"It will happen in the future. Let me tell you, I have been busy with school and work these years, so I have been single." Didier said.
This kind of high-sounding answer was already expected by the host Lao Ma. He casually said: "How big is the biggest man you have ever seen?"
The scene suddenly became excited, as if the audience understood something instantly. Didier covered his mouth and was embarrassed to answer, this question was too direct.
"What are you doing? I asked Didi how old was the oldest man she had ever seen. I meant how old was the oldest male artist she had ever worked with." Lao Ma said seriously.
"Seventy or eighty, I'm not sure, and I didn't ask the other person's age." Didier replied with an embarrassed look on his face, falling into a trap.
"I want to ask Didi, do you plan to ask for a bride price when you get married? Do you think it is appropriate to ask for a bride price when you get married?" Xiaosong said with a smile, fanning himself.
Didi glanced at the manager in the audience. This was a bad choice. He said he didn’t want any gifts and believed in love. Male fans would definitely like it, but male fans are rarely active on the Internet and rarely send you messages everywhere.
notice.
But if you support accepting gifts, you will definitely offend some male fans, but so what? The male fans can at most post two more beautiful pictures, which will comfort them.
"I think everything depends on fate. I think the most important thing is for two people to be together. But as for the bride price, my parents used to pay three gold coins when they got married, but I didn't think it was anything. It's just for good luck. I think the bride price is not excessive, so it shouldn't be anything, right?"
Teacher Song."
Xiaosong looked at his younger brother with a smile, and then brought the topic back. He fanned and said, "Okay! Didi supports accepting betrothal gifts. I choose not to give betrothal gifts. Today's debate is whether to give betrothal gifts when getting married."
Dididire looked like she was cheating, so she directly ordered it for herself? The host MM immediately hit the hammer and said: "Xiaosong chose not to give a bride price, Didi chose to give a bride price, and Kang Yongge and Gou Dan chose one side.
, Today’s debate topic is whether to give a bride price when getting married. First, let’s watch a small theater.”
Brother Kang Yong chose not to give a betrothal gift, but Gou Dan chose to give a betrothal gift.
A short story was displayed on the big screen, and the debaters from the program team also appeared. In the video, a loving young couple talked sweetly to each other, but when they talked about the bride price, they had different opinions. Then the two asked everyone what you think.
Should I ask for a bride price when I get married?
At the beginning of the new season, each person will debate one topic, instead of one group each. The first debate topic is between Chen Shi and Liu Li. After Liu Li mastered the code of wealth this year, she attacked men and became popular. Gou Dan is hers.
Boss, if there is a program, he will bring his employees to show their faces.
In this kind of debate program, as long as the debater is not too good, it is best to defend first so that the audience can adapt to your rhythm and point of view. If you defend later, you will not have an absolute advantage and it will be difficult to win.
The main thing is to overturn all the structures of the debater who defended first. This is a waste of time. You have to state your own views again, which will make the audience feel a bit confused.
To put it bluntly, to seize the opportunity, you can be the first to express what you want to say. To strike later, you need to overturn all the theories of the other debater and make the audience give up the other debater's theory and accept your own theory. Now you know what the difficulty is.
If it's a team turn-based game, then the order is not that important, but in 1V1, it's very important.
"Which of you will debate first?" the host Lao Ma asked.
Chen Shi was about to stand up, but Liu Li beat him to it and said, "I'll do it! I don't want to lag behind others, I want to be one step ahead of others, is that okay?"
When she asked Chen Shi what he could say, he extended his hand in a very gentlemanly gesture of invitation.
Liu Li walked up to the middle of the stage to argue and said: "Hello everyone, I am Liu Li. Everyone, have you noticed? I don't know since when, it has become a sin, a shame, and an unreasonable thing for a woman to ask for a bride price.
Money worship and other symbols.
I went home and asked my dad, my grandpa, and the elders around me if they had given a bride price when they got married, and they told me that they had.
Some men will always say that in the past, no betrothal gift was needed to marry a wife. At that time, my grandfather married his grandma with three bags of rice, two bags of noodles, and a pound of oil. My father married his mother with three big items of refrigerator, color TV, washing machine, but now it costs ten at every turn.
Wan starts.
I'm curious. My grandparents were happy to have a bite of hot rice porridge at that time, because there was nothing to eat at that time. My parents knew how to buy three big things. Did every household have a washing machine at that time?
And who is using the TV, washing machine, refrigerator, etc. that we bought? Are our parents and us after birth using them?
And now the so-called betrothal gifts are given to the newlyweds, right? The money still belongs to two people. Men say why women insist on asking for betrothal gifts. Then I want to ask, do you want to marry a woman without spending any money?
Then let women wash, cook, bear and take care of your children.
What about after marriage? We women have no income. We have to ask your men for every penny we spend, and it also depends on your faces. So can a bride price provide us with financial security after marriage? If you don’t give a bride price, it’s okay to get married.
Finally, don't let us take care of the children and do housework. Finally, don't let us women have children. Everyone spends their own money. AA system, how good it is.
Men, don’t blame your incompetence and incompetence on us women who want betrothal gifts. Betrothal gifts are a ruler, a ruler to measure happiness. If you can’t even afford betrothal gifts, then we women will get married and have children.
We wash, cook and take care of the children, but in the end you are unwilling to add our names to the real estate deeds. In the end, we get divorced, and we women’s youth is gone, we have nothing, and we are reduced to the lowest level of society.
Is this a bride price? This is a guarantee. Is it wrong that women deserve better? We just want a guarantee. If the man’s finances are enough to support the marriage, will he still care about this bride price?
In other words, if the man's economy itself is experiencing negative growth, does such a marriage still make sense? If he has a child after getting married, does that mean that the whole family is experiencing negative growth, and everyone is in debt together?
The man's parents didn't have much savings in their generation and were always in debt. When the son's generation was in debt, he married a wife. He disliked his wife and asked for a bride price. After getting married, he also disliked his wife for not being able to take care of the children. He would express his temper at the slightest discomfort.
Most of the daughters-in-law still live with their parents-in-law after they get married. I think they shouldn’t get married if they don’t have their own house.
Marriage must pursue high quality. Going back to the betrothal gift, is the betrothal gift more than 100,000 to 80,000? We girls can save it by ourselves in a year. I think the 500,000 betrothal gift is not much. If a family cannot even afford the betrothal gift,
If you think a woman married you for money, then let me ask you a question, I will give you 100,000, and the man will marry into our family and live with my parents. Your name will not be written on the real estate certificate. You will take care of the children and do housework at home. I
Are you willing to go out and make money to support your family?
Are you men angry about the bride price that we women want? What you are angry about is simply that you think we are not worth so much money. You think we are with you because you are good enough, and we are just paying the price. Back to the debate.
, do you need gift money? I think it is a must!
If a man falls out with you because of the bride price, sisters, do you still believe that they will swear to each other and give everything for you? Find a rich man. It is not because we are vain, but because we know that the rich man will give us happiness.
, who among us is not a little princess who has no worries about food and clothing at home, why should we marry and suffer.
If we want to live a good life, betrothal gifts are a must. This is not because we love money, but because we want to have a better life and life.
To those boys who have no ability and negative assets, I’ll give you a piece of advice. It’s fine to be single. You don’t even need a bride price. In addition to your negative energy, all you have left is your passion.”
Chen Shi looked at the rolling real-time votes. There were 300 spectators present, and now the number of votes was 180. This is still the final vote. At least 30 boys have already recognized Liu Li's point of view, and she is sure to win.
He walked around and returned to his seat with a smile.
"I have long heard that Liu Li is very aggressive. Today, seeing it is better than hearing it. I want to ask you Liu Li, what do you think of capable and incompetent men?" Teacher Xiaosong asked while holding a fan.
"A capable man will not leave problems to others, while an incompetent man will always look for problems in others and blame others for his own shortcomings." Liu Li answered very wittily.
Lao Ma looked at Gou Dan and laughed. It was hard to refute their book. However, he still wanted to know what Chen Shi had. He knocked on the wooden fish and said, "Please ask the next debater to answer. Wait until he finishes."
, I’m introducing him.”
Chen Shi knew that it was difficult for him to argue because he was blocked by the other party. If you said that you don't want a bride price, the audience would definitely think that no matter what you say, you don't want to make women happy, and that your significant other is cheap, etc.
So he had to bring everyone out of Liu Li's thinking.
"Hello everyone, my name is Chen Shi. I'm single. Let's not talk about the bride price first. Let's talk about home. When I was young, I felt that home was my parents. Wherever my parents are, home is home. As I grow older, I feel that as long as I can relax and feel comfortable, my home is home.
It is home. In a larger country, home is responsibility and you can sacrifice everything for it.
Why do we talk about family? Because after the bride price comes home. Now, regardless of men or women, what they consider before getting married is not how to start a family, but what they will get after divorce. What will happen to me? What is this? It is a business, a partnership, and everyone is looking for something for themselves.
The way back.
As for marriage, both words have a female character. The first word for marriage means that a man needs a woman to keep you from falling asleep. The second word for marriage means that he needs a woman to tell you because. The reason here is very broad.
, when you have conflicts with others, is it because you have problems yourself? Is it to remind you that you have been working hard, but without any results, is it because your method is wrong?
There is an old saying that marrying the right wife will bring prosperity to three generations, which means that if a family has a sensible woman, it is important, so women are more important than men in marriage. No one thinks that in marriage, women only give birth to children, take care of children and do housework.
It is often women who want to get something for nothing who use these excuses to change their concepts. They cannot represent outstanding women.
For example, all the women present here are very sensible and excellent. However, the truly independent women have been implicated by this group of lazy women who want to get something for nothing. Just like us men, some men do some things that are outraged by both humans and gods, which also represents
Not all men, you are right."
The host, Lao Ma, nodded, and Chen Shi was slowly unfolding the story. She would not be aggressive first, and let the women present accept her before she could further overthrow Liu Li's structure.
Chen Shijiu said: "Actually, for this debate question, I was asked not to give a bride price. No matter what I said, I wanted to express that I couldn't give a bride price. But then I thought about it again, what is a bride price? It's money, no money.
You can give others, as the other debater said, what women need is a sense of security and happiness. Who is not the little princess in the family now, why should they wrong themselves?
I really want to tell my fellow debater, if you want to give me a gift of 100,000 yuan to marry me, and the children will bear your surname, and the real estate certificate will not give my name, I will take care of the children at home and do housework, and you will support the family. In fact, I am willing, not only
I am willing, and many of the boys present are willing?"
Sure enough, someone shouted yes, yes!
Chen Shi looked at everyone and said: "Yes, in fact, people today have very different concepts from people in the past. Most people don't want to resist pressure. Why should I put this pressure on myself? But I
I would like to ask my fellow debater, in all your words, you say that when a girl gets married, she has to wash, cook, take care of children, and do housework. Now, can you understand the smart home?
You can set up a sweeping and mopping robot for cleaning before going out, you can buy a dishwasher, you can buy a washing machine that combines washer, dryer and washer, and you can buy a lifting clothes drying rack. I advise all men to do more housework, because housework is not something that women have to do alone.
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Housework is solved, let’s talk about having children, I can’t refute my friend, because this is the greatest thing about women. If there is a god in this world, the one we can see and know is a woman, so she is called a goddess, then
The question is, do you represent all women? If you don’t like or want to have children, do other women have to be the same as you?
If not, how would you treat them?
Let’s talk about taking care of children. Nowadays, many young people are worried about the elderly taking care of their children, rather than the elderly not taking care of them. Everyone should know this. I won’t go into details. If you let the elderly take care of the children, take them to two or three years old and send them to early education classes.
School is over from nine in the morning to four in the afternoon. If you want to send your children to and from school, there is no requirement that you have to be a mother, right? Dads can do it too, so you guys can also do it. If the elderly want to pick up and drop off their children, there is no technical content, right?
Here comes another question. Fellow debater, you can go to work. This solves your problems of doing housework and taking care of children. But I would like to ask everyone here, who you know or have heard,
How many grandparents take care of their children and their sons and daughters-in-law pay them wages?
What do grandparents do when they clean and do housework? Or will grandparents be blamed if they don’t take care of their grandchildren? Do they have to take care of their children?
The couple worked to make money, and whenever the elders did not do well, they were complained. This is not just about the daughter-in-law, but the son complained even more. Then family conflicts came, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was tense, and the son became the mediator again.
, but is the situation of the elderly similar to what the other debater said about the daughter-in-law taking care of the children at home and doing housework? This has not yet asked the son and daughter-in-law for money, but they have to spend their own money, right?
Returning to the other debater's question, she gave me a gift of 100,000 yuan. My name was not written on the real estate certificate. The child took her surname. I took care of the child at home and did housework. So I have a conflict with your parents. How do you deal with it?
Are you helping me or your parents? My parents must not care about us, because we are not at my parents’ house, and my parents can travel and dance square dances.”
Gou Dan suddenly sat upright. He wanted to interrupt, but he was afraid of being told that he had seen this guy Chen Shi before. He was very powerful. He was now organizing his own things, and then letting people take care of them bit by bit.
Liu Li's structure was forgotten or even overthrown, forcing everyone to look at an issue from the perspective of a rational bystander.
He hasn't expressed his views at all, but as long as everyone regards the gift money as a problem and thinks about it from a rational perspective, there are N possibilities.
After taking a look at the vote count, there are already fifty votes. This has not yet entered Chen Shi's opinion structure. Once he outputs his true opinions, he may drag everyone into his organizational structure.
This was a result Gou Dan didn't want to see, which made Liu Li very passive.
As expected, Chen Shi began to express his own opinions: "Have you seen a post some time ago? A man and a woman have been in love for seven years, and they are getting married. Because of the bride price, the man has 100,000 yuan, and the woman wants 500,000 yuan as a bride price.
If you don't give it, you won't get married.
The man discussed it with his family, and the man's parents said it was okay and they would find a way. Then the man's sister, who is in high school, suddenly sent a text message to the man. The girl said, Brother, our family is rich, it's 1.5 million.
My sister smashed out her parents’ deposit slips, and my parents sold the house. My parents and sister may have to rent a house in the future. I don’t mean to belittle the woman here, because the man also has a sister.
Let's think about this carefully. If this boy's sister gets married in the future, will she tell her boyfriend that my parents sold the house to my brother to collect the bride price? Your parents can't sell the house to me as the bride price.
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Is it possible? It's very possible. This is called imitating one thing, and the boy's sister may want more. After all, she is only in high school. In the future, the value of money will depreciate, and it may be one million.
The question is, if this girl’s younger sister marries a boy present, or the brother or younger brother of a girl present, will you give this girl a bride price? In the bigger picture, if this girl marries someone present who is known to the audience
, what do you think of this matter?
Is it possible for this to happen? There are nearly 400 people present including the staff, and the relatives and friends of the 400 people add up to 4,000 people. The hit rate of 4,000 is not low, right? It is very likely to happen.
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Did you see it? Is this an issue with the betrothal gift? It is not an issue with the betrothal gift, but a personal issue. It is a very individual issue, but it will cause a chain reaction, and it will become an illusion that if I don’t want it, I will lose.”
Gou Dan wanted to stop Chen Shi from speaking, but was stopped by the host, and Chen Shi evolved the problem again.
