Chapter 945 True elegance comes from the inside out
“Here, I have to mention Clara’s grandmother.
Come to think of it, who wouldn't like such an elegant, wise, yet kind grandma, right?
In the eyes of the housekeeper, Heidi was a savage country girl. She did not understand the rules of aristocratic life, had never received formal education, and found the assigned studies boring and uninteresting, so she decided that Heidi was not good enough.
Maybe he can become a civilized person.
The housekeeper didn't like Heidi at all, because her arrival broke the tranquility in the big house and made everything uncontrollable.
There are several details in the movie that made me particularly fond of this old lady. The first one is when grandma saw Heidi for the first time. She did not ignore Heidi because Heidi was only brought to accompany her granddaughter Clara.
She, or treat her with a different attitude, instead treats Heidi like her own granddaughter Clara.
When Heidi's greeting was corrected by the housekeeper, she waved her hand and said there was no difference.
This seemingly ordinary word and action suddenly brought her and Heidi closer together.
And her attitude was naturally completely unacting, as if it was how it should be.
When the housekeeper questioned Heidi's mental retardation, Clara's grandmother raised her head and looked at her and gently interrupted the housekeeper and said: "Okay, I'll talk to her later and see if it's okay."
what happened!"
She did not believe the housekeeper's words, nor did she rebuke the housekeeper, but had her own judgment.
Many people's words and deeds are inconsistent, but with her, her words and deeds are truly consistent.
That's what she said, and that's what she did.
That night, while reading to Heidi, she observed her and found that the child was kind, sensitive, and extremely compassionate. In fact, Heidi was very immersed in listening to the story, encountering pictures and scenes of her hometown, and asked her grandmother to
Read it several times.
Different education produces different results. With the encouragement of her grandmother, Heidi became interested in learning literacy.
Grandma is well-educated, both in her image and in her heart. She has her own sense of right and wrong, and does not follow what others say.
When Clara cheered and said that Heidi could stay and stay forever, everyone gathered around her and were happy for her, but only grandma kept paying attention to Heidi and noticed Heidi's expression.
Variety.
Before Heidi sleepwalked, Clara's grandmother had actually discovered Heidi's problem. At that time, she suggested that Clara's father send her home. Even though she knew that Clara was extremely sad to leave Heidi, her grandmother still
Choose Heidi's empathy for missing her grandpa.
It was precisely because of grandma's decision that Heidi's illness recovered without treatment, and Clara also overcame her own psychology and stood up again while visiting Heidi with her grandma.
Clara's grandmother rode up and down the mountain alone. Seeing Heidi living in extremely simple living conditions, she didn't dislike it. Instead, she sent Clara away and left, giving the two children the opportunity to let loose in nature.
Through her own feelings, she believed that the environment on the mountain was conducive to Clara's physical and mental health, so she was a very knowledgeable person.
There is also a scene where Heidi's grandfather poured a glass of wine to Grandma Clara, thinking that she would dislike it, but she didn't expect that she drank it boldly, which really made people feel the nobility revealed in her bones.
True elegance, true nobility, not only because of her origin, but also because of her experience and quality.
The housekeeper is extremely envious of the life of a noble, and perhaps this is why she became a housekeeper, but she will never be able to become such a noble, because the noble she thinks is completely different from the real noble.
But Grandma Clara's words and deeds make people feel right away that this is what a true noble should look like.
Let’s talk about Clara’s baron father. In fact, as Clara’s father, he bought Heidi as a companion for his daughter. Seeing that Heidi made his daughter happy, he didn’t have to worry about Heidi’s feelings at all.
However, in order to get Heidi out of the trouble of the disease, he followed the doctor's advice and let Heidi return to her grandfather without the consent of his daughter Clara.
It's not that he doesn't love his daughter, and he also knows that if Heidi leaves, his daughter who can't walk may be even more lonely and unhappy, but he knows very well that acts of charity can relieve the pain of others more than money.
Only when Heidi is healed can he feel at ease. There is always a solution to his daughter's loneliness, but curing Heidi is the most important thing.
Doctor, this is a different person from a tutor.
It is obvious that the family doctor is a good friend of Clara's father and is also a nobleman.
An 8-year-old maid was sick, but he did not show any indifference, but put her on an equal footing with anyone else, and asked Clara's father not to disturb her for fear of hurting her.
He used his own strength to create a small world for the weak Heidi to open her heart and talk about her feelings without any scruples.
When he discovered that Heidi was depressed because of missing home and her grandfather, he suggested to Clara's father that Heidi should return to her grandfather, otherwise it would aggravate her depression and pain. It was his behavior that contributed to Heidi's depression.
Reunion with grandpa.
His attitude towards Heidi was completely different from that of the tutor and the housekeeper.
Clara's family is an aristocratic family. They live in a luxurious house and have many servants. However, they do not look down on Heidi because of the wealth gap between her and themselves. What we see is not arrogance and prejudice, but the beauty of Heidi.
When Heidi was scolded and criticized by the housekeeper, Clara taught her patiently; her grandmother used her own way to cultivate Heidi's habit of reading; when Heidi could read aloud, the whole family also arranged a reading meeting for her, and
Applaud her progress.
They put Heidi on an equal footing with themselves and gave her respect and love.
Heidi warmed Clara and touched Clara's family with her kindness and innocence, and the feedback she received was far more than what she gave.
I have never seen a so-called noble, but I think this is probably a real noble, right?
Heidi, who loves nature and yearns for the Alps, has a kind heart: she is kind, optimistic, and grateful. Her beauty and cuteness have infected her eccentric grandfather, the shepherd boy Pete, and the aristocratic lady Clara.
of joy.
If we say that Heidi's kindness stems from empathy - she has experienced the hardships of life, and it is difficult to compare herself to others and sympathize with others;
Then, the kindness of Clara's family can be regarded as the highest kind of kindness - this kind of kindness transcends superior life and transcends the aristocratic class. It is only derived from human nature and sympathy. It comes from the heart to the little girl at the bottom with a disparity in status.
Be kind.
Finally, I borrowed what Clara's grandma said to Heidi: "If there is something in life that makes you happy, then do it and don't care what others say."
I think this is also a message for us. If you want to gain true freedom and get rid of things you don’t want to do, maybe you can be like little Heidi and bravely and unswervingly stick to your inner desires.
