Chapter 1592 If you take the initiative, then we will have a story.
Different people have completely different feelings about watching movies.
Some people like the love in movies, and some people hate the love in movies.
Some people like the weird style of the movie, while others hate it.
Some people love a unique girl like Emily, and some people hate such a girl.
But no matter what, when a movie is made, it is destined that some people will be happy and some will be sad.
Some people like it and some people hate it.
A well-known film critic wrote this when interpreting it: "I believe most people have experienced loneliness.
Lonely people always say:
Sorry, I'm not used to getting along with others.
It doesn't matter, I think it's fine to stay by myself.
Or we complain, why no one understands us.
We always feel that it is the world that makes us lonely.
But have you ever thought that you actually chose to be lonely?
As Emily said in the book she was reading in the car: "If it weren't for you, who would be able to share the beautiful scenery with you?"
This sentence also expresses everyone's feelings. In fact, no one wants to be lonely. They all want someone to love and understand themselves.
I wonder how everyone feels when they see the movie poster?
How many people are like me, who are frightened by the heroine's pale face, bright red clothes, and slightly weird smile, and feel inexplicably like a ghost movie.
But once you start playing, things immediately change.
I am used to watching Hollywood blockbusters. When faced with such a movie with national characteristics and exotic customs, the first word that comes to my mind is: stunning.
Saturated colors, calm shots, wonderful narration tone, and childlike and naughty scenes.
The famous scene ahead: Emily puts raspberries on ten fingers and eats them one by one.
It’s like when I was a kid, I ate crispy angles, although hers looked more artistic.
This movie has such a skill. The narrative is very slow, and the shots are very trivial and steady. They are all small things in daily life, but it does not make people feel protracted and boring at all. Instead, it has a very healing and warm feeling.
Emily loves beauty, this name is so good.
The heroine is quirky, has thick eyebrows and big eyes, and has a strong French style.
Emily is an angel. She seems to have been living in her own fairy tale kingdom and is incompatible with the world. I don’t know what kind of personality this is. Autistic? Introverted?
It can only be called unique.
Life cannot be perfect, and everyone has their own hobbies. Life is full of dissatisfaction, and everyone has a way to appease their own mood. That's why there are unique and regular narrations in the movie: xx doesn't like it... xx likes it.
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The narration in the movie does not make people feel bored at all. In fact, the movie uses this method and a large number of narrations to display or contain connotations, which itself is worthy of praise.
We all know what kind of person Emily is, what kind of childhood and life she has, and she has never been a talkative person.
So narration is needed. In fact, our lives also need narration. The movie uses reassuring, kind and touching language to introduce everyone around Emily.
What is the meaning of a hobby? Maybe it is a tool to kill time, maybe it is a refuge when you are in a bad mood.
Emily has some little habits for amusing herself, reaching into a bag full of beans, breaking the crispy crust of crème brûlée with a spoon, and splashing around on the Canal Saint-Martin.
Let's take a look at Emily's childhood, which is as unique and full of weirdness as the movie.
When she was little, her father didn't send her to school because he thought she had a heart disease, so Emily didn't have a campus life, let alone childhood playmates.
In fact, when her father measured Emily's heart, her heart accelerated because Emily's father didn't get along with Emily often, so her heartbeat accelerated because she was nervous.
And her mother, who teaches Emily at home every day, is also extremely anxious every day.
Yes, in our opinion, Emily's childhood was terrible.
There are no friends, and the educational environment at home is not suitable for children to grow up.
So Emily can only live in her own fantasy world.
There is a plot in the story where her mother bought Emily a second-hand camera, and Emily was very happy taking pictures of various things every day.
But one day while Emily was taking pictures, two cars collided.
The neighbor even lied to Emily that her camera had a flaw, that is, it could cause accidents.
The funny thing is that Emily believed it.
It is conceivable that Emily's family education has made Emily's life very poor. She does not even know basic common sense.
Let’s speculate based on the movies we’ve seen in the past.
When she grows up, Emily will either be autistic or withdrawn, but she will not develop in a good direction anyway.
When she grew up, Emily was indeed as we thought, not very good at socializing with others. She occasionally visited her father and lived by herself the rest of the time.
But the development of the story here is somewhat beyond our expectations.
Emily begins to connect with the world.
Because she began to take the initiative and silently help others.
I was really touched when I saw a sentence in the comments: If I am destined to be lonely, then I am willing to love the whole world.
Sometimes it’s really not that the world doesn’t love us, but that we choose not to love the world.
We have seen too many movies about loneliness. Many lonely people in them often choose to leave traces on the world in various negative ways, but Emily chooses to love the world and help others.
In fact, in a fundamental sense, it is not that there are too many disappointments in this world, but that this world has too many expectations.
And Emily taught us that we can choose to love the world.
The beginning of the movie is very interesting and strange.
This is a peaceful and wonderful world: at the same time, different lives, and different things will undergo small and ordinary changes in different places. They are independent of each other in the dimension of space, and inadvertently intersect in the dimension of time, and then together form the whole
The world, and life is in this water-like time, moving forward and passing by minute by second.
This chapter is not over, please click on the next page to continue reading! The 80/20 rule is really a magical rule. In this world, 20% of the people hold 80% of the wealth, and at the same time, 20% of the people play a role in the planet
The other 80% of the protagonists repeat the ordinary life of human beings from generation to generation. They exist in society, but seem to be far away from the center of society; they intermittently learn about the changes in the world from the mass media, but have no right to let this society
Listen to your own needs. - They are small, emotional, suspicious, and lonely - they live in the city and have truly become the representative of a noun - marginalization.
I remember someone once said that one-half or even two-thirds of students in school are people who live for exams. These people cannot learn what society requires. They are the "losers" of society. The other two-half
One or even two-thirds of people live for various diplomas and certificates. They are the "overloaded workers" of society. When they enter social work, they still work hard and actively do everything well.
But when the company keeps coming in new people, they feel the pressure. The times are changing too fast and what they have learned is too outdated. So they keep recharging, working, working, recharging until they are exhausted and finally fall into the routine of life:
After starting a family and starting a business, keeping to one's own routine, repeating the same things at the same desk every day, losing passion, and closing one's life in a narrow life.
In fact, most of us are experiencing such a life. Life is as peaceful as ever. It’s just that we don’t know when our edges have been smoothed and we have gradually integrated into the entire bizarre society and become a small member of it.
Go on living a neglected life.
At the same time, our attitude towards something will also determine the outcome.
The plot in the movie is worth pondering.
Emily works in a cafe.
Jenna, a clerk in the coffee shop, is always harassed by her ex-boyfriend Joseph, which troubles Jenna, Emily's colleague.
In fact, what would many of us think about this kind of thing? What should we do?
Do you think this person is too annoying? Do you want to get rid of him? Or do you?
Don't say no, I believe that most people will think so. Even if they don't take action, they definitely have a very negative impression of this person.
Even from the perspective of the audience, it is difficult for us to like such a person.
But we have overlooked one thing, that is, in this world, in the world of love, there is no absolute right or wrong.
Joseph's behavior was troubling to Jenna, but what did he actually do?
We never thought about how sweet they were together, and we never thought that Jenna had already started another relationship, or even several relationships.
Yes, Yueshen's behavior is very unpleasant, but it is undeniable that from this point of view, he may be more affectionate than Jenna?
It is indeed wrong to stalk someone, but can we say that it is all his fault? Or can we say that he is a bad person?
But what does Emily do?
One day Emily heard a theory about what love at first sight is.
You just need to find two acquaintances, make them believe that they like each other, and then let them be ambiguous for a while.
So Emily used this method to make her colleague's ex-boyfriend and the female receptionist of the coffee shop fall in love with each other, and they fell in love.
Did you suddenly have a strange feeling that this person is actually not bad?
This is determined by the attitude towards the world and others. Emily did not have a negative, disgusting, etc. attitude towards Joseph like others!
Of course, this does not mean that love can be achieved in this way, or that Emily is right or wrong.
What I want to say is that even if this story cannot tell us that love must be produced in this way, I am sure that most relationships between people are produced in this way.
In our interpersonal relationships, we can actually easily feel other people's attitudes towards us, and similarly, our attitude towards others can also be easily felt by others.
In fact, we can also find it in our daily interactions with others.
For example, if you heard bad things about a person before you met him, then no matter what he does next, you may have a stereotyped impression of him.
And similarly, he can also feel your dislike for him.
On the contrary, there is a sentence that is particularly cute.
If a person likes me, then I can't hate him because his vision is too good.
Indeed, we prefer to like people who like us.
We are more willing to help people who have helped us.
For example, Emily went to help many people, and in the end, when she was hesitant, Grandpa also helped her.
In the same way, sometimes loneliness is not because others don't like you, but because you don't like others either.
From this point of view, perhaps it can be concluded that the effects of forces are mutual?
When it comes to love, there are always some people who feel that the love in this movie is unflattering. Why?
It's actually very simple, because that's not what many of us imagine love should be like.
But in fact, Emily is not the ordinary girl we imagined.
Emily likes to turn her head secretly in the dark to see the expressions on people's faces, and likes to discover details that others can't notice. The silly Lu Xian will be full of childishness and conjure up things he likes for the glass old man. Lian Nuo becomes a
In his own fantasy, he lay in the photo booth sorting out the torn photos. The bitter-faced Joseph’s favorite thing was to pinch the small bubbles on the plastic bags.
All these details that we ignore in our daily life are the real life that we have never paid attention to.
When many people see Emily helping others, they think she is really a kind and beautiful little clever girl.
However, when things happened to Emily herself, she also began to be timid.
Emily fell in love with a boy.
And I found his photo album.
There is such a monologue in the movie. A normal girl will call the owner immediately. She will ask the owner to meet at an outdoor cafe and return the photo album. After a few minutes, she will know whether to continue the relationship. This is called facing reality.
But Emily didn't think so at all.
When the old painter asked Emily, tell me, did the girl and the boy meet again later?
Emily said, no, they are actually not the same kind of people.
The old painter saw Emily's hesitation and fear.
He told her that fate is like the Tour de France. We wait and wait, but the result is gone in the blink of an eye. So when the opportunity comes, don’t miss it.
For a moment, did we see ourselves?
There are too many lonely people not because they have never had contact with the world, but because almost all opportunities have been missed by themselves, or given up.
Emily fell in love with that boy, but she didn't know what to do. She had too many ideas and didn't know how to implement them.
But just like what the old painter said to Emily later, the fact is that she is a bit cowardly.
I’ve read a lot of stories like this, why don’t you confess your feelings?
Because I am afraid of being rejected, I would rather miss it.
There is a sentence in the movie, "If Emily prefers to live in a dream and continue to isolate herself, this is her right, because accomplishing nothing is an inalienable right."
As the old painter said, our bones are actually not that fragile. We can knock on the door of life, but if we keep choosing to escape and miss it, then as time goes by, our hearts will become dry and fragile.
So, be brave and go for it, who cares!!
So, if you actually don’t want to be alone, but also want to find someone who understands and loves you, and also want to chat with friends, then you can choose not to close yourself off anymore, choose to go out and embrace the world.
At the end of the movie, Emily is together with the person she likes. A lonely girl whose childhood was not happy enough has also found her own love.
Many people said that watching this movie is very heart-warming, and then we know how to cherish and embrace everything in life.
But I feel that this movie actually revolves around the word initiative.
Waiting will never lead to results. Take the initiative to start, break through yourself, and take the first step. Maybe you won't need to be lonely.
There is a saying that if you take the initiative, then we will have a story."
