Chapter 1635: Life kissed me with pain, but I responded with songs
Although some people are not interested in "children's films" like "Little Shoes" after hearing about them, they also have benefits.
In particular, many people in the educational field have recommended this movie.
"When you want to calm down and find inner peace in your busy and stressful study life, this movie must be your first choice.
The famous writer Rabindranath Tagore once said: "Life kissed me with pain, but I responded with songs."
The entire movie "Little Shoes" revolves around little shoes. The story begins when Ali loses his sister Sarah's shoes. The two agree not to tell their parents about the lost shoes. After that, the two alternately wear Ali's sneakers and race against time to run to school.
Then Ali participated in a long-distance running competition to win a pair of sneakers for his sister, but he missed out on the sneakers as the first and third place prizes. Fortunately, his father finally bought shoes for both of them.
"Little Shoes" conveys simple but touching warmth to us everywhere. Love does not have to be expressed in gorgeous clothes or countless money. Love is when Ali discovers that Sarah's pencil is so short that her little hands are
When he couldn't hold it, he silently put his pen in front of her. Life was hard, but with the mutual comfort of kind people like brothers and sisters, neighbors, landlords, and shopkeepers, it seemed that the suffering was put into a filter.
It makes people feel the warmth everywhere.
As long as we have firm faith, everything will be fine. What we see in this film is the warmth and faith in a difficult life, the power that supports us to survive. Life teases us with black humor, however,
Love finally gave us the most perfect ending.
The brother and sister had obviously found their lost shoes, but seeing that the little girl had more difficulties than themselves, they did not have the heart to get their shoes back. Even though they themselves also endured difficulties that are unbearable for ordinary people. The elder brother did not win the shoes in the sports competition.
They wanted sneakers, but the story of the little shoes tells us that as long as we persist in the quality of kindness, life will definitely leave a beam of light for us. In the end, when both of them fell into depression, their father bought them new shoes.
shoe.
I remember that I wanted a bicycle when I was a child, and I have wanted one since the first grade of elementary school. I mentioned it to my parents many times, secretly or openly, but my wish never came true. Then I continued to ride various second-hand bicycles in junior high school and high school.
.When I became rich and capable, I no longer had the original desire. Now I am still a young man with low desires. Looking back at today's children, adults are now thinking of ways to satisfy all their desires, or to give them to them.
A condition that is higher than my own desires. I don’t know whether that kind of life is right or wrong.
But in the movie, a series of things happened between the two brothers and their little shoes. It was very similar to my low-desire self when I was a child. None of the toys, winter cotton shoes/cotton pants, and some of the clothes they wore were handmade by their mother.
I have been taught since I was a child that what belongs to me is my own, and what belongs to others belongs to others. My parents are upright, and this has always affected my words and deeds.
The living conditions and ideological education from childhood can really influence a person's life. Parents are really the best teachers. Although the childhood was poor in material, it was also the era that I loved most. People who have lived with low desires since childhood, I hope you can have
A life that satisfies one's heart.
The reason why I recommend this movie is because it is really pure, because we often see this kind of movie, which is always full of all kinds of accusations of social injustice, unkindness for the rich, etc., but the rare thing about the movie is that although
It tells the story of the poor, but it is not an exhibition on poverty.
The neighborhood where Ali lives is poor and backward, but very clean and the people are very kind. The director does not show them as begging for the audience's sympathy like refugees. From beginning to end, they are working hard to live. There is no deliberate expression in the whole film.
The difficulty of life reflects the beauty of human nature everywhere.
There is a scene in the film where the father helped the temple to pound sugar. The seriously ill mother asked Sarah to pour a glass of sugar water for her father. Sarah took a glass of water and handed it to her father. The father asked: Why not add sugar?
The younger sister asked, "Dad, don't you have some candy? Why did you take it from home?"
The father replied angrily: They belong to the mosque and are only temporarily kept by us.
The father is honest and kind, that's why Ali and Sarah are like this.
When Sarah found her lost shoes at school, which were worn on the feet of another little girl, she quietly followed the girl to the door of her house, went home to find her brother, and wanted to get the shoes back together.
They hid in the corner and took a peek, but found out that the girl's father was blind, so they chose to go home in silence.
Later, after the girl picked up Sarah's automatic pen, although she liked it very much, she sincerely chose to return it to its original owner.
Later, Sarah became good friends with her. When Sarah heard that the little girl's father bought her a new pair of shoes, but the old shoes were thrown away, she was shocked and asked: Why were they thrown away?
The little girl replied aggrievedly: They are already rotten.
Even so, her sister still didn't tell her how important the discarded shoes were to her.
Watching "Little Shoes" is a process in which the heart gradually becomes emotional and warm, and a process in which the soul is baptized. Even in difficult situations, they still maintain their self-respect, simplicity, and kindness. I think they are the best interpretation of the truth, goodness, and beauty of life.
I hope this video can awaken everyone's belief in the beauty of life.
No matter how many setbacks life gives us, the most important thing is the love in our hearts, which can make us indestructible!"
Of course, a movie like this automatically brings to mind the gap between rich and poor.
Perhaps those born in the 1990s and 2000s cannot feel or come into contact with "poverty", or there may be relatively few people born in the 1990s and 2000s, but it can be said that people who came from the 1970s and 1980s can relate to it.
Online film critic Lao Boy born in the 1980s wrote: "The movie tells the story of a boy Ali who was born in a poor family. In an accident, he lost his sister's only pair of red shoes. Not wanting to be punished by his parents, he begged his sister to help him.
He kept this secret and promised his sister that he could wear his shoes to school. He would change them back after school and run to school because he only had one pair of shoes.
The plot of the film revolves around shoes. The choice of the story and the outstanding acting skills of the protagonist Xiao Ali have won unanimous praise from the audience. Although the film does not use too many scenes to describe the hardships of life, just a pair of shoes can make the audience feel that
A kind of depression that makes people breathless. The era background chosen in the film and the experiences of the young protagonist are very similar to those of our generation in the 70s and 80s. At that time, we also experienced poverty and felt inferior because of poverty. Even though we have already
Adults are still affected by it.
In the film, Ali comes from a poor family, which causes his sister to have a strong inferiority complex!
Sister Ali put on shoes that didn't fit her feet and would hide her feet under the table when she went to school because she didn't want to be seen wearing a pair of men's and much larger shoes. After school, her sister quickly escaped from the classroom without losing a moment, because Ali
She had to change her shoes and rush to school. Another reason was that she wanted to escape because at this moment she was enveloped in low self-esteem and she was afraid that her classmates would laugh at her if they found out.
Once after school, she ran home as usual, and her ill-fitting shoes fell into the ditch. She was wearing only one shoe and kept chasing the shoe that was floating down the water, but she couldn't pick up the shoe at all. She squatted aside.
She started crying. The crying at this time was actually more of grievance. She didn't understand why her brother had lost her shoes, why she put on his shoes inexplicably, and why her family was so poor that they couldn't even buy a new pair of shoes.
Sorry.
Passers-by saw her crying and after asking, helped her pick up the shoes. She didn't want to endure it anymore, so she came to the alley where she met her brother and threw the shoes to him. She never wanted to wear his shoes to school again. She wanted to
He told his parents all this. In order to continue letting her keep this secret, Ali gave his sister the mechanical pencil that the teacher had given him and promised to buy her a new pair of shoes.
I understand the kind of inferiority that cannot be lifted up. The reason why the film can make the audience feel the same is because regarding poverty and inferiority, one can more or less find his own shadow in it. After all, the damage caused by inferiority may be remembered for a lifetime.
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Regarding the resonance of shoes, it is difficult for many people who have not experienced that era to imagine.
But in fact, when we were in elementary school, we often only had 1 or 2 pairs of shoes. As for luxuries like rain boots, only students with better family conditions could have them. As winter approached, I had already put on thousands of shoes that my mother paid for.
Cotton-soled shoes. It happened to rain, and the shoes were completely soaked. When I got home, my feet were soaked and turned white. I saw a few classmates wearing rain boots, so I mentioned it to my mother, and my mother just replied: I don’t have any money.
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The next day, it was still the same pair of shoes, but they had been dried by the stove. Seeing more students put on water boots, they would not go out during class, but hid in the classroom for fear of others seeing the shoes on their feet. Maybe
Your classmates don't know how to laugh, but you have already decided that they will laugh at you.
When I was in junior high school, the school held a sports meeting and required all students to wear sports shoes. The sports shoes at that time were actually canvas shoes. Even if it only cost a few yuan, my family was still reluctant to buy them for you. I had already signed up, so I had to borrow them.
A classmate’s shoes.
The male classmates had many entries and couldn't give them to me, so they had to borrow them from the female classmates. I may never forget my obedient request at that time, let alone the strange eyes of the female classmate and her reluctant expression.
When I was in high school, it was popular for boys to wear leather shoes. Very few boys in the class did not wear them. Among them was me. At that time, I already had a strong vanity and longed for satisfaction. This was actually a manifestation of low self-esteem. In fact, the conditions at home had already improved.
Okay, it’s not like you can’t afford a pair of shoes, but leather shoes are obviously not something that a family with three children in school should consider.
So I secretly wore a pair of my father's leather shoes that had been glued open. I can't remember how much bigger the shoes were than my feet, but I remember that I had to put two books of paper on them before I could barely wear them.
Poverty can make children feel inferior. In my case, even adults are still troubled by inferiority. When taking the bus, I don’t know the route and I am too embarrassed to ask my neighbor or the driver; when dealing with interpersonal relationships at work, I have to try on clothes repeatedly.
, not to show off your charm, but just because you are afraid that your colleagues will look down on you; when inviting others to dinner, you will involuntarily worry about the price of the food, and when ordering, you will pretend to be indifferent to cover up your poor inferiority complex.
Inferiority is a personal emotion, but most of the causes of inferiority complex come from the family!
In the film, the sister's inferiority complex stems from the family's poverty. Ali wanted to buy a pair of shoes for his sister, and he found a suitable opportunity, which was to participate in a sports meeting. Ali begged the teacher to allow him to participate in the sports meeting that had already passed the registration date.
.He must participate. The third place in the sports meeting can get a pair of beautiful shoes.
He told his sister the good news, and her sister asked him, can you guarantee that you can get the shoes? Ali gave his sister a positive answer. The sports meeting began, and even though Ali was deliberately tripped, he continued regardless of the scars on his body.
Get up and run as hard as you can. In my opinion, running here is not just a desire to get shoes, but more of a yearning for a better life.
Ali didn't know how many people had passed in front of him, so he could only cross the finish line desperately, and he got the first place. He was not happy but cried because he didn't get the pair of shoes he wanted.
He knew that he was going to let his sister down again, and sure enough, her sister ran out crying when she found out. Her sister had to wear shoes that didn't fit her feet again, and she might be laughed at by her classmates. Even if no one cared about what she was wearing, her inner inferiority no longer allowed it.
If she keeps doing this, she'll need a new pair of shoes to cover up.
Compared to Ali, my sister has a stronger sense of inferiority. So what makes my sister have such a strong sense of inferiority?
The main reason is that the family is poor. Whether it is a direct or indirect impact, the not-rich family gives my sister a sense of inferiority. She wants to be like other classmates, but what she faces is that the rent of the house at home has expired.
, the landlord has called for rent several times, and her father cannot afford it. Even as a young girl, she can feel the family's predicament and be affected.
This chapter is not over yet, please click on the next page to continue reading! Families that have been in poverty for a long time are more likely to have problems in life. Once financial problems arise, parents have no time to take more care of their children, which will inevitably lead to children lacking the correct knowledge in this regard.
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A child will be discriminated against by students and even teachers at school, which is what we call "snobbery". When he faces unfair treatment, he is bound to have more negative emotions, including low self-esteem. She will be in a state of long-term
Under the pressure of public opinions such as "You can't do it" and "Your family has no money".
In the film, Ali followed his father to find a job as a gardener, but when they rang the doorbell of a rich man's house and asked, his father actually led Ali away. The father here undoubtedly had extremely low self-esteem, and he did not even dare to talk to the rich.
Speech. If parents have low self-esteem, their children will naturally be affected subtly.
A poor life is most likely to cause low self-esteem. Children are also affected by the poverty of the family, which will lead to poor living, learning and mental conditions, resulting in low self-esteem. When a family only focuses on getting rid of poverty, it ignores his psychological aspects.
Construction, children with low self-esteem may suffer from low self-esteem for a long time, even into adulthood.
Although the living environment is the same, why does Ali not have such a strong inferiority complex?
In my opinion, this is where Ali can overcome his inferiority complex. He is a strong child who can do his best for a pair of sneakers; he is a tolerant child who learned that his sister's shoes were worn by another little girl.
, Ali chose to remain silent because the little girl’s father is blind, and the little girl has to wear shoes and help her father sell groceries every day.
These qualities are obviously given to the character in the movie. If such a family exists in real life and the parents have extremely low self-esteem, then the probability of producing "Ali" will be very small.
Since one cannot have the aura of a movie, families and schools need to give children this quality.
At the end of the movie, the father is on his way home, and on the back seat of the bicycle are the new shoes he bought for Ali and his sister, a pair of white sneakers and a pair of little red shoes, but this time they are brand new. These are the symbols of a new life.
In the beginning, it also represents a brand-new attitude of the father towards poverty life. In real life, most people may not be able to decide whether the family is rich or poor, but we can guide our children to face it correctly."
