie.
Even a little lukewarm.
It can be said that the movie does not have too many ups and downs in the plot. The whole movie is as bland as water.
This kind of movie may receive a lot of praise and get a good reputation, but it's hard to say how much success it can make at the box office.
But sometimes it proves the saying, the more people lack something, the more they want it.
What do people lack now?
The pace of life is getting faster and faster, and the distance between people and relatives is getting farther and farther.
For this reason, many people were deeply touched after watching this movie.
"I just watched this drama last night, and it seemed like it had magic power. It was obviously very straightforward, and the plot was obviously bland, but I cried like a mess.
So, tears and sobs accompanied me until the moment when the subtitles appeared.
In fact, I know that I cried not because the movie was so touching, but because I missed my grandma.
Therefore, Director Gou really understands the audience. He understands what we people are missing, so he shows us whatever he wants. How can we prevent people from being sensationalized and crying?
Some people say that Li Yi's movie is not sensational, but what I want to say is that when the movie is written "dedicated to grandmothers all over the world", it is already the most sensational.
Because this kind of sensationalism is the real sensationalism. He just uses such a story to make us think of that person, that figure, ourselves, and many, many more!
When I returned to the movie, I was very moved. It seemed like I hadn’t seen such a touching movie in a long time.
At first I told my friends that I would definitely not be able to watch it, because I couldn’t bear to watch it, knowing that I would cry in shame, but I still wanted to see my grandson understand my grandma’s sacrifice without complaint and feel deeply ashamed, so
I held back tears and persisted until the end.
Director Li Yi's casting skills are really impressive. If the role of the grandmother was a healthy and somewhat like the nagging and mean-faced old lady in traditional stick dramas, it probably wouldn't have such a tear-jerking effect.
But her body is always curled up, and her figure is not rugged. It is precisely because of her figure that it highlights her friendly image. Her hair, which is white to a bit silvery, is scattered in the dusty air of the countryside.
The slightly misty eyes indicate that he has experienced a lot and seen through a lot, or is he a simple and uncontaminated mood that has never been through much?
I prefer the latter perspective of thinking. In that small countryside without many material temptations, my mother-in-law spent more than eighty years from birth to old age, facing the same environment and the same kind of people. In her world
, may not be too troublesome, but it is more precious. I am not old yet, so I cannot fully understand the old lady's mood. Faced with such a rude little grandson, she obviously did not think too much, even if she was called an "idiot"
, she doesn’t think it’s an insult, because in her world, there is only family affection and relatives. I really like such a mother-in-law from the bottom of my heart, not because of her pitiful appearance, nor because of sympathy, nor because I feel sorry for her.
Yes, I just like her, I like her affection, and perhaps the most important thing is that she reminds me of my grandmother.
From the initial rejection to the later heartache, isn't this actually the mental journey of many of our grandchildren when they face their grandmothers in the countryside?
One can't help but think about how many children of this generation, who are used to living in big cities, are willing to come to the countryside where grandma lives. There are no delicious snacks, no fun toys, and no interesting things.
Amusement parks, of course, cannot receive exciting TV programs.
The grandson Xiaowu in the movie is like most children who have gone through the same experience, and the game console naturally became a life-extending treasure. The grandmother who lives alone has worked in the countryside all her life, and her whole body has been tanned, and her skin has lost its elasticity and is full of wrinkles.
Because he has never met him before, and he has to live with his grandmother alone for a while, this inevitably makes him a little rejected and scared. Moreover, his grandmother cannot hear or speak. She will only use sign language to express "" when she feels that he is not being satisfied.
sorry".
I saw some comments saying that grandson Xiaowu is too hateful, but in fact, I don't think so.
Everyone is talking about grandma, and what comes to mind is grandma, but they talk too much about grandma and ignore the little grandson. His performance at that time was also very good. I never felt that he was hateful from the beginning to the end, because there are always people around us.
Are there many such children?
Looking back, not to mention the naughty kids now, even when we were children, we were so arrogant. I even think that it is impossible for many urban children to be like little boys and finally know how to teach their grandmothers to write and write to their grandmothers.
Covering the quilt, I even think that it is just the director's wishful thinking to beautify the world of this little bully.
Many of our children living in cities have their grandparents take care of them when their parents have to work. But when the little bullies get angry, they are really much scarier than Xiao Wu in the movie.
This chapter is not over yet, please click on the next page to continue reading! There are several points in the movie, such as food that is regarded as a treasure in the eyes of grandma, but Xiao Wu does not take it seriously, ruthlessly rejects grandma's kindness, and only wants to play game consoles all day long.
, after the battery of the game console ran out, his game addiction broke out and he was restless. He yelled at his grandma and asked to buy batteries, but grandma had no money and could not help Xiang Yu, so he rummaged around in grandma's house and took advantage of the situation.
Grandma stole her hairpin while she was sleeping and wanted to sell it to buy batteries.
This scene made some people think that this child was too ignorant.
But we ask ourselves, is Xiao Wu's performance really out of touch with reality?
Even when we were children, didn’t we ever do similar things?
At that time, weren't we all centered on ourselves? Many people say that we are relatives across generations, so we dote on them.
But we ourselves have enjoyed that kind of pampering. Many times we did something wrong and got into trouble. When our parents wanted to beat us, weren't our grandparents and grandparents who came out to protect us?
They didn't think as much as our parents did. I remember my mother once complained about my grandmother, saying that she always doted on me and never allowed me to be scolded or beaten. How could she take care of the child?
I also said that I was beaten by my grandmother a lot when I was a child, but my grandmother hugged me and told my mother that she didn’t know when she would leave. She wouldn’t be able to see what happens to the child in the future, but at least now, she hopes that the child will be well.
Good!
I was ignorant at the time and didn't understand it at all, but now that I think about it, I can't help but burst into tears.
The unbearable weight of life is the love from his grandmother. This point cannot be refuted. Some people may say that it is Xiao Wu’s mother’s fault that Xiao Wu needs to go to the countryside to live with his very poor grandmother who lives alone. Maybe this is not wrong.
, but this also reflects that grandma’s love is for her daughter and grandson, and it is indulgence regardless of gender. When placed on anyone, the weight of this love is unbearable for life.
Because parents love their children, they love deeply and responsibly, but grandma’s love for us has no purpose!
I remember seeing in the movie, Xiao Wu told his grandma that he wanted to eat fried chicken, but grandma had never seen that kind of thing before, so she took the family's specialties to the market to sell them, and then bought a chicken in the rain and brought it back to Xiang Yu.
When making stewed chicken and giving him the most delicious chicken legs, he was very angry because it was not fried chicken. He angrily pushed his rice bowl directly to the ground and scattered the rice all over the floor. Grandma reluctantly picked up the rice bowl and because of her frugality,
Put the rice scattered on the floor into your mouth one by one and eat it.
I couldn't help but cry again, because this scene actually happened countless times when we were children.
This is the case even now. I remember that outside the school, a grandma picked up her grandson and wanted to eat the pancakes sold at the roadside stall. However, after buying it, he felt that it did not taste good after taking two bites and wanted to throw it away.
, grandma quickly picked it up and ate it herself.
This made Sun Tzu feel very embarrassed. In fact, all of this had been happening all the time.
It's just that most of the young children don't understand that the older generation, they don't have the same worries about food and clothing as we do now, and the frugality of their generation is engraved in their bones.
Another example is that because Xiao Wu saw the little girl he liked, he was afraid that he would be embarrassed if he took the bus with his grandma, so he asked his grandma to take the next bus.
Let alone children, isn’t there less coverage in the news? Many parents go to visit their children who are in college, but as a result, the children are afraid of being embarrassed and don’t even dare to recognize them!
This is true for adult children who have already received education, let alone children?
Grandma took Xiao Wu to the market to sell pumpkins and eat, but she only ordered one portion for Xiao Wu and used the remaining money to buy him shoes.
She herself is wearing a pair of worn-out shoes. They always want to give the best they have, but they never think of asking for anything in return.
In the past, I actually disliked, even hated those long shots that were shot to the end without deletion, because they always made people feel very pretentious and boring.
But at the end of the film, the scene of grandma walking home with a cane on the steep stone road at the foot of the mountain was shown using a long lens commonly used by film school students. I used to dislike this so-called laziness the most.
mode, but when I saw that scene, I finally understood that the profound meaning of many films, and our emotions, are the important hub that drives the emotional spin of all films.
I just remember that I hoped that the scene would not stop, just like the love we give to our loved ones cannot stop. It was in that scene that I learned how precious it is to bring love home and hide it deep in your heart.
So Director Dog really understands us. The movie seems to have a dull plot, but as the story progresses its inner language can penetrate deep into the heart of each of us.
Because each of us has feelings, and when the film is based on trivial details in life, it will undoubtedly allow each of us to deeply invest our feelings in the film, and let our feelings develop as the film develops.
It develops based on the emotional development in the film.
What’s more, we who watch movies have grown up, and our grandmothers have also grown old.
Therefore, when the grandmother in the movie was talking to the friend who owned a grocery store, another old man said "see you again before you die", which moved me very much. This is the great wisdom of life. The grandmother in the movie took
My mother brought me supplements to visit another old man who lived alone. The old man also lamented, I'm fine, I'm just old.
Their indifference to material life and respect for life are something we must learn from throughout our lives.
I am very happy and sad at the same time. What is gratifying is that Xiao Wu in the movie finally feels the love of his grandmother.
Sadly, I didn’t realize it until this moment.
In fact, after watching the movie, my mind went blank. I wanted to go home inexplicably, but I knew this was impossible. Maybe the world is like this. We grow up and gain youth, but at the same time we also
Losing them is a sad pattern.
The title of the movie is "Love·Going Home", but I prefer the other title "Grandma's Home", which is the place that carries our warmest love. That place may not be big, and it may not have a big TV
, there is no computer, it is even very simple, but it is our warmest grandma’s home!”
Just like the film review above, in fact, many people are moved not by this "other people's stories", but by their own experiences.
They were not moved by the rickety figure, but by the figure in their own memories or minds.
One film critic summed it up: “
The movie uses the most plain story, but easily makes us cry. Because the movie always reminds us of how long it has been since we visited the elderly at home, and they always love us without regrets.
, they raised us, but we don’t have time to accompany them until we grow old. Sometimes we even find them annoying because of their age, and they don’t understand our lives at all. But we don’t know that they gave us all their best time. I hope
We can cherish the time when the elderly are alive, work hard to accompany them, don't leave any regrets to ourselves, and be filial to the elderly."
