Chapter 757: Those who accept their fate and those who do not
"Dear" is a group drama.
Tian Wenjun and Lu Xiaojuan are the protagonists of Meifou, but other characters also have a lot of similar scenes.
As for the success of a group drama, it still depends on whether the characters are fully portrayed and whether the audience can remember them.
Obviously "Dear" is very successful at this point.
Many viewers are very emotionally invested in the characters in the film.
Zhao Zhong wrote a film review for "Dear" from the perspective of each character.
""Dear" is a reality-themed movie. As we all know, the biggest fear of reality-themed movies is that they are divorced from reality.
The story of this movie is certainly not a common story, but through this movie everyone can see the collective portrait of society, their own inner anxiety and indifference to family affection, and the depth and sadness of loss,
In fact, it is something that everyone can feel and understand from life. However, this is not only not a common story, it is not simply about the loss and search of children, but also reflects something in the hearts of people in society.
Lost and found. People come and go, we are confused, we are lost, where is our "home"?
Tian Wenjun is not a successful person. He is divorced in middle age and runs a small shop. The only thing that makes him proud is probably having a son named Tian Peng, right?
In the movie, Tian Wenjun initially said: "I accept my fate, but you don't!"
That's because he felt that although he was divorced, he opened a small shop and ran a small business. Although he was not rich and powerful, it was enough for him to raise his son Tian Peng. So he accepted his fate and did not want to bother.
For Tian Wenjun, who has been divorced and has no wife, he only has one identity left that he values —the father of his child!
Therefore, when the child is lost, he will say, "Why should I accept my fate?" He accepts his fate because he has a son, which is enough, but if his son is gone, how can he accept his fate?
So it was this energy that made him search desperately and not give up. Only by "eating hope" could he still hope to regain a little bit of dignity without accepting his fate when he lost almost everything.
Pengpeng cried bitterly in the stairwell of the police station that night. It was the first time in three years that he really shed tears. It was like he had been holding in a long breath and finally burst out. His face twitched and his voice was hoarse. He couldn't spit out anything.
words, but we can fully feel how tired he has been in these past few years. Lin Yunbin's performance was so explosive. In silence, it gave us a heavy blow to our hearts. Although we have never experienced such pain, watching
As he hugs his head and cries, we seem to suddenly understand that what he is desperately looking for is not just Pengpeng. Only by bringing Pengpeng back can his home be there and he can "go home".
What about Lu Xiaojuan? She refused to accept her fate! In order to climb up the ladder, she divorced Tian Wenjun and started a middle-class family.
But even though she was divorced, she still couldn't let go of her son Tian Peng. She refused to accept her fate, and of course she hoped that her son Tian Peng would have a better future, so she quarreled with Tian Wenjun every time!
It was not until she lost Pengpeng that she finally discovered that, in fact, identity and money could not resist such pain. She had always wanted to get rid of her identity as a servant, but later found that she had lost herself. In fact, this is like many people around us.
People are very similar, but they live in such a hurry that they can't stop to look at their original self and then look at themselves now. Losing Pengpeng, she became like Tian Wenjun again; looking for Pengpeng,
It became her only obsession, but her husband's courtship made her feel sick. In fact, it was more because she didn't want to betray her son.
The psychiatrist described her depression after losing her child as a heavy burden, which made her extremely angry, so she would say: Your child was not lost! In fact, her marriage to her current husband was at this time.
Problems have arisen and divorce is inevitable.
Because Qin Hao has always wanted a child, and even after Tian Peng lost him, his desire became even more urgent.
This made her understand that as long as Tian Peng is here, he will always be her child, not Qin Hao's child.
There are many details in the movie. Lu Xiaojuan was either crying all the time or her eyes were red. She could hardly laugh. She only laughed when facing her son! Therefore, after finding her son, she still cried a lot.
, because her son hasn’t really come back yet, she didn’t really cry and laugh until he took the initiative to hold her hand!
Han Dezhong, the mutual aid he established gave those desperate parents a little hope, and it was only with his financial support that Tian Peng could be found smoothly. From the moment he appeared, he gave people the impression that he was a person with a very strong heart. His
The first time he appeared, he loudly said in front of everyone at the Wanli Zi Searching Association: "We must keep looking for him, and we will never give birth to a second one!"
On the way to meet the traffickers, he loudly encouraged everyone. He was like a leader, a powerful leader!
He was Mr. Han who led everyone along the way and used a big stick to repel a large number of approaching villagers. However, no one expected that he was actually the weakest in his heart, so after Tian Peng was found, he was the first one
Breaking the rule of "resolutely not to have a second child". In the movie, he is actually a character who has not "returned home". He has lost too much. He thought he could get salvation by helping everyone, but in the end he found that looking for too much
Tired, he eventually betrayed everyone. In the movie, he seemed to go further and further on the road to "go home", and finally found that money could not erase his unsavory past, let alone a death certificate.
Therefore, in the end, he fled the scene like a deserter, huddled in a corner, and cried bitterly, because he not only betrayed everyone in the Wanli Xunzi Society, but what made him even more painful was that he betrayed his son, betrayed
He found the son he had been searching for for six years. Because since he gave up searching, his son had actually "died" in his life!
Li Hongqin, the fate of this character is extremely complicated and contradictory.
What she lost was everything. Her husband was dead, her adopted son was brought home, her daughter was taken away, and her family was completely broken up. If her daughter couldn't come back, seriously speaking, what's the point of her life? This is in a certain way
To a certain extent, she is somewhat similar to Tian Wenjun, but in terms of social recognition, she stands on the opposite side of Tian Wenjun, and on the opposite side of countless people, because her mother's identity is strictly speaking, she is her trafficker's husband.
"Snatched", her son and daughter do not belong to her. Even the law seems to be coming to cut her last straw. Life is so cruel to her that we should be disgusted with this kind of thing morally and ethically.
"Human Trafficker's Wife", but in the end I couldn't help but feel pity and emotion for her. Can she go home? Does she still have a home to return to? At the end of the movie, a lot is left. When the camera pans, we can faintly see the darkness.
There is still a little light at the end of the world, but is it hope or a more terrifying despair?"